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Luigi, 52

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About Me

I am reinventing and rediscovering my self. Learning, growing, trusting, accepting what the process reveals. I am redefining what's important....what I want and what I need. Making the time to slow, look inward and embrace what I discover as authentic, sincere, unique, imperfect, worthy. Creating and sustaining balance.I am good at listening and hearing what was said, writing, learning music, considering alternatives and befriending cats. Well?......, adolescent as that may sound, I've never met a cat who didn't like me. I once rescued a 5 year old homeless cat (home foreclosed and abandoned) and we lived happily together for nine years.The first things people usually notice about me?.....I am genuinely curious, trustworthy, sensitive to others' true needs, compassionate, creative, intelligent, easy going, I live a relatively simple lifestyle.Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food? Better shared in person but I'll sample a few in each category here.Books? Nonfiction. Poetry. Self improvement.Movies?Shows? My TV is mostly for distraction and mindless entertainment though I once considered myself a "student" of the media. I don't have much invested in home entertainment or a bazillion channels and these days, I am lucky if I have the time to sit through any serial episode let alone an entire season of anything. I don't typically watch/understand sports though I find televised golf events relaxing, especially if Jim Nantz is doing the play by play...one golden voice! I get news from multiple sources including the web, pbs, networks and npr.Music? Chamber music. Jazz Fusion, I like most kinds of music depending on my mood and whether it moves/speaks to me. Always been more of a B side guy and what's left of my record collection is consistent with that.;T/Ides of March....love those early vibrant soulful horn sections!;..her life was truly one of heartbreak). The Nields, Neko Case, the New Pornographers all are remarkably fresh and creative ensembles....I'm just vamping... too many artists and acts to mention here. Oh and BTW, I like Rap. I feel the need to include that as it seems many of you feel it necessary to indicate your dislike of "rap". Like any genre, there is good and not so good but it all shares a distinction as a uniquely American and powerfully expressive form with variations all over the world. There is some modern music I am completely *** and some that is loud, raw and minimally tolerable. I will listen to it to get an idea as to what is out there and make an informed choice to support it or not. Music continues to evolve with new artists and genres and means of distribution which is exciting but more and more, I listen to classical (esp.As for food? Would rather keep it simple. I am not terribly adventurous when it comes to food, cooking, baking or fine dining.I continue learning to do more with less and appreciating more of what is before me and around me. Discovering how to be present to ordinary life and focusing one day at a time. In other words, exercising my five senses and the wealth of experience they interpret around me. I welcome ideas and opinions and will either agree or challenge but will always come away more enlightened with a new understanding.The things I spend a lot of time thinking about are vast and varied and usually change by the hour. These are better shared in person but generally I return to creating a better work/life balance and becoming a better human being, able to embrace and share more of life's positive, unscripted moments.On a typical Friday night I am relaxing or catching up on sleep or unfinished business because my job involves a good deal of travel.I’m looking forCompanionship (friendship with "benefits" if the chemistry is good and consent is mutually and respectfully given).Ages 35–55Near me (1 hour)You should message me if you are curious, patient, have an open mind and are willing to explore, embrace and share the process of discovery. I think an ideal first meeting will be different for each person and will be grounded in that person's interests and individual personality. I would like to learn what those are initially and maybe suggest an activity that includes elements of those. That seems to be the practical, equitable, respectful thing to do.I am looking to meet new friends who would consider dating.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    woman

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    6'3"

  • Eye color

    Hazel

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    No

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    Man. 51 years old. Zodiac sign: Aquarius.

    Looking for: woman. In age: 48-58

    I am a gentlemen and have the greatest respect for all women, and would always treat you as a lady. I am one to keep busy at all times, tinkering with mechanical, and getting involved with my 9year old daughter on weekends. My work as a drywaller, mostly taper I have found to be an art, which keeps my hands,mind and soul very fulfilling. Now enough about me what about you? Well if you got this far, I am thinking this had better be good. However I am pretty well easy to please so, hot chocolate, or slurpy pending weather, or a cold one.

  • Ezra

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    Man. 51 years old. Zodiac sign: Gemini.

    Looking for: woman. In age: 48-58

    Won’t you help me leave this place? From what I’ve read you’ll find this internet profile is one-of-kind. Everything in it is true! That’s right, I actually am 6’ tall. Born in ’62 so I really am 50. Sure the hair is very grey but at least it’s still there. Lastly, and I’m sorry about this one, I look like my pictures.I have 2 great boys, both of whom are now on their own, leaving me with unrestricted time. My friends would describe me as smart, well read and generally just a nice guy, they would also say I'm a great listener, the go-to-guy for advice, but that's likely why they are my friends. You'll just have to discover that on your own I guess.I have a great job, a great group of friends. Since you are wondering yes I'm stable both financially and mentally. I think I have a great sense of humour and enjoy making people laugh. Every time I walk into a room people point and laugh, so I must be doing something right.I'm looking for a woman who will want to compliment my life not complicate it. I will do the same in return. I carry no baggage as it’s not in my nature. I'm ready to seriously move on with life’s next step. I don't need a woman but would like to share life’s treasures with one.If you would like to learn more because there is so much more to me then this, drop me a line. I'm not an endless *** guy. It’s far too easy to fake who you are behind a computer screen. I would like to meet face to face early on and see if that "thing" we are looking for is there. Some sort of activity would be nice. Never coffee. Two problems with that. First I never touch the stuff and second, it becomes like an interview very quickly.Extra bonus points if you ***!!!

  • Reyes

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    Man. 52 years old. Zodiac sign: Pisces.

    Looking for: woman. In age: 49-59

    Ok...so let's start:I'd like first to apologize for the typos I might have... I must confess I'm French Canadian.I enjoy sports and outdoor recreation. I nenjoy helping others.I often volunteer my time as a volleyball referee for highschool and adult league.Basically I love life and love living life.I am a good handyman. I am currently working on fixing up my new house.I am toughtful with a charming sense of humour.***Put this on your***page if you***know someone in the***armed forces or to***show your support***and respect to all***our troops. Let's decide together

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