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Melisa, 43

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About Me

Not so sure about this meetville thing, its so hard to get to know people on here! I'm contemplating remaining single until circumstances lead me to the right guy! :) You will not find another woman like me! I am fan****ingtastic! :) ;-P I am fun, very positive, very giving, and I have an amazing sense of humor. Most people I know tell me that I'm really funny and very nice. I'm also quite levelheaded and it takes a whole helluva lot to set me off. When I love someone , they are very well taken care of! :) If you could describe yourself that way as well then lets chat! Movies: Action, scary movies like The Ring or totally creepy and gross with a gutslinky in it!;)Music: I like a lot of different genres but lately I'm listening to Atreyu, System of a Down, or Rap with a super heavy bass and I like dance/clubmix stuff when I'm working out.Food: I love steak , Mexican , or Chinese !I like being outdoors (like most everyone) and enjoy shooting, fishing- I'm looking for a new pole (no this is not sexual innuendo) lol, roadtrips, just hanging out and relaxing with good people who make me laugh! Seems like everyone on here puts hiking as their interest so I'll skip that and say my interest is making my love happy! My goal is to move South of where I am now within the next two years since my youngest will be grown at that point! Doesn't seem to be a lot of opportunity up here! I'm open to new adventures and learning new things too! ~~ attraction> It helps if you are great looking, tall (over 6'), active and interesting! My last relationship spoiled me ( I might be ruined forever I don't know!) ======= I am attracted to YOUNGER than me guys. I don't look my age- I know it, so I don't find men older than my actual age attractive ... no matter what shape you are in! Sorry!!!About "Average Body" type on this site. There seems to be quite a range in what the definition of this is. It doesn't mean fat or needing improvement. It simply means not an Athlete. Athlete's play sports to stay in shape... like someone on the Sounders team. I take care of myself and I work out to keep myself looking appealing to the opposite sex! Just wanted to clarify that since I see a lot of fatasses calling themselves average. :) A drink and conversation! Something relaxed so we can have fun and see where things go!

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'6"

  • Eye color

    Green

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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    Woman. 45 years old. Zodiac sign: Aquarius.

    Looking for: man. In age: 42-52

    Life is like a box of chocolates, you never know what you're going to get..I love laughing, dancing, yoga. Nature. Good food, wine and coffee. Chocolate :) I love dogs. I plan to travel, international and local. There's so many amazing places to explore... Love all kinds of music, really enjoy live and local shows. Any reason to get dressed up. Kindness, honesty, generosity. Random acts of kindness.I am looking for a man who is inspired by the same qualities.. Meet you downtown at the coffee shop and lets stroll..

  • Colleen

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    Woman. 45 years old. Zodiac sign: Scorpio.

    Looking for: man. In age: 42-52

    Hello,Silly opening considering I am very down to earth. I recently moved from the Carolinas and miss them quite a bit. Why? I loooove to be outdoors. I love to hike, swim, run, camp, walk, bike...I am an artist at heart and I am very compassionate. I believe that people should treat others the way they want to be treated. My goal right now is to live life to the fullest, not to count on a computer only as a tool. My second goal is to move from this are in June. I would like to move somewhere that is somewhat more diverse, or wherever my heart takes me. Another aspiration is to become a better person. We all have things we can change about ourselves and sometimes we need reminders. I think that is fine. I welcome that. How can I fix it if I don't know it is broken. I am an artist at heart and travelled the world for 19 years. It is a great learning experience but eventually it gets old. Good friends are far away and it is nice to have a place to call home. I love music, especially live music. There are two things I cannot live without, music and laughter. If there is no laughter there is no relationship. I have written better descriptions but this will give a pretty good idea of who I am. I treat others kindly even if they are just a face on a screen so to speak. The person on the other end has feelings. Always treat someone as if it was the last time you were going to see them. I like to let people know that they look good or anything positive that I can say. I opt to find the positive in everything. I have had a very trying year and have made it. My outlook now is so different. I am proud of myself and my accomplishments.I love music, it depends on my mood.- The first date should be something special but not a nerve wracking experience. I have found it very pleasing to go out with a man who is mature but loves to laugh. The place doesn't matter it is the person you are with. For me a man who opens a door for me would be very nice. A very elegant restaurant would not make me feel special but uncomfortable. If later we click fine. McDonalds would not be acceptable. If my date would carry on a conversation and know where to take me that would be awesome. It doesn't have to be so sterile that he can't ask but I am a bit tired of telling the man where to go...I am not picky so the effort counts more than anything. A great first date does not include a movie as it doesn't help us get to know one another. Finally a first date that involves anything unexpected would be great. Something silly, fun.

  • Janna

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    Woman. 44 years old. Zodiac sign: Libra.

    Looking for: man. In age: 41-51

    My friend set this account up for me to find me the man that I will spend the rest of my life with. Below is what she wrote.. So you know most of it is right on but she miss a couple of things but for the most part she is right.... This dear friend of mine deserves a great guy and I'm going to help her find you, where ever you are. She's one of the most honest, open and loving persons I've known. She's funny, straight forward, responsible, level headed and always cares deeply about her friends and family. She loves her kids (but doesn't spoil them) loves her dogs (spoils them) has cool cats and a silly bird. Her home is one of happiness and family. She loves camping, fishing and crabbing, 4- She tells it like it is. You don't have to take care of her and her kids, she can do that herself. What she wants is what every woman wants. She wants a man who will hold her hand in public. A man who make her feel appreciated and special. A man who sees how hard she works to make everyone happy and tells her how much that means. Tell her how beautiful she is, inside and out. You don't have to be over the top or super romantic. The little things mean the most to her. The day to day man that you are is who will make her happy. She doesn't ask much, and she gives so much more than she asks in return. What about you?Must NOT haves:Lie about yourself, a user or take advantage of people, expect a woman to take care of you financially, a "victim" of all the other women in your past, too tall (6'4" +), too tiny (4'11"). Looks are not first.Must haves (and nice to haves):Who you are as a person in the world is most important. Can you appreciate a woman who is open-hearted, extremely loyal person, and has been taken advantage of but is not bitter--just wise. Can you be emotionally supportive of a woman who is a GREAT mom and who will do anything (that's in their best interest) for her kids. She wants a man who understands what that kind of love is and not be jealous of it. She won't neglect you--she just doesn't want to have to choose between you. It might be best if you have kids of your own-but not required. Please have a decent job, be free of alcohol or drug abuse,She's a beautiful, vuluptuous woman, have a reasonable expectation of weight and health-this is a real woman, with a real body. If you're looking for a toothpick, keep looking. She is a big, beautiful woman and her priority is a happy home, not being a fitness model. She's my friend and a lady, please treat her as such. She deserves it.The rest about you that would be a plus:Animal lover is a plus-but you don't have to be experienced with them. She has two dogs, cats, and one goofy bird. Love getaways to the coast, cuddle on the couch, stay in most times, but not afraid to go out once in a while, a good sense of humor and a good cook. Weekend brunch at your favorite restaurant, tell me about yourself and what you want out of life. That...or a rave at Burning Man (JK about the second part)

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