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Melisa, 42

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About Me

Revised, renewed, and changed a bit... (well I have so I figured I better do this too!)About me oh, lets see... I am tired of the bar scene, blind dates are awful, and so far this online dating thing is still to be determined. I consider myself very open minded, independant sometimes to a fault, killer organizational skills. I am honest, caring, sharing, and all those other words that describe giver (yes, Pisces). I like to think a true romantic as I seek romance, stomach flops, fireworks, passion, rapid pulse, and goose bumps. I consider myself straight forward and to the point, as I like to tell it how it is and not beat around the bush. But, with that said I do take other peoples feelings into consideration. I live life by the golden rule, Yes the one your mother taught you... Treat others the way you would want to be treated. OK, heres the gutts of it: I am 42 but totally feel like I am 32, My wii fit says I am 26... Really! .. long dark hair, brown eyes, funny, friendly, D&D free, ex smoker. 38C's, CURVES all over. Real teeth and I use soap and tooth paste every day. Now that's a bonus right there. No black hairy moles, and I even shave the legs and pits and trim the forest. I have no warrants for arrest that I am aware of. Home, car, dirty mind, devoted, reliable, gives 110%, empathetic, employed, clean, fair credit but working on it, no lists of regrets, cat like personality, self sufficient, plumber talents, black dress classy or jeans with a t-shirt sexy, nice with a twist of naughty, funny, passionate, barb-wired heart, professional, private, OK somedays my halo is held up by horns but is that a bad thing? OH and real ... plus don't forget the fabulous sense of humor. The whole package. Confessions: I used to drive my car like I stole it on the way to work until gas prices hit the roof. I am a fabulous singer... when I am in my car alone and no one else can hear me. Yes, I do own the left lane of the highway. Love to cook... just hate cleaning up. Coffee must be strong. Pepsi kicks cokes ass except when rum is involved. My favorite sound is my daughter laughing. Toenails should be pretty... no that's not high maintenance. Flip the pillow over for the cold side, leg hanging out of the covers to feel a chill. In any room of the house or with the lights on confident. Loneliness sucks, who doesn't agree with that. Whom do I seek? Yeah good question... Someone like myself, that knows what the word empathy means. I do not judge a book entirely by its cover, its what is inside that intrests me most. Someone that can carry a conversation, write a paragraph, accept faults, and is human. In a perfect world this person would like to share weekends full of excitment, even if simply taking a walk. Someone who will like myself show no mercy while playing Laser Tag. Someone daring enough to try something new (zip line at Greek perhaps) Eventually I would like to find the right person to grow old with, sit on the front porch and watch our grandchildren play in the yard. Someone to sit next to me at the large dinning room table and smile, feeling the complete satisfaction of being a proud parent. Someone that rolls over on a Saturday morning, pushes the hair out of my eyes, as they look deeply into mine, and doesnt mind morning breath. Someone that will value me for who I am and my sincerity, honesty, and my sometimes obsessive organizational skills. Guess that sums it all up. Drop me a line say hello I don't bite... well if provoked maybe! First dates are the hardest, I think a quick meeting to just get the ice broke works the best. Face it you know as soon as you met someone if you are attracted to them or not. There has to be some sort of spark, or the connection is just not made. If you settle with no spark then it is just... not there...Why settle be honest and don't drag it out. We are adults here. I am always smiling over on the yahoo if you find it under mms***.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Other

  • Body type

    Curvy

  • Height

    5'5"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Emily

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    Woman. 41 years old. Zodiac sign: Capricorn.

    Looking for: man. In age: 38-48

    I love hanging out with my friends and spending quality time with my kids. I enjoy music, dancing and meeting new people. I guess you can say that I'm a social butterfly. I'm just looking to date, with the potential of something more but I'm a hard fish to catch. I'm not into players, keep it real, just be honest. Thanks for the interest, it really is flattering but I like my men like I like my chicken, white..

  • Dixie

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    Woman. 41 years old. Zodiac sign: Taurus.

    Looking for: man. In age: 38-48

    Hum, what to say? I'm a single mom of two of the most awesome daughters. I'm a professional in the legal field. I am laid back and fun. I'm honest, outgoing and easy to get a long with. I want to find someone to share my life with and have fun doing it. I believe in karma and my favorite saying is "It is what it is". I'm a giving and affectionate person. I enjoy quiet evenings at home or getting out and having fun. Fishing and camping are my favorite things to do. I believe dancing and cooking go well together. I am not a morning person so it's best not to talk to me until I have had at least one cup of coffee. I love to laugh and kid around. I can be sarcastic but in a funny way. I don't have a mean bone in my body. And I've told I pretty darn funny. I hate drama and games unless it's a movie or a board game. I believe in being honest and upfront. I believe you should do at least one good deed a day no matter how small or big. My ambitions in life are simple: be the best mom I can be, be the best friend I can be, be the best me everyday. Happiness is important and balance is a necessity in life. Of which I have mastered both. I can be goofy at times and out of the blue make a silly face just to make you smile. I'm lighthearted and don't take myself too seriously. I can laugh at myself and do quiet often. Also, if you are just looking for someone to "hook up" with - move along sir. I'm really not interested in any of those shenanigans. I am looking for someone who shares the same ideals as I do. Someone that has a great sense of humor and an all around good guy. I am looking for a long term relationship. Thanks for reading.

  • Winifred

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    Woman. 41 years old. Zodiac sign: Gemini.

    Looking for: man. In age: 38-48

    I'm a very honest person, hard worker, kind, loving, and faithful. I speak my mind. I say what I mean and mean what I say. I am looking for a long term relationship. I like to work, read, go to the beach, take long walks, spend time with family and friends. I am NOT looking for a man to take care of me I can do that myself. I AM looking for someone that will love, respect, and be honest and respectful. I would like to start out as friends, go out spend time together and see where things go from there. ****Also I wanted to say it use to be that the guy would ask the lady out, come pick her up, bring her home, and call her when he said he would. Now when a guy ask a girl out, it's done by text, no one likes to talk anymore, then he wants her to come see him, doesn't want to take her out, or even get to know her, all the man seems to want is to jump stright in the bed. I know times have changed but there has to be at least one honest, faithful, respectful guy left out there somewhere, I just can't seem to find him.**** Maybe go out to eat, then take a walk so we can talk and try to get to know one another. ****No, there is NO CHANCE what-so-ever that you will be spending the night at my house or me at yours the first night we meet, NO CHANCE in having sex with me the first day we meet. If that means I will never see you again, than I don't want to anyway.**** I want to get to know someone first because I want something that will last a lifetime, not something that may last 2 or 3 days. I have respect for myself and want to be with someone that will have respect for me also. Maybe I will find him and maybe not but I refuse to settle for anything less. I am not a mean person, I am just blunt and say what I think. But one thing you can bet on is that I am always honest no matter what.

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