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Abby, 45

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About Me

I'm a strong woman who would love to know a stronger man. I am gentle but not a pushover. I am loyal, honest, positive, and I have no baggage or drama. I like being active, sitting around doing nothing does not interest me, but I like quiet times. I love my job in the legal field and really love going to work each day. I have one son, age 13. I love live music (classic rock, blues, jazz). I tend to be a caretaker and would really like to meet a man who is strong in body and mind, someone stronger than I am. I don't need someone to take care of me, but it would be nice to know he COULD. I love to hike, but I am not intense about it. I love exploration of anything I want to know more about. I love reading and writing, and that is one of the best parts of my job. I also really enjoy hosting holiday parties, backyard bbqs, intimate gatherings. I'm a very passionate person, everything I do, I do with gusto. I'm starting to appreciate cooking after a lifetime of hating being in the kitchen. I also enjoy walking for exercise and have very recently discovered resistance training - but I am neither a fitness queen nor exercise fanatic, I just want to live longer and better.Humor is important to me. You don't need to be a comedian, but a good sense of the absurd, wry, or ridiculous is very appealing. I do a little stand up now and then...I can be raunchy or innocent! I enjoy life! Live music! I do like coffee...perhaps libations at a nice quiet place? Dinner, movie thing is ok but a little awkward. Let's loosen up a bit, don't you think?

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'6"

  • Eye color

    Green

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Katrina

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    Woman. 44 years old. Zodiac sign: Leo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 41-51

    Well hey there....I'm a lover of life who walks a path of love. Scared yet? You shouldn't be. I am living the life that I am destined to live. I have great faith in manifesting and following synchronicities. I am very empathic and intuitive to others' feelings. I believe what I put out into the universe through my thoughts, feelings, beliefs, actions and words are what I receive back. What I focus on, believe, say, do and how I act creates my very reality and life. And, yes Karma! Therefore, I am the most honest, kind, giving, and empathetic person you will probably ever meet. I work professionally in the senior living industry and thoroughly LOVE my job. Working with seniors is incredibly rewarding. I have a 18 year old son and divorced from a ***year marriage. I am 44, approximately 135lb's, and 5'1. My ex and I married very young and there is no drama. We remain great friends. I am not one for a "casual relationship". I tend to have friendships that last lifetimes and relationships that seem to never die. I am a Cancer lady (horoscope) and ruled by the moon. I am drawn to nature and work with herbs creating lots of hand-made goodies. I am a wonderful cook and love to pamper those I care about. I am very attentive to others' needs and am always available for a intellectual discussion or a good laugh. Bringing love to others is what makes me happy. But just in case you think I can be easily persuaded, be forewarned that I am no pushover. I am very careful about who I give my heart to, because once I commit, I give my all. I am very much a "girlie-girl" and keep myself healthy and put-together fashionably. But don't think I don't love to get my hands dirty too! I AM NOT high maintenance. I can take care of myself just fine. Harsh tactics would be the wrong approach to take with me. My feelings over-respond to harsh criticism and in the heat of argument you could say something which could crush me irreparably. I have an excellent memory and will remember everything you said, unfortunately whether you meant it or not. Presently I am looking for a friend to get to know and create something wonderful together. Someone to laugh, and appreciate all that life brings. Love takes time and relationships are not built overnight. I would like someone who is happy and down to earth and non-judgmental. I am Liberal and extremely adaptable to fit in anywhere. I can go from bar-b- I work hard and do not date frivolously or hit the bars on a manhunt. Have never been on a site such as this, and am not sure what to expect, but I guess that depends on you...now doesn't it. ;p On a first date I think its important to have time to chat and relax. Definitely something simple and casual and then see if there is a connection to get together again.

  • Melisa

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    Woman. 43 years old. Zodiac sign: Aries.

    Looking for: man. In age: 40-50

    Not so sure about this meetville thing, its so hard to get to know people on here! I'm contemplating remaining single until circumstances lead me to the right guy! :) You will not find another woman like me! I am fan****ingtastic! :) ;-P I am fun, very positive, very giving, and I have an amazing sense of humor. Most people I know tell me that I'm really funny and very nice. I'm also quite levelheaded and it takes a whole helluva lot to set me off. When I love someone , they are very well taken care of! :) If you could describe yourself that way as well then lets chat! Movies: Action, scary movies like The Ring or totally creepy and gross with a gutslinky in it!;)Music: I like a lot of different genres but lately I'm listening to Atreyu, System of a Down, or Rap with a super heavy bass and I like dance/clubmix stuff when I'm working out.Food: I love steak , Mexican , or Chinese !I like being outdoors (like most everyone) and enjoy shooting, fishing- I'm looking for a new pole (no this is not sexual innuendo) lol, roadtrips, just hanging out and relaxing with good people who make me laugh! Seems like everyone on here puts hiking as their interest so I'll skip that and say my interest is making my love happy! My goal is to move South of where I am now within the next two years since my youngest will be grown at that point! Doesn't seem to be a lot of opportunity up here! I'm open to new adventures and learning new things too! ~~ attraction> It helps if you are great looking, tall (over 6'), active and interesting! My last relationship spoiled me ( I might be ruined forever I don't know!) ======= I am attracted to YOUNGER than me guys. I don't look my age- I know it, so I don't find men older than my actual age attractive ... no matter what shape you are in! Sorry!!!About "Average Body" type on this site. There seems to be quite a range in what the definition of this is. It doesn't mean fat or needing improvement. It simply means not an Athlete. Athlete's play sports to stay in shape... like someone on the Sounders team. I take care of myself and I work out to keep myself looking appealing to the opposite sex! Just wanted to clarify that since I see a lot of fatasses calling themselves average. :) A drink and conversation! Something relaxed so we can have fun and see where things go!

  • Mariana

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    Woman. 44 years old. Zodiac sign: Scorpio.

    Looking for: man. In age: 41-51

    I am secure & happy with myself, but...Life is meant for 2!! A little bit about myself: I enjoy travel, laying on the beach, music, my dogs, & celebrating special occasions, but most of all I enjoy my kids they are my life. I am self-sufficient, independent, honest and I have a good sense of humor. A man who ONLY has eyes for me & can make me laugh are important qualities! No Pressure! Let's just relax...become friends & get to know each other... and see what happens. Really though, I think fun comes from who you are with rather than what you are doing. Good company can make what would have been a mundane experience a great time. I believe honesty and communication are the key to any long lasting relationship. However for the moment I just want to take things slow and have some fun times with a fantastic guy.

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