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Elena, 41

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About Me

I am looking for a relationship that's fun that could lead to something serious. The person I'm looking for will not be a weirdo,i.e., history of mental illness in your family, likes to wear women's clothes, anger issues, psycho, inability to connect with other humans. :o) He'll have a job and a car (i.e., reliable transportation), it is LA after all. He has goals, likes big dogs and has a good sense of humor. Not too much to ask for, right?A little about me....I'm a strong, confident, woman. I'll speak up when I must and let you take the lead when you must.I'm loyal and I tell it like it is. I've been told I'm pretty cute, but I'm not afraid of hard work and getting dirty. I love to laugh, joke and tease, but not at the expense of someone's feelings. I'm tiny, but the best things come in small packages. And fun, gotta have FUN! I don't always think before I open my mouth, but admitting you have a problem is the first step to recovery! ;o)I'm not looking for a fairy tale or for someone to spend me off my feet. Money doesn't matter in the end, if you're still unhappy. Less is more and I do just fine on my own. I'm not a "chick flick" sort of gal, although I've been known to watch them occasionally. I'm actually kind of a sci fi geek. :o) I love my family, my friends and my dog. I have bad knees and migraines, so if high impact sports and wine tasting are your thing, I'm probably not your girl, although I'm a great cheerleader. Also, I often work weekends and holidays but, with a little notice, I can plan ahead for fun. :o)I'm a Nor-Cal girl, so I'm a bit out of my element in this "LA" lifestyle. I'm down to earth, well-adjusted, drama and baggage free, my parents are still married, and I had a normal childhood. WARNING: Any *** individuals using this site or any of its associated sites for studies or projects-you DO NOT have permission to use any of my profile or pictures in any form or forum both current and future. If you have or do, it will be considered a violation of my privacy and will be subject to legal ramifications. A good first date would be one where we could hold a conversation without shouting. ;o)

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Other

  • Body type

    Slim

  • Height

    5'2"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Annabelle

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    Woman. 45 years old. Zodiac sign: Sagittarius.

    Looking for: man. In age: 42-52

    I like to run with my dog...working out..target shooting..hiking, snow skiing...i like heavy metal..but u can find everything from death metal, 80s hair bands, to rap to country on my ipod,,i own my own house and have a rescue dog who is like my son..I do not smoke..don't want a smoker...like to ride backseat on harleys..have tattoos and love them on a man. FYI...Please do not contact me if: you have no photo, have nothing in common with me, if you just look at my pictures and don't read my profile, have drama in your life, have a crazy ex, or are self consumed with yourself, also no game players..liars or cheaters..must not be in a relationship or married..i do have morals and don't want someone that doesn't. Please only REAL SINGLE MEN apply. I work out and expect my significant other to do something physical other than sit on a couch.I am a tomboy and expect my man to be tougher than me. Harleys, tattoos and tall guys are a plus :) I like the bad boy look but responsible and established. Nuff said...now if you have gotten this far to read and feel like you fit the bill..hit me up..if not..please don't waste either of our time. Life is too short. drinks or dinner or a ride on the bike

  • Justine

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    Woman. 44 years old. Zodiac sign: Gemini.

    Looking for: man. In age: 41-51

    I am an independent, professional female looking to get out and enjoy life a little. Positive, laid back and patient, I enjoy doing most anything if the company is good. I enjoy learning about people and learning new things. I love going to the beach,travel, festivals,camping,sporting events, concerts, and backyard BBQ's.Love weekend getaways, even if its the next town over... finding the local flair and enjoying what is offered.Although I am comfortable in most any atmosphere, black tie to roughing it, I prefer an atmosphere that is laid back, as opposed to glamour and the "in crowd"- that gets old fast. Although I love to feel like a woman and be girly, I am far from a high maintenance kind of girl. I am open minded and respect others differences and beliefs. I would like you to be the same. I have a quirky sense of humor and love to laugh. You will see me smiling a lot... starting to get a few smile lines as a result... I think of it as souveniers of a life well lived.I am a little shy at first until I get to know you. Many people have described me as a good listener and someone they can freely talk to. I suppose this is a good quality to have in my profession. Think quiet school teacher :) I do, however, love a good conversation and enjoy hearing another's thoughts, even if they are different from my own.Physically, I never know how to describe because physical traits are in eye of beholder. I would say I am a little on the chunkier side, but I am not obese. Some men find me very physically attractive, and some, I am not their cup of tea. As we age, its always a constant battle to improve ourselves,but I am comfortable with myself, one way or the other. I only add this part because I do not want to be misleading. If you are wanting ultra fit Barbie/adult movie star body, then I am not for you. I am the mother of three adult children and a grandmother. I have spent a large part of my life trying to make a difference in the lives of children. If you don't like children, then you are probably not the one for me.I am a hopeless romantic that is quickly becoming jaded. Why is it so hard to find someone looking for the same things? If you are the following, please contact me:-Single/Divorced-enjoy getting out and having fun/enjoy a quiet evening at home-- are wanting a GOOD girl that knows when to be bad.-are literate: yo mami, your so sexy, TypINg liKe tHis doesn't fly ( I am not grammar police, but please sound like an adult with intelligence)-don't play games- don't leave me guessing because of the three day rule- if you want to text or call then do it- otherwise I am going to take it as a sign you aren't interested.- on that note, Honest. If I am not the one for you, just say we are looking for different things.- aren't completely shallow -are over age 35-are wanting more than a fwb, booty call. I understand it takes time to cultivate a friendship, but DO NOT CONTACT ME if this is only what are wanting. It is wasting MY time.-like having interests of your own, and like your girl to have the same - are wanting to reassure my hopeless romantic self that there are still good guys out there.If you made it through this profile, kudos to you, hopefully I have sparked an interest that will be mutual. I have no ideal first date in mind... what truly matters is the company!

  • Lizzie

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    Woman. 43 years old. Zodiac sign: Virgo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 40-50

    Hi, let me start out saying that the most important person in my life is my child. If you are not kid friendly please stop now but, with that being said, no one meets my child until I think the time is right. I think that small romantic gestures (a wild flower, a loving smile across a room; a phone call just to say I am thinking of you or a sweet note) go a long way in relationships, too often today couples lose the romance. I am not saying that you have to plan elaborate dinners or gifts, just putting the person you are with first, at least part of the time, is wonderful. As for body type I guess technically I have a few extra pounds but I am tall so it kind of looks more average.I am an every day girl that enjoys the simple things in life, not to say I don't like the occasional extravagance. I work in the healthcare field and enjoy it. I love to read and the smell of bookstores, watch movies (no horror), listen to music (all kinds except rap) and even enjoy game night with the friends (love poker). I like to play pool and darts in little neighborhood bars now and then. I am not a club/party type, I like casual settings with people I know having great conversations. As for drinking, the question doesn't offer all the appropriate answers...it needs a once in a while button, I think I had 3 drinks last year. I know what you're thinking...PARTY ANIMAL... ;-) I am looking for someone that puts forth some effort to have a relationship. I have been the one in a relationship to do all the work trying to keep it going, one sided relationships do not work for me and should not work for you either. I think that a first date should be casual and relaxed. Meet somewhere for coffee or even a drink someplace comfortable for both. I feel that good conversation is an important way to get to know someone. If there is a connection great, if not then maybe you have made new friend, it's all good.

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