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Bernadette, 41

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About Me

First of all I wasn't going to get back on this site after the last two guys I dated off here yet changed my mind and I'm not going to give up. I'm just going to lay it out there if I don't respond to your messages don't take it personally unfortunately you may just not be what I'm looking for and I can't respond to all and there are plenty of fish. PLEASE BE LOCAL. So now a little about me I am 41 with 3 children 23, 21, and 11. My youngest is the only one at home. I enjoy many outside activities camping, boating, swimming, running etc... I am looking for a sweet, loving, compassionate man and he must not be possessive especially after the 1st date makes a girl run. I want a man that is attentive, smart and funny. You can't be a couch potato. I love to stay busy and active. If you want to date me and I've responded to you then put effort out if not I'm not going to waste my time. Just keeping it honest and upfront. Dinner or drinks

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'3"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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