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Bernadette, 41

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About Me

First of all I wasn't going to get back on this site after the last two guys I dated off here yet changed my mind and I'm not going to give up. I'm just going to lay it out there if I don't respond to your messages don't take it personally unfortunately you may just not be what I'm looking for and I can't respond to all and there are plenty of fish. PLEASE BE LOCAL. So now a little about me I am 41 with 3 children 23, 21, and 11. My youngest is the only one at home. I enjoy many outside activities camping, boating, swimming, running etc... I am looking for a sweet, loving, compassionate man and he must not be possessive especially after the 1st date makes a girl run. I want a man that is attentive, smart and funny. You can't be a couch potato. I love to stay busy and active. If you want to date me and I've responded to you then put effort out if not I'm not going to waste my time. Just keeping it honest and upfront. Dinner or drinks

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'3"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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    Woman. 44 years old. Zodiac sign: Leo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 41-51

    I am a single mother of two grown children. I've been divorced for 4 years. I enjoy travel, good wine, good conversation, walks on the beach, strolling through interesting quaint towns, antiquing, dancing, shopping, good movies, and nice dinners. Would love to meet someone who has similar interests. Would prefer someone who is educated as well as emotionally, financially and physically sound. I am most attracted to guys who are physically fit and somewhat taller. I would prefer meeting a gentleman who has grown children. Sorry, to say, I love kids but don't always like the "baby mama drama" with some guys and their exes..lol..no offense to anyone. Also, my ex husband and I parted amicably, hopefully that is the case with you?? ; ) Nothing harms a new relationship faster than old hurts that re-surface. I am only asking for what I could provide as well. I am confident that the right one is out there!!! Could it be you? Thank you for reading my profile!! Hope to hear from you!!P.S. An automatic delete: " I am 40 going on 30"..denial is a powerful thing, but I don't want to be there to comfort you during your mid-life crisis. Also, pics that are shirtless (unless you're on the beach ), blurry, over 5 years old , you with a former wife, girlfriend, lover, tranny whatever.?? Are you serious? Someone who says they are very "European" in their outlook, aka "Gigolo"..no thanks. I could go on, but really common sense ain't so common. Especially, on here. Happy Fishing.LOL!!!! Coffee and conversation..or vino and apps. Keep it casual.

  • Lenore

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    Woman. 43 years old. Zodiac sign: Capricorn.

    Looking for: man. In age: 40-50

    Hi! Thank you for reading my profile. I am a woman seeking to find TRUE LOVE and friendship. I want my match to be my BEST friend. I am caring, creative, sweet, silly, affectionate, intense to laid back, thoughtful, open, a talker, great communicator, sensitive, supportive, hip, cool, GREAT mom, sister, daughter, grounded, driven, affectionate, funny, very girly, friendly, nurturing, I love to love, love to be loved, and love to have FUN. My perfect match would be loving, love to be LOVED, honest, trusting, GOOD communicator, emotionally available and ready, a gentleman, old-fashioned, Family Oriented, hip, adventurous, ambitious, driven, genuine, intelligent, handy, emotionally ready to find his lifetime partner, grounded, committed, affectionate, sensitive, silly, playful, fun, friendly, sweet, must LOVE kids, family, and like animals! I don't believe there is anyone or anything that is "perfect"; however, I want to find the person who is PERFECT for me! I am done finding "Mr. Right NOW....I want MR. Right! I am looking for the REAL thing! Soulmates! Best Friends! No one can start a new beginning....but anyone can start today and make a new ENDING! True love doesn't have an ending though does it? I can't WAIT to find you, meet you, and LOVE you for the rest of my life! **I am interested in a long term relationship, NOT casual dating. I do however, want to take it slow so I can enjoy every single moment of falling in LOVE. I have waited this long to find him, once I do, I will cherish EVERY SECOND!

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    Woman. 42 years old. Zodiac sign: Cancer.

    Looking for: man. In age: 39-49

    Thank you for checking out my profile! I am a down to earth, girl next door type of person. I love to make people laugh! Laughter is the best medication! I enjoy hanging out with my friends and kiddos which 2 are grown. I love camping, fishing, dancing , sitting by a nice camp fire! I am a very hard working person and I love my job very much. I am looking for a long term relationship but in order to get there there must be a connection and attraction. Granted it isn't going to happen right away... So yes it takes dating to get to know someone. The reason I say that is because I did check long term relationship.. The must important thing I really need to say is that if you are looking for a booty call or someone just to hang with... I'm not for you! If you would like to know more please ask! The official first date could be dinner and a nice conversation, drinks and dancing.. but would like to do a "meet & greet" before the the first official date..Pretty easy going so we can plan it together or surprise me :)

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