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Bernadette, 41

Offline, last seen Mon, 27 Apr 2026 02:24:54

About Me

First of all I wasn't going to get back on this site after the last two guys I dated off here yet changed my mind and I'm not going to give up. I'm just going to lay it out there if I don't respond to your messages don't take it personally unfortunately you may just not be what I'm looking for and I can't respond to all and there are plenty of fish. PLEASE BE LOCAL. So now a little about me I am 41 with 3 children 23, 21, and 11. My youngest is the only one at home. I enjoy many outside activities camping, boating, swimming, running etc... I am looking for a sweet, loving, compassionate man and he must not be possessive especially after the 1st date makes a girl run. I want a man that is attentive, smart and funny. You can't be a couch potato. I love to stay busy and active. If you want to date me and I've responded to you then put effort out if not I'm not going to waste my time. Just keeping it honest and upfront. Dinner or drinks

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'3"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Gina

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    Woman. 42 years old. Zodiac sign: Virgo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 39-49

    I enjoy daily outdoor activity- hiking, walking, paddleboarding and most anything active. I enjoy meditating regularly and studying spirituality. Looking forward to staying in the area and having a healthy lifestyle. I am sensitive and perceptive. Enjoy thinking creatively and independently. I enjoy a variety of music but tend more toward classic rock or world music. Meeting at a coffee shop for a drink and conversation would be nice or something else.

  • Nita

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    Woman. 42 years old. Zodiac sign: Leo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 39-49

    I'm a mom and a grandma. not into games and never want to be second best. I love life and look forward to learning as the days go by. I am me nothing special.

  • Kayla

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    Woman. 43 years old. Zodiac sign: Leo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 40-50

    The most important thing to me in a relationship is communication. If you can not talk to each other about everything then it isn't going to work. You have to be best friends. Also, it is the little things that matter. Writing little notes or sending messages to just say hi and miss you. I'm an affectionate person who enjoys kisses and hand holding.I enjoy music quite a bit. Really enjoy live music. It can set the mood or make a mood. Who doesn't enjoy the fireplace suggled up with the person who care about.Traveling is important. Going away for the evening or a week just to experience life. It is short let's enjoy what the world has to offer us.I am happy with my life and enjoy it very much. I'm looking to enhance it with a healthy fun relationship. A homemade dinner is nice when both of us are in the kitchen listening to music having a glass of wine talking while cutting of ingredients. I'm not sure why people are surprised I have tattoos.**Please be sure you are in place in your life where an exclusive relationship would work and what you want. If you are on here to pass the time, think that you should have someone in your life or just like to date and meet lots of people please pass me by. I'm not against making new friends but there is *** I don't feel like being anyones means of passing time. A walk in the park, having coffee sitting in a big leather chair someplace, meet for lunch, or a drink out on a deck.

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