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Madelyn, 42
United States, Ohio, Troy

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About Me

HelloI am on this site as it can be difficult to meet someone of substance who wants the same things I want. I am a fun,easy going yet determined person,looking for the love of my life.I realize this is life and not a movie, I am more than willing to put in 110% but I expect that in return. I am looking for a long term relationship,leading to marriage and children. Yes I want a family and all that comes with it. Life is about people and experiences so I am trying to do as much as I can to fulfill the dreams I have right now.I prefer a man who is into fitness and staying somewhat in shape....but you don't have to have a six pack. Just want to be the best version of yourself you can be. I date one person at a time,that's it. This is also what I am looking for in you. I would love to find a man who I can see possibly a few times a week(eventually),not once a week.So you can't live in another state or even upstate. I am looking for honesty and someone who can communicate. If I say something, I mean it and this is all I ask of you...life is about all the "small" moments...but in reality they are the BIG moments. I love to travel as well as stay home. My family is very important to me and I see them often.I became an aunt and it brings me more joy than I could have ever known. I love going to the beach,boating,getting in a kayak and exploring,I try to cook(lol) and love to bake. I believe in living a healthy life,yet do not deprive myself and have fun as well. I love a guy who can make me laugh.If you're looking for the real thing,and believe actions speak louder than words....I'd love to hear from you. I'd love to find someone who I can't wait to be with after a long day of work,my first call in the morning and my last at night....Apparently this needs to be said...please know how to read..reading my profile is a start.... I think meeting for coffee or a drink is fine when you are first meeting someone....now the second date...Italian with wine and good food and conversation....

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Yes

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Athletic

  • Height

    5'5"

  • Eye color

    Green

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

Chinese Irish Portuguese Action Documentary Family & Kids Sport Dirt Bike Racing Shooting Sports Volleyball
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