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Benita, 45

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About Me

Well like I stated above, I'm here just peeking about. I have not dated for over 6 yrs. I have an 14 yr boy, and I enjoyed the time w/ just us. I live a quiet life. Do not like to be around drama or chaos. I love being outdoors (usually doing yard work). I love to read. Going to parks. Camping,Barbeques. Love the beach but not around here huh? City girl stuck in a ghost town. A different way of life for awhile.I do say what's on my mind. Very straight forward. Know what I want and like. When we get older we don't mess around..LoLI'm a pretty goofy girl, and am always smiling. Am not looking for a bump on a log kind of guy. Must be energetic and happy. Would like to meet someone my age or younger.I enjoy most kinds of music, (not Country). Classical, heavy rock, mainstream. Favorite bands..311, Nine Inch Nails, Black Eyed Peas,The Black keys, Josh Groban..you get it.I'm a conservative, so If you are a Liberal we cannot talk..Lol.I am not looking for someone to take care of me. Am super independant. Not looking for a father for my son either. Just a friend.PS I am not your cowgirl!! On first dates I want to feel relaxed. Time spent at a park or a bite to eat is nice.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Other

  • Body type

    Slim

  • Height

    5'6"

  • Eye color

    Green

  • Smoke

    Yes, regularly

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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    Woman. 43 years old. Zodiac sign: Aries.

    Looking for: man. In age: 40-50

    Me: I'm an outgoing, confident, caring, fun-loving, glass half-full woman. If it's a glass of good wine, even better! My two boys (7 and ***are the apples of my eye and keep me on my toes! I truly believe that I have gotten better with age. I love to travel and explore. But it can also be nice to cuddle up on the couch and watch a movie together by the fire. I am a girly-girl who doesn't mind getting her hands dirty. I LOVE to be outside whether it is sitting on the patio by the fire with steaks on the grill and a****ail in my hand or camping (RV please!) at the lake. I'm a floater! I am fiercely loyal and nurturing. And I want a man in my life who is the same. I'm drawn to kind, considerate, funny, smart, masculine men who are confident without being****....and who know how to treat a woman. I appreciate a man who holds the door open, etc.If you don't have time for a relationship and don't want a true partner, then I am not your girl. But if you want a partner to share life experiences with and aren't scared of the fact that I have two (amazing) kiddos, then I might be the one for you. If you are a commitment phobe, I'm not for you. I give 100% to a relationship, and I am looking for someone who can and wants to do the same. I believe a successful relationship includes equal parts of couple time, family time and me time. I'm old fashioned and think that the man should pursue the woman, so if you genuinely think we are a match please send me a message. You: You are masculine but kind; attentive; have your own opinion but are open minded; have some things in common with me but can also bring something new to the relationship; open doors for women; like a woman who is nurturing; look forward to eating my cooking. When I have a bad day, you meet me at the door with a warm embrace. You like going for walks, taking Sunday drives in the country, visiting the City Market and visiting wineries and breweries. Spending a day on the lake and an evening by the campfire sounds like heaven to you. I also do not date married men, so if you are currently separated please do not message me. Loves - my children; coffee;****ails with friends; travel; warm weather; autumn; campfires; working in the yard or on my house; time at the lake; time with friends; grilling outside; good music; good books; exploring, going for drives; wineries and breweries; Dislikes - smoking; onions; cold weather; mean, negative, close minded people; people who rush on to the elevator before you get off and who pass you on the shoulder in construction zones. Dealbreakers - smoking, drugs, players, drama, DUIs, married men, dirty teeth If you are interested, please send me an *** know what in my profile made you think that we might be a match. I look forward to hearing from you. We meet for a mini date (one hour) to see if there is chemistry.

  • Matilda

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    Woman. 43 years old. Zodiac sign: Pisces.

    Looking for: man. In age: 40-50

    I am me .Free spirited. Caring.Unique.Compassionate.Passionate.Energetic.I laugh easily and have a calm personality.I love to explore new things.Food...cultures...countries...music. I enjoy life. I love animals and am involved with cat rescue which is very satisfying.I am casual and happy with a great sense of humour and I can be formal and happy.It is the company that matters most.I have a lot of fun in life, whether I'm out by myself or with friends I am a people person.People are interesting, their stories, their lives, their experiences. Sharing those experiences with people I care for is one of the best things in life....I am good at Being a good person. Respecting life.I am good at all aspects of sports and fitness. I also enjoy hiking..cooking..exploring everything.I enjoy dancing and cycling.I enjoy company but also I enjoy alone time.I love to travel.I travel a lot and love experiencing new countries and local life.I like all music except heavy metal and country and western.I love to experience new foods and cultures.I am not huge on tv.The only tv I watch is documentaries and BBC .I don't have any one favorite movie but tend to give all new releases except violent and horror ones a watch.When I am not flying I co teach aerobics and cardio dance and I am passionate about fitness.I am currently working on a cognitive fitness program which is fun and interesting. To get to meet after having cyber chatted and to see if there is commonality .Somewhere not too noisy so we can chat and discover each other

  • Marci

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    Woman. 45 years old. Zodiac sign: Scorpio.

    Looking for: man. In age: 42-52

    I am def a pretty versatile person...I like to try just about anything. I keep pretty active and work out daily. I enjoy going to concerts, amusement parks,zoos, movies, dinner and shows. I also really like staying home and hanging out as well with take out and a movie or working around the house. The summer is a nice time to go to the beach or do a little boating as well.I like to go for walks and do anything that is outside! I love animals and would hope my mate would as well.Im big into music and like most types but my favorite is probably alternative. I can send a pic but just dont have it posted because I am kind of private. Does any of this sound like you? First dates can be tough. Both people can be a little nervous in those first few moments. I think getting a quick cup of coffee or a drink is ideal. This way there is less pressure. Then if we hit it off and want to continue we could get something to eat or go for a walk or something.

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