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Benita, 45

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About Me

Well like I stated above, I'm here just peeking about. I have not dated for over 6 yrs. I have an 14 yr boy, and I enjoyed the time w/ just us. I live a quiet life. Do not like to be around drama or chaos. I love being outdoors (usually doing yard work). I love to read. Going to parks. Camping,Barbeques. Love the beach but not around here huh? City girl stuck in a ghost town. A different way of life for awhile.I do say what's on my mind. Very straight forward. Know what I want and like. When we get older we don't mess around..LoLI'm a pretty goofy girl, and am always smiling. Am not looking for a bump on a log kind of guy. Must be energetic and happy. Would like to meet someone my age or younger.I enjoy most kinds of music, (not Country). Classical, heavy rock, mainstream. Favorite bands..311, Nine Inch Nails, Black Eyed Peas,The Black keys, Josh Groban..you get it.I'm a conservative, so If you are a Liberal we cannot talk..Lol.I am not looking for someone to take care of me. Am super independant. Not looking for a father for my son either. Just a friend.PS I am not your cowgirl!! On first dates I want to feel relaxed. Time spent at a park or a bite to eat is nice.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Other

  • Body type

    Slim

  • Height

    5'6"

  • Eye color

    Green

  • Smoke

    Yes, regularly

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Jeri

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    Woman. 43 years old. Zodiac sign: Aries.

    Looking for: man. In age: 40-50

    Me: I'm an outgoing, confident, caring, fun-loving, glass half-full woman. If it's a glass of good wine, even better! My two boys (7 and ***are the apples of my eye and keep me on my toes! I truly believe that I have gotten better with age. I love to travel and explore. But it can also be nice to cuddle up on the couch and watch a movie together by the fire. I am a girly-girl who doesn't mind getting her hands dirty. I LOVE to be outside whether it is sitting on the patio by the fire with steaks on the grill and a****ail in my hand or camping (RV please!) at the lake. I'm a floater! I am fiercely loyal and nurturing. And I want a man in my life who is the same. I'm drawn to kind, considerate, funny, smart, masculine men who are confident without being****....and who know how to treat a woman. I appreciate a man who holds the door open, etc.If you don't have time for a relationship and don't want a true partner, then I am not your girl. But if you want a partner to share life experiences with and aren't scared of the fact that I have two (amazing) kiddos, then I might be the one for you. If you are a commitment phobe, I'm not for you. I give 100% to a relationship, and I am looking for someone who can and wants to do the same. I believe a successful relationship includes equal parts of couple time, family time and me time. I'm old fashioned and think that the man should pursue the woman, so if you genuinely think we are a match please send me a message. You: You are masculine but kind; attentive; have your own opinion but are open minded; have some things in common with me but can also bring something new to the relationship; open doors for women; like a woman who is nurturing; look forward to eating my cooking. When I have a bad day, you meet me at the door with a warm embrace. You like going for walks, taking Sunday drives in the country, visiting the City Market and visiting wineries and breweries. Spending a day on the lake and an evening by the campfire sounds like heaven to you. I also do not date married men, so if you are currently separated please do not message me. Loves - my children; coffee;****ails with friends; travel; warm weather; autumn; campfires; working in the yard or on my house; time at the lake; time with friends; grilling outside; good music; good books; exploring, going for drives; wineries and breweries; Dislikes - smoking; onions; cold weather; mean, negative, close minded people; people who rush on to the elevator before you get off and who pass you on the shoulder in construction zones. Dealbreakers - smoking, drugs, players, drama, DUIs, married men, dirty teeth If you are interested, please send me an *** know what in my profile made you think that we might be a match. I look forward to hearing from you. We meet for a mini date (one hour) to see if there is chemistry.

  • Maribel

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    Woman. 41 years old. Zodiac sign: Sagittarius.

    Looking for: man. In age: 38-48

    I am a very out goin person ... i have 2 teenager an a 23 year :) if tht tells u anything they are just like me we live in the country an we all love football an can play it :) we like mudd riding an 4 wheelin an cooking ,swimming ext..... just about anything tht goes with outside u will find all of use there ! I work alot but on my off days they got my time I am a asst Manager of a retail store where I live at an work long hours . I aint about any DRAMA I deal with enough of tht at work I dont wont any of tht in my home life at all ! I live my home life easy goin an bein happy :)... I am a simple kinda of person an tht is hard to find in real people these days cause real hearted people are heard to find as well !!!!!! I would like my first date to be something simple an easy :) .... like go an buy some steaks an take them home an fire up the grill an put them on the grill an then i would light the candles on the table an then i would fire up the pit an as we sit by the fire would could just cuddle an talk an get to know more about each other this way there aint anyone else around to talk to or anything else .... so we know if its ment to work or not !

  • Rosanna

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    Woman. 41 years old. Zodiac sign: Capricorn.

    Looking for: man. In age: 38-48

    PIC'S PLEASE :) and goin to say this rite out if you dont want to meet or just lookin to get laid and if your not over your ex.dont even contact me!!! I Am serious -don't waste my time or yours. If you are read on ... I'm a strong believer you have to have attraction between two people!!for me im a easy outgoin straight up honset .foward working girl (I'm self emp). I love the outdoors..and i go to the gym ***times a week I am very. active and looking for the same I love the summer..beaches..parks.movies..love to travel when i can.(e.t.c.) I Like to go out to dinners- Which me and my 15-year-old daughter do quite a bit of.... I'm very family orientedI'm not looking to just get laid if I wanted that I can go to the bar and I'm sure I can get that for a night ..so if you are just lookin for a friend with benefist I'm not the girl. Don't even contact me.. I'm lookin for a lot more! I'm not into the bar scene anymore dont drink am into sobertiy -I dony play head games and dont want headgames played with me and all that drama bullcrap... im just looking for that special goodlookin guy... To me there has to be Attraction and Chemistry that is a must!!!! ya have to have that between 2 people I belevie less it won't work expecially attraction and then all the other things that come along with that honesty. Carnin lovin and that just enjoys life with each other...lifes to short to be mean and misarble.. I like to take things slow and. then see were it goes...lifes not a rush . to me anyways its not....so if you. think u like to chat here iam...and pleazzz dont ask me to send ur dirty pics and all that bullshit....cause im not into that..so here iam if ya like to get to know one another.and yes I have a 15 .yr.old daughter that is my world .shes My littleside kick ;-)AND PLEASE A PICTURE OF URSELFYOU SEEN MY PICTURE ..FAIR IS ONLY FAIR!!!!! :).....And just for u guys that think iam on line and get really defensive if I don't respond right back. To me that's not a very good impression of yourself.. I am not probley not online. If i dont respond back i just never log out you can leave me a message.. I.do check them when I have the time and I will get back with ya .as soon as i can ...So if you Think ya like to chat Here I am:) dinner..movie/..get to know one another start out as friends hang out..don't drink anymore so no bars.I figure ya can havd fun without boozein it... then I believe you should not drink on the first date anyways .:)

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