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Benita, 45

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About Me

Well like I stated above, I'm here just peeking about. I have not dated for over 6 yrs. I have an 14 yr boy, and I enjoyed the time w/ just us. I live a quiet life. Do not like to be around drama or chaos. I love being outdoors (usually doing yard work). I love to read. Going to parks. Camping,Barbeques. Love the beach but not around here huh? City girl stuck in a ghost town. A different way of life for awhile.I do say what's on my mind. Very straight forward. Know what I want and like. When we get older we don't mess around..LoLI'm a pretty goofy girl, and am always smiling. Am not looking for a bump on a log kind of guy. Must be energetic and happy. Would like to meet someone my age or younger.I enjoy most kinds of music, (not Country). Classical, heavy rock, mainstream. Favorite bands..311, Nine Inch Nails, Black Eyed Peas,The Black keys, Josh Groban..you get it.I'm a conservative, so If you are a Liberal we cannot talk..Lol.I am not looking for someone to take care of me. Am super independant. Not looking for a father for my son either. Just a friend.PS I am not your cowgirl!! On first dates I want to feel relaxed. Time spent at a park or a bite to eat is nice.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Other

  • Body type

    Slim

  • Height

    5'6"

  • Eye color

    Green

  • Smoke

    Yes, regularly

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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