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ElenaOffline
Woman. 43 years old. Zodiac sign: Aries.
Looking for: man. In age: 40-50
Does this EVER get ANY easier? I am a Mom .... raising 2 daughters that take up a lot of my time.. I work, and travel from time to time for my job. In the past, dating was not very easy for me, however when I do have free time... I like to have plans to spend with that SPECIAL "ONE".I want to be VERY upfront and say that if you are on this site, to "prowl" and "score" I am NOT INTERESTED. IF you are NOT looking for an eventual SERIOUS LTR. Please do not waste either of our time. I HONESTLY want to spend the free time I have with someone who is looking towards the future. If you are still in LOVE with your ex... Married.... Newly Separated..... or just a Gigilo...I am not interested. I am in my 40's and KNOW what clicks for me and what does not. I prefer men that are over 5 foot 9, , call it "shallow";something" I won't compromise on. I do not like to be taller than the MAN I am with. Hey, honesty.....is FOREMOST!Some things that I have to be HONEST and put out there : I do not want to come across as negative.. but can we just be real and get to what we REALLY like and want, and don't?1: If you are not really interested in a committed future, however YOU have that in your profile, the only thing that says about you is that from the START you are DISHONEST..and that does not work for me.. A "relationship" can not begin when based on dishonesty.2: IF YOU SAY you are a NON SMOKER... I sure hope that you ARE... and BELIEVE me I will know and SMOKING is a DEAL BREAKER for me. I am a VERY honest person and that is a quality I take seriously. I will ALWAYS be honest....3: I am VERY attracted to a man with a great smile..it is the FIRST thing that I notice.... a SMILE says soo much about a person's inner soul.. IF you are not smiling in ANY of your photos, chances are you are not very happy and I like to surround myself with Happy People. So if I do not respond to your message if your pix looks like a nasty mug shot with a DEAD BLOODY animal or you are pointing a 12 gauge at me ... hmmm I will not be responding. I don't mean to sound harsh, but a SMILE is KEY! 4: I can RESPECT the profiles w/out photos because of your job etc.. HOWEVER... YOU MUST *** PHOTO or I WILL NOT RESPOND... If you think about it .... it is PRETTY CREEPY "messaging" a Person with NO FACE... and I WON't make an exception.... 5: Also , please spell check your profile and your messages..... or have someone do it for you....6: I am very interested in finding out a little bit about you .... BEFORE ANY numbers are exchanged..I DO NOT GIVE OUT MY NUMBER ... My daughters also "play on" or use my phone because I do not believe that a 10 year old "needs" a cell phone. I do not just hand out my number to have texts and photos sent to my phone.. call me OL' fashioned... HOWEVER, I feel that we have lost the intrique of the "courting or dating" stage.. I have an IM and there is a "chat" feature on this... and AT FIRST that is how I would like to communicate. ..they gave us the tools... let's USE them.... and take it from there... PLEASE DO NOT ask me to send you "THOSE PIX".... you don't even KNOW me..... ALL of these things WILL follow ... natural progression .. IF it is "right"...VERY VERY IMPORTANTI AM COMPLETELY SET ON THE "WANTS" that I have indicated... the WHAT I AM INTERESTED IN... WHAT I AM LOOKING FOR.... I am not on this site to collect profiles and spend hours reading through messages from men that do NOT match my criteria AT ALL... I know what kind of man SPARKS my interest.... and what kind INTERESTS me to find out more about. NOT to come across as "Shallow" but, if I say 5' 9" and you are 4' 11" I probably won't respond... I appreciate the compliments .. I honestly do.... But PLEASE can we be HONEST... we ALL know as grown adults WHAT makes us "tick" and what doesn't... that is just an example.... it goes for ALL my other preferences as well. THAT is why they ASk..... :)Now Guys, as many of the other "ladies" on this site may appreciate or LIKE a photo of you HALF NAKED "PUMPING IRON" at the GYM in the mirror or taking pix of yourself in a bathroom with a urinal in the background ...or ALL of your pix are only of your half naked body.....there are many , INCLUDING ME that think that is a BIT CREEPY... leave something to our imagination...AS FOR ME....I am fun , and witty, and like to do just about anything...at least once. I enjoy time with friends and I always make an effort to make people smile.. I am Passionate, and Fun and Honest. I like to put on my heels and go out to dinner or put my hair in a baseball cap and go to a Hockey game or other sporting event. I am attracted to TALLER Men (over 5 foot 9) because I have a CLOSET of shoes that I love to wear when I am not playing Mom's Taxi or in my cleats on the softball field.. I like to look my best when going out with My "man".. That may sound "shallow" but it is a "chemistry thing with me... If I tower over you when I have my jeans and heels on, I just can't feel the "chemistry" everyone has their "thing".I get messaged a LOT "WHY ARE YOU SINGLE"? Well.... I'm single simply because I have raised my girls alone, and they are and have been my focus.. I am not one of these women that puts their children second just to go on dates.. I honestly in 5 years have only been on 6 dates from this site. I love to smile and laugh, cook and garden. I like to spend time with friends and go out every so often.. I coach girls softball, and try to be as active in the kids school activities as my work schedule allows. I will ALWAYS give 110%......... ALWAYS... I think that meeting in a PUBLIC place is #1 MOST IMPORTANT...:) Maybe for a Drink somewhere to see if there is that "spark" then if we choose move onto to app's or dinner, or movie.. Then if there is that "CHEMISTRY" let the adventure begin! ohhh and IF your profile says NON SMOKER! PLEASEEEEEE make sure YOU are a TRUE NON SMOKER... because as GREAT as you are.. I can NOT/ will NOT date a SMOKER.. So PLEASE DON't LIE! that is an *** ender..
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ElnoraOffline
Woman. 41 years old. Zodiac sign: Cancer.
Looking for: man. In age: 38-48
I am mother first. With huge love of music and shooting guns. I love the ocean, any time I can be in or near the water, I am. If I could do anything it would be to learn to play guitar. I support our soldiers. I like riding horse and Harley's. I give 100% to my relationships. To my children. My close friends. My fam. The right guy just hasn't come along. I have 2 dogs, a cat and 2 lizards. I don't shoot animals and I don't want to hunt. I enjoy target shooting and would really like to train to do long distance competitive shooting. I'm very outspoken. And I want someone who is the same. Someone who will be my best friend and lover. Who loves a free spirit and music and who knows a friendship with my kids will be important to "get the gold" lol cuz you won't last long if you aren't genuine. Trust me baby I can't be faked out. Lol see ya on the flip side! Hope to hear from you. Shooting range. Dive bar with a juke box, sitting on the bank of the river... Whatever ... You wanna do, within reason. No pervs. I will call you out on it. Peace!
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JudithOffline
Woman. 43 years old. Zodiac sign: Aries.
Looking for: man. In age: 40-50
I feel I am well balanced in my life....happily divorced and have two beautiful daughters. I chose to go it alone, so there is no drama there. For me, at this point in my life, I want to find that someone who is on the same page as me. I am looking for real ...nothing more...nothing less. I am caring....kind....out spoken at times and not afraid to share all my thoughts and feelings and would like to find the person who will do the same.It is tough to write about ones self. I want to laugh and enjoy all the fun life has to offer with another(seriously:)...who doesn't). I could go on and on, but I would rather talk than type for someone to get to know all about me.....and me to get to know another. Just bring real....we all have a story and a journey that got us from there to here. Life is so short....I am interested in, the Man for Me....and Me for He. The ride along the way is fun,as life should be. Here are some of my favorite quotes that I believe in...."Life is short. We are only here once, but if you live it right.....once is enough".....(read it)"Every moment you are spending with the wrong one......is a moment you are not spending with the right person"......(read it)" Love does not hurt"....(heard it)" Once the mind is made up.....the body has no choice but to follow"......(own it)