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About Me

Good hearted, responsible, self sufficient, Ephesians woman that enjoys deep conversations, comedy, sports spectating (football, basketball, boxing, MMA, soccer, etc.) and loves to fish for her supper. Yes, I can bring it home and "fry it up in a pan"! LOL! I'm an identical twin but we couldn't be more opposite in life. I am of the artistic nature and love to paint and create art out of almost anything. Traveling is a wonderful hobby and I go when I can.I like the "different kinda guy". I love dark skin. (My preference). Charming in his own unique way. A man that knows how to be a man, responsible, adventurous and realizes that there are some of us special ladies out there that are not gold diggers or always a damsel in distress. I wish everyone the very best in your search. A first date is all about expectations. You are expecting what "what you see is what you get" from photos posted. Men are visual, without a doubt. That's normal. I expect good conversation, a little ol' school charm and my heart to flutter (just a bit). A first real date should (in my opinion) be after a first initial meeting (a glass of wine or cup of coffee) to determine if there should be a first date. Do you agree?

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'5"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Heathershort

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    Woman. 37 years old. Zodiac sign: Aquarius.

    Looking for: man. In age: 20-40

    Hi! My name is Heathershort. I am divorced other caucasian woman with kids from Troy, Ohio, United States. Now I'm looking for new relationships. I want to meet a man, love of my life.

  • Judy

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    Woman. 43 years old. Zodiac sign: Capricorn.

    Looking for: man. In age: 40-50

    I'll light up your life. I LOVE to cook and bake.; sunset, a cool breeze on a HOT summer's day, reading, cuddling, watching movies, kissing (I've been told I'm a great kisser), computer(s), playing wii...Zumba, gardening, landscaping, holding hands, walking, exercise, shopping, traveling, and eating out. I like a variety of other activities like relaxing, listening to music (all types), house chores, laying in the sun, watching sports (live or on tv), mountain biking on & off trails, hiking, drawing, painting, and running.I'm respectful, appreciative, honest, loyal, caring, nonjudgmental, kind, and loving. I wear my heart on my sleeve. When I LOVE a someone it's UNCONDITIONALLY. When I love that special someone it's not just the good but, it's also the bad, that's what unconditional love is. We all have our flaws, including me. I know I'm not perfect. We are all unique.Understanding each others likes and dislikes and sharing an open line of communication. Because I believe communication is key in a relationship.It doesn't matter how far or close you live from me. I'm willing to travel to meet you and see what happens. Also, I can relocate for a serious relationship. I have no ties to the area I live. So, take a chance and message me. Lets see if we could be the perfect one for each other. I would like to get reciprocated for massages and I do give a mean massage The sense of touch is healing and makes us all live longer. And I want to live until I'm a ***with you!!! I want to grow old with a special man.It doesn't mean I will live to 102, I am being optimistic when I say I want to...I do want to find my someone special to be around my age or close to it. Please, please, please if you don't know how to spell then try rereading what you have written before you send it. meetville does point out misspelled words with a red underline. Then select the word and figure out the replacement word. It is not hard. But, it hard to read. Thank you so much!You ONLY GET what you NEED...NOT what you WANT...If you are interested or want to know more about me because there is a lot more to me than what I've posted. Then please don't hesitate or be shy and send me a message.I do respond to everyone. Some of you I may not be interested in having a romantic relationship with. But, I am open to being friends. I do NOT want to hurt a soul. Everyone deserves to be happy. And to find a special someone that loves them, as much as you love them. That is what life is about...LOVE What ever feels right for our first meeting, or date. We will figure it out together. It will be a lot of fun. I can't wait!

  • Geneva

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    Woman. 45 years old. Zodiac sign: Pisces.

    Looking for: man. In age: 42-52

    Hi. Thanks for looking. I will be up front and honest right off the bat. I don't want to be someone's convenience or option. I want to be with someone who will make time for me, just like I will for them. I want someone that wants to be with me, spend time with me and do things with me, even if it's just sitting at home. I don't want to be the one who always calls or texts you first. When we meet in person, keep in mind that I'm not looking to be married tomorrow, and I am not interested in just hooking up or one night stands, so if that's what you are looking for, keep searching. I want to be able to see if we can click as friends, and see what happens from there. I am easy going and love to laugh and joke around. I can be sarcastic, but it's all in fun. I'm a people person and get along with just about everyone I meet. I adapt well to my environment and handle myself well in a variety of situations. I like being inside or outside, prefer summer and fall over winter (I don't like being cold!) I like being at home being a "bum" but I also like getting dressed up and going out. I think you have to have a nice balance between the 2. You can't stay home all the time, but I don't want to be out at bars or whatever all the time either. I don't mind getting my hands dirty, and be a tomboy, but I also like to dress up and be a lady.I'm honest and have been told I am a kind, patient, giving, and caring person. I like helping people when I can. I treat other people the way I want to be treated. I like all kinds of music but usually listen to classic rock and country. I like a wide variety of tv and movies. I've been told I'm a good cook. I'm more of a night owl than a morning person. I've been told I'm a "damn good woman" with a "heart of gold", and I am faithful and loyal to my friends and to my special someone. I love animals, dogs especially :)When I'm in a relationship, I'm affectionate and love to give and receive affection. Things like holding hands while walking together, or sitting on the couch watching a movie and my head on your chest or shoulder. I also like to do little things for that special someone I'm with.... writing little notes or texts to say I'm thinking of you... little gifts on occassion (like a toothbrush or pencil with your favorite team logo on it)... things like that. I also believe that it's not what you're doing, but who you are with that makes things fun. You can have a great time doing anything or nothing at all if you're with the right person!I'm not a plaything, and I wont be someone's woman on a string. I have 3 older kids (ages 26, 20 and 15. The 15 year old and 20 year old are with me sometimes) I have a good life. I don't demand respect, I command it, and I don't think it's too much to ask that I be treated with respect, honesty, and like a lady. Please have table manners. Whether its a meal at home, a burger at McDonalds, or a fancy restaurant. If you make more of a mess at the dinner table than a 1 year old, chew with your mouth open, and make all kinds of noises while you eat... it's just not going to work for me. Yuck. I drink occassionally, I swear, and I smoke (some days more than others). I do not do any sort of drugs. I don't think I'm better than anyone else, and I'm not a judgemental person. I don't care what kind of job you have, or what kind of car you drive, and I don't care if you live in a mansion or a beat up cardboard box. Money doesn't matter when it comes to being happy with someone! I'm not looking for a sugar daddy or someone to rush in and pay my bills or take me out all the time. I believe a relationship should be be ***, and there sometimes has to be compromises made. I'm former USMC, have a couple tats, and I do not tolerate liars, or people who do not follow through with what they say. Once you break honesty and trust, it takes a long time to get it back with me. I believe that If you're going to talk the talk, you better be able to walk the walk! I'm a firm believer in "A man's only as good as his word" and "Karma's a bi***, and she has puppies". If you're only going to message me to tell me I have a "nice rack" or ask "what's your bra size", or to tell me that you "have a big one"... then DONT. (Its amazing to me that you would message someone saying that, and then wonder why you're single??) If you are ready for what I have to offer, send me a message :) If I don't reply, I'm not interested, sorry. Please do not send repeated messages. I DO read every message I get, and If I am interested, I will reply back as soon as I can. Thank you :) Surprise me with anything that doesn't involve bunge jumping or parachuting :) I don't think a movie makes a good first date because you can't see each other, or talk to each other. A first date should be one where you can talk and focus on each other to see if there's a click between you. I also think a first date shouldn't be all fancy dressy uppy. It should be more laid back casual where both people can be more of their true selves. Everyone cleans up nice, but I want to see the real you, how you are on an "everyday basis". So wear your jeans and a Tshirt and a ball cap! Be comfortable and most of all be on time, and be you!!

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