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Judith, 43
United States, Ohio, Troy

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About Me

I feel I am well balanced in my life....happily divorced and have two beautiful daughters. I chose to go it alone, so there is no drama there. For me, at this point in my life, I want to find that someone who is on the same page as me. I am looking for real ...nothing more...nothing less. I am caring....kind....out spoken at times and not afraid to share all my thoughts and feelings and would like to find the person who will do the same.It is tough to write about ones self. I want to laugh and enjoy all the fun life has to offer with another(seriously:)...who doesn't). I could go on and on, but I would rather talk than type for someone to get to know all about me.....and me to get to know another. Just bring real....we all have a story and a journey that got us from there to here. Life is so short....I am interested in, the Man for Me....and Me for He. The ride along the way is fun,as life should be. Here are some of my favorite quotes that I believe in...."Life is short. We are only here once, but if you live it right.....once is enough".....(read it)"Every moment you are spending with the wrong one......is a moment you are not spending with the right person"......(read it)" Love does not hurt"....(heard it)" Once the mind is made up.....the body has no choice but to follow"......(own it)

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Slim

  • Height

    5'3"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

Reggae Salsa British Mexican Thai
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