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Essie, 44
United States, Ohio, Troy

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About Me

Hello and welcome! As you might notice from some of my photos, I spend much of my free time outdoors, being in/on/by the water and camping (with all the accoutrements my SUV can hold). I'm definitely an outdoorsy, girlie girl.I also enjoy getting lost in the hilarity at comedy clubs, catching a flick on the big screen, going to ball games (I LOVE the junk food), live music on a patio somewhere, hiking, biking, kayaking (need to learn, actually), fairs/festivals and traveling, of course. Finding new/interesting places to spend the day/weekend is always a blast. Even though I do occasionally smoke, I would never do it around anyone it offends. It is a take it or leave it thing for me, but I wanted to be honest about it. I'm still trying to decide where it is I want to plant my roots, but for now I am spending some time with family who lives here. Honesty, intelligence, great communication skills and a varied sense of humor are the "usuals", and top o' my list. I am also attracted to people who are not the PC or GQ type. I love individuals who stray a bit from the norm and who are thoughtful, open and upfront, slightly adventurous, playful/silly, gentlemanly...I would like to find someone who enjoys being active (not hardcore), but who is also content to spend a rainy day inside watching movies together. Or, going out to play in it!I'm not looking to jump into something serious right away or too fast. I like to take things as they come naturally.I'm all for making the first move, just so you know, but I'm rarely on here searching profiles. I sympathize with the men who do make the first move and don't get any kind of response back. But, persistence pays!**********************************************************************************************************************************************************************If you click the "Meet Me" button, those notifications go to my spam folder, which I rarely check, and those that click it usually go by the photo alone, so it would be best to message me here, if interested in getting to know one another more. The options are limitless! But a first date probably should start simple (and escapable - har, har).Meeting for lunch or Happy Hour is a great start.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Curvy

  • Height

    5'5"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, regularly

INTERESTS

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