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Essie, 44

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About Me

Hello and welcome! As you might notice from some of my photos, I spend much of my free time outdoors, being in/on/by the water and camping (with all the accoutrements my SUV can hold). I'm definitely an outdoorsy, girlie girl.I also enjoy getting lost in the hilarity at comedy clubs, catching a flick on the big screen, going to ball games (I LOVE the junk food), live music on a patio somewhere, hiking, biking, kayaking (need to learn, actually), fairs/festivals and traveling, of course. Finding new/interesting places to spend the day/weekend is always a blast. Even though I do occasionally smoke, I would never do it around anyone it offends. It is a take it or leave it thing for me, but I wanted to be honest about it. I'm still trying to decide where it is I want to plant my roots, but for now I am spending some time with family who lives here. Honesty, intelligence, great communication skills and a varied sense of humor are the "usuals", and top o' my list. I am also attracted to people who are not the PC or GQ type. I love individuals who stray a bit from the norm and who are thoughtful, open and upfront, slightly adventurous, playful/silly, gentlemanly...I would like to find someone who enjoys being active (not hardcore), but who is also content to spend a rainy day inside watching movies together. Or, going out to play in it!I'm not looking to jump into something serious right away or too fast. I like to take things as they come naturally.I'm all for making the first move, just so you know, but I'm rarely on here searching profiles. I sympathize with the men who do make the first move and don't get any kind of response back. But, persistence pays!**********************************************************************************************************************************************************************If you click the "Meet Me" button, those notifications go to my spam folder, which I rarely check, and those that click it usually go by the photo alone, so it would be best to message me here, if interested in getting to know one another more. The options are limitless! But a first date probably should start simple (and escapable - har, har).Meeting for lunch or Happy Hour is a great start.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Curvy

  • Height

    5'5"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, regularly

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  • Carole

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    Woman. 43 years old. Zodiac sign: Capricorn.

    Looking for: man. In age: 40-50

    . I enjoy almost anything outside, going to the beach or outdoor festivals. I enjoy cooking and going out to eat of course, trying new places whenever possible. Music wise I enjoy, southern rock, old rock n roll, blues, anything but opera and rap, lol.. I have no children but love kids and am willing to be with someone who has kids if we have that connection. I also enjoy hot rods, car shows,pow wows, any outdoor festivals but especially the Renn Faire...I love animals and all the beauty that nature has to offer...... I was married for 5yrs and have been divorced now for 3yrs and am ready to find that person who completes me and makes me a better person. That person who looks at me like I am the one he cant live without. I am honest to a fault which sometimes gets me in trouble and am looking for someone who is honest right back. Oh yea, and tattoos and a Harley are a def plus, lolOh yea..and one more thing, you cant be allergic to cats, because my kitties arent going anywhere, lolIf you have any questions just ask Hmmm..Could be alot of things for a first date. But if the weather is nice. A nice first date could be getting together and going on a nice bike ride, getting lunch somewhere and kicking back somewhere outside and getting to know each other. I am pretty easy to please. Laughter and good conversation is def something that makes for a second date.

  • Jane

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    Woman. 41 years old. Zodiac sign: Gemini.

    Looking for: man. In age: 38-48

    I am a good hearted woman...i love to laugh and have a good time...anything you wanna know just ask...my life is an open book

  • Veronica

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    Woman. 41 years old. Zodiac sign: Aries.

    Looking for: man. In age: 38-48

    I am looking to date.. not looking for a hookup or fwb.. FYI I am not Barbie, you MUST like curves.. I have curves..lots of them... I'm looking for someone to spend the rest of my life with.I like to try new things, I'm easy going and like to go with the flow. Playing pool, dancing, karaoke, Motor Booty Affair, bowling, hockey games.. Looking to keep people that are uplifting in my life and cleaning out the people that try to push everyone down. No time for drama. I'm Scorpio so I'm very passionate, quick tempered, quick to get over it. Loyal through and through, my friends are friends for life no matter how much we screw up. I'm looking for some fun and exciting friends and exciting times. *I am not* looking for casual sex/fling. I do however have my little quirks just like everyone does. You can tune in and find me on WMPG 90.9 Starting at 6:30am every Saturday with "Anything Goes'Send me a note and I will tell you more about me. Qualities I find intriguing; someone that can laugh at themselves, do stupid silly things, laugh at life. Someone who isn't afraid to be true to themselves....*Want to get my attention, bring me coffee just the way I like it. Send a text to let me know you're thinking of me*"I'd rather be hated for who I am, than loved for who I am not."-Kurt Cobain.“Love comes to those who still hope even though they've been disappointed, to those who still believe even though they've been betrayed, to those who still love even though they've been hurt before.”"The worst crime is faking it." Kurt Cobain"Though the sun is gone, I have a light." Kurt Cobain"Wanting to be someone else is a waste of the person you are." Kurt Cobain"I believe that everything happens for a reason. People change so that you can learn to let go, things go wrong so that you appreciate them when their right, you believe lies so you eventually learn to trust no one but yourself, and sometimes good things fall apart so better things can fall together."—;Imperfection is beauty, madness is genius and it's better to be absolutely ridiculous than absolutely boring." ~;I'd rather be hated for who I am, than loved for who I am not."-Kurt Cobain.“The stupid neither forgive nor forget; the naive forgive and forget; the wise forgive but do not forget.”"You may not be her first, her last, or her only. She loved before and she may love again. But if she loves you now, what else matters? She's not perfect, you aren't either,and the two of you may never be perfect together but if she can make you laugh, cause you to think twice, and admit to being human and making mistakes, hold onto her and give her the most you can. She may not be thinking about you every second of the day, but she will give you a part of her that she knows you can break her heart. So don't hurt her, don't change her, don't analyze and don't expect more then she can give. Smile when she makes you happy, let her know when she makes you mad, and miss her when shes not there." - Bob Marley"A Wise Girl... Kisses but doesn't love. Listens but doesn't Believe. And leaves before she is Left."-“If you love someone, set them free. If they come back they're yours; if they don't they never were.” Richard Bach"The worst crime is faking it." Kurt Cobain"Thought the sun is gone, I have a light." Kurt Cobain"Wanting to be someone else is a waste of the person you are." Kurt Cobain"Dogs never bite me. Just humans.";I am not interested in money. I just want to be wonderful.";I believe that everything happens for a reason. People change so that you can learn to let go, things go wrong so that you appreciate them when their right, you believe lies so you eventually learn to trust no one but yourself, and sometimes good things fall apart so better things can fall together."—;Imperfection is beauty, madness is genius and it's better to be absolutely ridiculous than absolutely boring." —;Take time to enjoy life, remember every detail, you get this one shot, one chance, there are no do overs. Learn from what you do, remember to smile. Give yourself and love freely" ~ ErinDlynn Hmmm. My first date depends on the person I am meeting and how we connect. Coffee or tea always works. Also love a good French Onion Soup, which of course is detrimental to having good breath on a date. Going to the movies would be a great second or third date.I'm looking for someone that can make me laugh, that can be themselves around me. Someone that isn't afraid of looking like a fool. Someone that doesn't mind that I'm crazy-sexy-cool,silly, spastic, or that sometimes I speak gibberish.

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