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Bernadette, 42

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About Me

I am a hardworking, self-sufficient woman. I was a single mother for years. I could not figure out how to date and be a good parent simultaneously. So, decided to focus on being a mom first...especially since I only had one shot at being a parent. I always figured I would have time for myself later. Well, suddenly I find that time has come! The one problem...I have been out of the dating scene for so long, I'm not sure how to go about dating now! Things have changed in the past 10 years and I have gotten older. That said, I'm not getting any younger or hotter! LOL! So, if you are not looking for a relationship, PLEASE DO NOT APPLY WITHIN! Marriage is not a necessity...but I would not rule it out completely. Maybe one day I'd be willing to go there again. But really I'm just looking for a partner in crime. Someone to have fun with and go on adventures with. There are no set requirements for first date. Meeting for a drink or to have coffee is fine. A long walk (accompanied by my dog of course) at a park or cemetery (and no I don't mean a dark, scarey, weird place). Dinners seem to me a bit too much for a first date. If the chemistry is not there, it can make for a long, uncomfortable meal! Same with movies, and movies do not afford the ability to talk and get to know one another.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Curvy

  • Height

    5'7"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Tasha

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    Woman. 41 years old. Zodiac sign: Scorpio.

    Looking for: man. In age: 38-48

    I'm a country girl that loves the outdoors ....tired of men's games they like to play...I'm looking for a relationship so anyone notlooking for the same please don't waste my time.... Lpoking fpr the same Sit down talk get to know each other maybe have a few drinks, laugh and have a good time

  • Kitty

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    Woman. 41 years old. Zodiac sign: Pisces.

    Looking for: man. In age: 38-48

    The above statement sums up the large majority of everyone I have had contact with over the last 6 months. Does anyone still value honesty???Posting pics of yourself when you were 30 lbs lighter equals a lie.....saying you don't do drama when you are messing with 5 girls equals a lie....saying you are a stock broker when you answer phones at Comcast equals a lie...saying you have been divorced for years when you are still currently battling it out in court equals a lie. OK I will stop there but please if you choose to contact me know I value greatly honesty and putting the truth on the table. If that is not the way you work then you don't want to talk to me and we can agree to disagree. I am very laid back and love to laugh and enjoy life. I'm very easy to get along with unless you want to be dishonest. I value fitness and nutrition and appreciate men who also value it. If this doesn't sound crazy to you and you want to chat let's do it. If it does.....no hard feelings.

  • Beverly

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    Woman. 41 years old. Zodiac sign: Aries.

    Looking for: man. In age: 38-48

    I am a 39 year old single mother. I love to play all sports.I love camping,canoeing. And all outdoor stuff.And spending time with my family. Ask

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