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Bernadette, 42

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About Me

I am a hardworking, self-sufficient woman. I was a single mother for years. I could not figure out how to date and be a good parent simultaneously. So, decided to focus on being a mom first...especially since I only had one shot at being a parent. I always figured I would have time for myself later. Well, suddenly I find that time has come! The one problem...I have been out of the dating scene for so long, I'm not sure how to go about dating now! Things have changed in the past 10 years and I have gotten older. That said, I'm not getting any younger or hotter! LOL! So, if you are not looking for a relationship, PLEASE DO NOT APPLY WITHIN! Marriage is not a necessity...but I would not rule it out completely. Maybe one day I'd be willing to go there again. But really I'm just looking for a partner in crime. Someone to have fun with and go on adventures with. There are no set requirements for first date. Meeting for a drink or to have coffee is fine. A long walk (accompanied by my dog of course) at a park or cemetery (and no I don't mean a dark, scarey, weird place). Dinners seem to me a bit too much for a first date. If the chemistry is not there, it can make for a long, uncomfortable meal! Same with movies, and movies do not afford the ability to talk and get to know one another.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Curvy

  • Height

    5'7"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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    Woman. 35 years old. Zodiac sign: Cancer.

    Looking for: man. In age: 18-33

    Hi! My name is Jenna. I am never married other caucasian woman without kids from New Albany, Ohio, United States. Now I'm looking for new relationships. I want to meet a man, love of my life.

  • Kelli

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    Woman. 45 years old. Zodiac sign: Libra.

    Looking for: man. In age: 42-52

    Hi ;) I am an outgoing, positive, honest loyal person, young at heart. I am fairly intelligent and quick on my feet. Love to laugh and can have fun anywhere. Appreciate the little things in life.Love to go to local music shows and events. Road trips to nowhere are always good too. Varied music taste, mostly anything but hardcore rap and twangy country. Want to know more..?? Only one way to find out.As far as what I am looking for....I am not a needy person, I am not looking to get married on the second date, I am not opposed to meeting the right guy either. Just go with the flow. I have been out of the dating scene a while to raise my daughter without....complications :) good news....no crazy x's haha :) Public, casual...nothing too crazy.

  • Esther

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    Woman. 44 years old. Zodiac sign: Taurus.

    Looking for: man. In age: 41-51

    I so hate this part... Trying to describe yourself and what you are looking for in a box is kinda hard... I guess the first thing is, I don't like playing mind games... Be grown up and keep it real.... Second, if your serious, then post a pic... Nothing worse than talking to a box with a question mark in it.. I am a outdoor lover... I love to camp, fish, travel, hiking, and gardening... My favorite thing to do is surf and fish... I take every opportunity I can to go surfing in Waikiki to fulfill my favorites... I have a 24ft pontoon that I love to fish on and relax and I like to keep her active lol lol. I am also an artist.. I love to paint what I see.. But my favorite things in life is music and to express my self... Even though I have lived thru such a bad life, I am full of positive views... I am a leader and I try to live a positive life... I try my best to lead others to a positive and happy life... So if all you have is drama.... Well I don't need it and please don't respond... .... I been there and done that.. I am done.. I am fighting for a positive life...I am a type of person that if i see something that needs to be done and no one is trying I will do it.. I am just that way, and hell that's part of my job as well.. Its got to be done so hell do it......So if you are looking to grow in happiness then contact me...Music to express my soul is: http://youtu.be/q9ayN39xmsI Wow.. First date... Hummmmm let me see...Unless your creative and imaginative in this area, there will never be another perfect date like I had 6 months ago... Remembering back..... It was a night like no other... It began with a cool wind sweeping past my face and as I walked closer I could hear whispers in the wind as it past my ears. The night was calm and had my attention.... When I arrived to my destination all I could see was waves as it played its songs so softly to me... As I stood there gazing over the beauty, the moon decided to join in and lit up the band.... I walked out in to the night, and as closer I got the more the band decided to play loudly for me... I then decided to approach the band leader with a soft sweep and felt a closeness like no other... I turned and walked back to where I need to be and to my surprise the band followed me and I sat for the rest of the night enjoying the true beauty of life.... A night never to forget....

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