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Bernadette, 42

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About Me

I am a hardworking, self-sufficient woman. I was a single mother for years. I could not figure out how to date and be a good parent simultaneously. So, decided to focus on being a mom first...especially since I only had one shot at being a parent. I always figured I would have time for myself later. Well, suddenly I find that time has come! The one problem...I have been out of the dating scene for so long, I'm not sure how to go about dating now! Things have changed in the past 10 years and I have gotten older. That said, I'm not getting any younger or hotter! LOL! So, if you are not looking for a relationship, PLEASE DO NOT APPLY WITHIN! Marriage is not a necessity...but I would not rule it out completely. Maybe one day I'd be willing to go there again. But really I'm just looking for a partner in crime. Someone to have fun with and go on adventures with. There are no set requirements for first date. Meeting for a drink or to have coffee is fine. A long walk (accompanied by my dog of course) at a park or cemetery (and no I don't mean a dark, scarey, weird place). Dinners seem to me a bit too much for a first date. If the chemistry is not there, it can make for a long, uncomfortable meal! Same with movies, and movies do not afford the ability to talk and get to know one another.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Curvy

  • Height

    5'7"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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    Woman. 41 years old. Zodiac sign: Cancer.

    Looking for: man. In age: 38-48

    Let's hang out. Get to know one another. Have fun. Laugh together. And hopefully feel a connection. Patient, kind, intuitive, genuine, with a sarcastic sense of humour. I like the u in humour. And I like to laugh. I live a pretty quiet life lately. I've had lots of adventures. Travelled a little. Lived in the bush for a long time. And now life has come full circle for me. Very strange, but I like it. I've been back home in Winnipeg for a few years now and I'm real happy with what I've accomplished. I like where I'm at and I like who I am. I'm happiest at the lake. I can be a bit of a beach bum. A reading and swimming type of beach bum, if there are types. Swimming is my favourite thing to do. And lying on sand just feels good. I like to be active, though, too. Finding balance is important. I enjoy LONG walks, riding my bike, shooting hoops, painting.....whatever. I'm close with my family and I'm thankful for it. I would love to find someone who is cool. :) Cool as I see cool. Someone who I could sit and just talk and laugh with for hours doing nothing. I prefer comfortable, quiet (or sometimes loud) nights at home. But I'm an open, spontaneous kind of person. A night out salsa dancing? Yes! It's ok. I don't know how, either ;)

  • Esmeralda

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    Woman. 44 years old. Zodiac sign: Virgo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 41-51

    Just know i am new to this Online stuff but hey ev1 kept telling me to give it a try so here i am....Update: ***...You must know that i am a Mother First off i do love my kids and enjoy spending time with my kids ... I do not know what i am looking for i just figure what ever happens happens,,,,I am Just me!June ***...I am Divorced .I have 3 children and my youngest still lives at home she is 15 and still in school my other 2 have finished school : )...love the outdoors ...coach softball for the Little League in town and play also..muddin the out doors & Dancing, Movies, play pool etc .....I am sweet also straight forward i am tough when needed..Country and Rock & Roll Girl....i look at it like this ....hey if things work out great if not that's Ok cause that just means i added a new friend in my Life...I ask my friends to give me honest opinions on what they thought of me and this is what i was told loyal,loving,dependable,enthusiastic,creative,humorous,sincere,trustworthy,committed,ethical,outspoken,open minded,mysterious,outgoing,stubborn, Ballsey lol,...What I can tell you is that I am just me i don't pretend to be someone i am not , I like to keep others smiling and laughing and i do tend to say Corny things (( when i have no ideal how to respond to something it happens to the best of us lol )) I am not looking for one night stands if that is what you are looking for keep on looking cause i am not the girl for you ...i dislike cheaters lairs fakes players etc Live to enjoy Laugh every chance you get and have no regrets.. ....want to know more please just ask .....Keep it Real!Have a Good one!"I trust you is a better compliment then I Love You because you may not always trust the person you love but you can always love the person you can trust" .I really have to say that it need to be something we both would like to do .... somewhere public

  • Brittney

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    Woman. 42 years old. Zodiac sign: Taurus.

    Looking for: man. In age: 39-49

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