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Mara
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Woman. 45 years old. Zodiac sign: Aquarius.
Looking for: man. In age: 42-52
Hello..I am a mom to 3 kids. They are 24, 18, and 8. I am seeking a long term relationship. I have been single for two years now and I would really like to find someone to spend the rest of my life with.I enjoy Zumba, weekend getaways, anything involving my children, and ways to improve myself! Of course I enjoy other things to these are just a few! I am also willing to try new and different things.I do love to dance, and I like all kinds of music especially live music.I can be pretty quite at first but I get over it after awhile. I am very kind, considerate, caring, compassionate, and caring.I like to be hugged, kissed, and touched by my significant other and I am also a very sexual person when I am in a committed relationship. I like to feel safe and protected:)) kind of taken care of I guess:)Please contact me only if you are interested in finding a long term relationship. Yes, I know it all starts with dating but if you want children or if you don't want someone that is 45 and has an 8 year old I am not for you. I am not for you if you are just strictly dating or just want a friends with benefits. Distance is important to. If we live far apart it is impossible to have a relationship if we can only see each other once every few weeks.I am easily entertained and I do not require lavish or expensive things and I also do not mind paying for dates either, it is only fair.I am short 5ft and I am I guess what you would call curvy. I am not fat or skinny. I do try to work out 3 to 4 times a week. My pictures are all current. I hope that yours are to. Nobody likes surprises!Very important!! Be honest! Something I have found on this site is that people lie about even the smallest things. The truth always comes out even if it is just a little white lie.I hope I do not come across as being rude, I am just trying to be honest so that I do not waste your time:)) Something we are both comfortable with. Usually a drink!
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Lourdes
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Woman. 41 years old. Zodiac sign: Virgo.
Looking for: man. In age: 38-48
I enjoy reading, going to movies, watching live music, going out to dinner, and spending time with friends and family. I am an independent person who loves all types of music***'s, 80's, rock, some (typically older) country and some dance music. I have two children, ages 9 and 12, and I teach high school. I love to travel and have many places I would like to visit left on my list.I take care of myself, and I am looking for someone who does the same. Someone who is educated and has a good career would definitely be what I am looking for as well. No smokers. A great first date involves lots of conversation. A nice dinner or a fun activity where you get a chance to communicate with the person is always a good choice.
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Alfreda
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Woman. 44 years old. Zodiac sign: Sagittarius.
Looking for: man. In age: 41-51
Reviewed and updated ***: My hobbies are scrap booking, reading, cooking, travel, softball, movies, taking pictures, and hanging out with friends, and playing with puppies or dogs., and loving on my grandbabies!I'm pretty playful, and I would like for my guy to be playful, too. I don't mean a joke-ster all the time, just playful. Ya know? Tickle each other, and talk about silly things from time to time.Also, I like affection... I like to be touched... hand held, hand on my knee, cuddeling, hand on my lower back when we walk, just to know that you like to touch me. I also like to be adored... not because I'm a princess (although... I am a princess... :)....) but tell me when I look beautiful, or smell good, or that you like my hair, or what ever. I wanna know that you are looking at me and what you think. I also want my man to NOT have a wandering eye... get it?!CONVERSATION: good gravy, its hard to get conversation out of some men. I feel like I have to work SO HARD just to get men to talk. Ask about me... ask what I do, how was my day, did I stub my toe, or tell me about your day.... did you stub your toe? Did you drop anything or make any big messes, hear any good jokes, have an epiphany, just talk. How else are we gonna know if we like each other if we just keeping sending *** are like 5 words. Lots of people just give me simple replies...for example, I'll say "hi, hope you are doing well. i'm dang tired...worked 10 hours today. how about you? im thinking of going to dinner with a friend, but after that i was gonna take a walk. its cold, though." and the reply will be "im good." HOW BORING AND DULL. :) Look alive, people!My goals and aspirations are kinda fuzzy right now... Most anyone would say "to be happy and successful," so that is a given. I'd like to do more traveling, and I'd like to own my own business someday, some sort of fun but suddenly "can't live without it" business... and I'd like to be involved with more non-profits, I have a heart for the needy.Well, lets see...more about me... I like dogs and most other animals quite a bit. Since I live in an apartment, I don't have any dogs living with me. Cant decide if I want the responsibility, and later on ...the heartache of losing another pet. I also did 6 or 7 countries with my mother when I was a teenager.I have a college degree,...actually 2 majors. Criminal Justice and Sociology. Can't find a job in that field...at least none around here. Don't really want to relocate, so for now.. doing something that is in a semi-related field (behavioral / mental health), and just waiting til I find my dream job.I'm not much into sports, I'd rather go to a game than watch it on t.v. I used to really like Nascar, but that kinda passed, but if I did.. I’ Recently I've watched soccer a bit. I guess my favorite sport would be softball. BUT I will watch sports and, from time to time, get into it.Outdoors....well, if it isn't too hot or too cold…then I'm OK with going outside. I like canoeing and camping. Not much on fishing, though I haven't done it a long time. Hiking sounds like it would exhaust me, but I'm sure the scenery would be great. I do like swimming... in Grandma's pool.Gosh.. I am unique because I am multifaceted, I can blend in with most any crowd (country folk, city divas, etc... you get the idea). I am fun and outgoing, responsible, smart, kinda beautiful (haha), educated, and I don't know... I feel like i'm saying all the same things that everyone else says. I'll have to think about this and update it later.Music... I like most any music. Top 40/pop, blues, jazz, rock, classic rock, country, gospel, r&b, western harmony, world music, classical, even Dr. Demento, etc. I don't care much for super hard death metal, or rap...just a lil rap.I'm a mother of ***, 21 and 23), and the grandmother of ***year old, and an 1 year old as of Sept ***. And have an former step daughter who I can't help but think of as my own, she is 24.Other things... Im a little bit impatient, I like all the information out on the table. :) There are deal breakers that I have (surely everyone has them, even if they dont want to admit it). Shallow? Perhaps. Honest? Yes!I guess I could go on, but at this point.. if you are still reading... kudos to you! :) ~Nikki I think going to a coffee house to have a muffin and coffee, or maybe a light lunch or dinner would be a great first date. Some place where the environment is visually stimulating so that you would have things to talk about in order to get to know each other. Dinner and drinks might be a good starter, also... they have Gelato, too!