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Reva, 43

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About Me

If I say, "progressive feminist with a penchant for healthy eating" and you don't immediately think of a butch third baseman on an over 40 women's league, we could probably have drinks.I'm not going to tell you that I like sports and that I'm totally cool spending hours watching them because that would be disingenous. I do bike, ski, hike, and run, and probably could kick some serious ass playing dodgeball, but I'm going to be honest, I suck at laser tag. Apparently, my desire to eat clean doesn't appeal to their middle school sensibilities. That said, when they are in college, the FIRST thing they will miss is their mother's cooking. Plural. As in twins. I'm very efficient. And of course they are fantastic, brilliant, thoughtful, and killer athletes, but let's keep it real, they can also be complete ***holes (I did mention that they are 12, right?). Gratefully, I have one of those jobs that when people meet me at a dinner party and find out what I do, they never leave me alone. Ultimately, I live most days in a state of gratitude, I surround myself with people who make me laugh, think or both, and I accept that my life is a work in progress. As for you, if you could be a tad smarter than me, equally as funny, and show some signs of evolution in mind, body and soul, I think we might have something worth pursuing.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Athletic

  • Height

    5'3"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Linda

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    Woman. 45 years old. Zodiac sign: Leo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 42-52

    I'm a young, fun 45 year old who loves spending time with friends...cooking for them, wine tasting, attending sporting events. I golf when I can, however my game needs work. I like to stay active but enjoy downtime too...reading, movies, hanging by the fire pit. I'm open to trying new things, I don't mind getting dirty..revamped my back yard this summer, even planted an apple tree! I haven't been camping in a long time..would love to go..but the opportuninty hasn't presented itself. The most important thing to me in any relationship is communication. Having meaningful, intellectual conversations is crucial. I'm independant, happy with my life but often feel something's missing. I don't believe we're meant to be alone. I value honesty, respect, and loyalty. Life is so incredibly short I want to enjoy it with someone healthy and grounded, someone with the ability to laugh at the little things, himself, and me. One of many favorite quotes: "Destiny is no matter of chance. It is a matter of choice."

  • Dee

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    Woman. 41 years old. Zodiac sign: Aquarius.

    Looking for: man. In age: 38-48

    I cannot describe my personality in one word, at least a dozen of those words describe me (artsy, hippie, hedonist, geek, sapiophile, etc. etc.). Yup, human beings are dynamic, go figure.I love my life, my kids, my dogs... even my son's cat. At this point I would describe my life as nearly perfect. I'm happy with all I have, all I've done, all I've let go, and all that I hold dear. I have a descent job (career)... Let's leave it at that.I do not drink, as a personal choice, I don't have an issue with it, just don't enjoy it.I have tattoos. I love my tattoos. I love people with tattoos and the stories behind them.I'm an artist, I guess you'd say semi-professional as I've sold paintings here and there for a long time. It's one of the greatest loves of my life... creative expression.I'm a very handy person. I enjoy doing home renos and I love to learn new things.I enjoy staying active. I hike and bike and exercise rigorously 4 to 6 times a week, depending on the week. I love music of all genres (more so with rock, less so with country and rap). I'm a concert junkie, it's how I plan my holidays/road trips. Music is life!!Something that totally sets me apart from other women... I absolutely loathe shopping, I'm not into makeup and fashion is just something that happens... So, yeah, I'm not a "high maintenance girly girl". I do, however, love to cook. I'm a chronic quitter... with smoking that is. I've done this on again/off again thing for years, quitting for 2 years at a time. One day it will stick, just hasn't yet. I've been on my own for a long time. I preferred to raise my kids without a "step-parent" in the picture. I guess I'm a little old-school in that regard. But now they are nearly grown, it's time to change pace. What I seek is another completely dynamic person with positive and negative qualities that mesh well with my own positive and negative qualities (yes, we all have them both). I would prefer someone relatively close to my age who is a music and art lover. Someone who likes to hike, bike and stay active. Someone who is secure in who they are on their own and as a "couple". By no means do I "need" anyone to the point that I'll settle again, that never works. All that I have is too important to let just anyone in. Compatibility, communication, commrodary... Those are all top priorities. And, of course, the standard, honest, sincere, intelligent, kind... yadda yadda... I think those things go without saying. :) Thanks for your time and best of luck to all in the search.

  • Christian

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    Woman. 43 years old. Zodiac sign: Gemini.

    Looking for: man. In age: 40-50

    I enjoy evening walks, riding motorcycles, sitting around a campfire on a crisp fall evening. I also like the finer things that life has to offer. I aspire to be the best parent I can be and teach them respect and show them all the love I can.The Fall is my favorite time of year; I love to bake with the fruits of the fall harvest. Right now I am enjoying Country Music but like most everything with the exception of new age (screaming) Hard Rock and Rap. To meet for coffee or drink. To see how we mesh and go from there.

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