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Allyson, 45

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About Me

I think we need a handbook for this site.....I'm not sure why this is a game to most ppl.. if you are only gonna talk to me once..don't tell me i'm your perfect woman and then never speak to me again.. women need closure.. all you're doing in making alot of bitter man haters.. i understand if you just don't click but if you do and you tell her you want to meet her and then never speak again, we really don't know how to react...it really sucks.. and those of you who have done that very thing know who you are and should be ashamed...I am open, honest to a fault and straight forward.. and i expect everyone else to be the same..I have values and morals..I have played the game and don't really like it.. I guess friends is what I'm after.. I'm not possessive or jealous and can only hope to find one as such..I'm happy with my life and very secure in myself.. I'm not a desperate 40 something... I love the water, i find it soothing .. I have learned a different variety of music strengthens the soul..This whole dating thing has been a real disappointment.. I have met some true friends, but the dating part is just wrong we'll figure that out later

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'7"

  • Eye color

    Hazel

  • Smoke

    Yes, regularly

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Shirley

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    Woman. 44 years old. Zodiac sign: Sagittarius.

    Looking for: man. In age: 41-51

    Hey- was definitely not thrilled at first to write the profile part……….(also have to say that it's hard to check the "select what you're looking for" . To me it seems you just have to see what happens.... anyway, I'm interested in meeting someone with a GREAT sense of humor, who loves to have fun, who deviates from the norm, who doesn't take things too seriously all the time, and is intellectual but can also appreciates wrongness. I admire someone who is confident, authentic, laid back, healthy and fit (but not fanatical), family oriented, and passionate (as I am) about what he does... Someone who can find humor in most situations is a big bonus.I love to be with my two children, good friends and family, to go out (for happy hour, ethnic food, dancing, etc.) as well as check out places I've never been. After college I had the chance to live there for many years. It was a great place to ski, mountain bike, kayak, hike, and all that crazy stuff. I still love to ski, and just got a pass for this season. So if you can keep up......ha!Love to read (fiction and non, historical fiction, biographies, etc.), dance, eat, go out to see music, and I love my work as an educator. With my job you have to have thick skin, to be able to roll with the punches, and laugh! I love people who are able to do the same.It would be fun to meet someone who likes to be active, to go out, but who also likes to relax. Life is pretty busy so I really value time to do that. There is much more but I find it weird to describe myself in words; I'd rather just be myself in person. up for most anything, but happy hour would be a good start!

  • Willa

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    Woman. 45 years old. Zodiac sign: Libra.

    Looking for: man. In age: 42-52

    Myself – compassionate, sincere, sarcastic and happy with a side of perv ; ). I am not offended by a dirty joke and can dish out one of my own. I am independent but far from being a feminist. I'm easy going, very loyal and passionate.I'm looking for a best friend. I believe in communication and at times I can be blunt. I can be a prankster with a fire for passion, I'll keep you on your toes. I'd like to find a man I can look up to respect and who can make good decisions. I'm not into serial dating and don't respect men that are willing to spend there money on every woman they say "hi" to. What’s your story? What are your greatest pet-peeves and what makes you weak in the knees?Not interested if:1) If your a FELON..n have a blow go car.2) You're a scientologist, a moonie, a "; follower or a member of any other kind of nut-cult3) You have a hostile attitude towards women in general (because that evil, heartless **** never called you back after you gave her the best three weeks of your life, 4) You want to meet at a hotel and think Im a chica. My idea of a perfect first date is one in which you can get to know someone, it doesn't matter the place, as long as the person is right, everything else falls into place. I take it back, the place does matter. Let me clarify, I'm not going to meet you in the woods on a river bank. Nor will I meet up with you and your kids...common sense, use it!

  • Mabel

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    Woman. 42 years old. Zodiac sign: Gemini.

    Looking for: man. In age: 39-49

    I am a single mom of 2...I have an 18 year old and an 8 year old. And I'm a G-ma to very energetic 1 yr old!! I have my son during the week and he goes to his dads Sat. & Sun....hope you don't mind kids cause he's into sports and sometimes it gets busy...but I love it!! Im looking for someone to hang out with, watch movies and just get to know better. I like the simple things. I like to have fun, laugh and I have been told I can be very sarcastic at times..(well I think they actually used the term that I was being a smart ass) lol but I love to joke around and just have fun...life's to short!!! So if you want to know anything else send me a message and just ask! I haven't been on here long, but I thought I'd give it a chance and see what happens!! You never know....I could find a good friend or fall head over heels for someone!! :-)

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