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Allyson, 45

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About Me

I think we need a handbook for this site.....I'm not sure why this is a game to most ppl.. if you are only gonna talk to me once..don't tell me i'm your perfect woman and then never speak to me again.. women need closure.. all you're doing in making alot of bitter man haters.. i understand if you just don't click but if you do and you tell her you want to meet her and then never speak again, we really don't know how to react...it really sucks.. and those of you who have done that very thing know who you are and should be ashamed...I am open, honest to a fault and straight forward.. and i expect everyone else to be the same..I have values and morals..I have played the game and don't really like it.. I guess friends is what I'm after.. I'm not possessive or jealous and can only hope to find one as such..I'm happy with my life and very secure in myself.. I'm not a desperate 40 something... I love the water, i find it soothing .. I have learned a different variety of music strengthens the soul..This whole dating thing has been a real disappointment.. I have met some true friends, but the dating part is just wrong we'll figure that out later

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'7"

  • Eye color

    Hazel

  • Smoke

    Yes, regularly

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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