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Alfreda, 44
United States, Ohio, New Albany

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Reviewed and updated ***: My hobbies are scrap booking, reading, cooking, travel, softball, movies, taking pictures, and hanging out with friends, and playing with puppies or dogs., and loving on my grandbabies!I'm pretty playful, and I would like for my guy to be playful, too. I don't mean a joke-ster all the time, just playful. Ya know? Tickle each other, and talk about silly things from time to time.Also, I like affection... I like to be touched... hand held, hand on my knee, cuddeling, hand on my lower back when we walk, just to know that you like to touch me. I also like to be adored... not because I'm a princess (although... I am a princess... :)....) but tell me when I look beautiful, or smell good, or that you like my hair, or what ever. I wanna know that you are looking at me and what you think. I also want my man to NOT have a wandering eye... get it?!CONVERSATION: good gravy, its hard to get conversation out of some men. I feel like I have to work SO HARD just to get men to talk. Ask about me... ask what I do, how was my day, did I stub my toe, or tell me about your day.... did you stub your toe? Did you drop anything or make any big messes, hear any good jokes, have an epiphany, just talk. How else are we gonna know if we like each other if we just keeping sending *** are like 5 words. Lots of people just give me simple replies...for example, I'll say "hi, hope you are doing well. i'm dang tired...worked 10 hours today. how about you? im thinking of going to dinner with a friend, but after that i was gonna take a walk. its cold, though." and the reply will be "im good." HOW BORING AND DULL. :) Look alive, people!My goals and aspirations are kinda fuzzy right now... Most anyone would say "to be happy and successful," so that is a given. I'd like to do more traveling, and I'd like to own my own business someday, some sort of fun but suddenly "can't live without it" business... and I'd like to be involved with more non-profits, I have a heart for the needy.Well, lets see...more about me... I like dogs and most other animals quite a bit. Since I live in an apartment, I don't have any dogs living with me. Cant decide if I want the responsibility, and later on ...the heartache of losing another pet. I also did 6 or 7 countries with my mother when I was a teenager.I have a college degree,...actually 2 majors. Criminal Justice and Sociology. Can't find a job in that field...at least none around here. Don't really want to relocate, so for now.. doing something that is in a semi-related field (behavioral / mental health), and just waiting til I find my dream job.I'm not much into sports, I'd rather go to a game than watch it on t.v. I used to really like Nascar, but that kinda passed, but if I did.. I’ Recently I've watched soccer a bit. I guess my favorite sport would be softball. BUT I will watch sports and, from time to time, get into it.Outdoors....well, if it isn't too hot or too cold…then I'm OK with going outside. I like canoeing and camping. Not much on fishing, though I haven't done it a long time. Hiking sounds like it would exhaust me, but I'm sure the scenery would be great. I do like swimming... in Grandma's pool.Gosh.. I am unique because I am multifaceted, I can blend in with most any crowd (country folk, city divas, etc... you get the idea). I am fun and outgoing, responsible, smart, kinda beautiful (haha), educated, and I don't know... I feel like i'm saying all the same things that everyone else says. I'll have to think about this and update it later.Music... I like most any music. Top 40/pop, blues, jazz, rock, classic rock, country, gospel, r&b, western harmony, world music, classical, even Dr. Demento, etc. I don't care much for super hard death metal, or rap...just a lil rap.I'm a mother of ***, 21 and 23), and the grandmother of ***year old, and an 1 year old as of Sept ***. And have an former step daughter who I can't help but think of as my own, she is 24.Other things... Im a little bit impatient, I like all the information out on the table. :) There are deal breakers that I have (surely everyone has them, even if they dont want to admit it). Shallow? Perhaps. Honest? Yes!I guess I could go on, but at this point.. if you are still reading... kudos to you! :) ~Nikki I think going to a coffee house to have a muffin and coffee, or maybe a light lunch or dinner would be a great first date. Some place where the environment is visually stimulating so that you would have things to talk about in order to get to know each other. Dinner and drinks might be a good starter, also... they have Gelato, too!

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Curvy

  • Height

    5'5"

  • Eye color

    Green-gray

  • Smoke

    Yes, socially

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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