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About Me

Is it just me or does everyone say the same things on these sites? I mean, unless you're an absolute hermit, yes you probably like going out from time to time. And yes, that gets old every night, so don't we all like to stay home occasionally? Bottom line: I love to go out to dinner and to go dancing but I also love staying in, cooking dinner and watching the latest release from Red Box. Depending on my mood, I'm game for just about anything.I'm one of the few, it seems, that isn't originally from here. Born and raised on the East Coast, I've lived here for 7 yrs and have grown to love the mid-West people. I'm mom to two beautiful daughters who are my everything. If I raise them to be confident, compassionate and happy, then I've done my job. I'm fiercely loyal to my family and friends. I'm usually the first one my friends turn to for advice (I'll be kind but honest!), to vent or to grab a drink. I'm very close to my small family and since none are local, am on the phone with one of them at least once a day. I'm outgoing, honest and a little dorky (yes, I sing very loudly and dance around in my kitchen while I cook!). I'm witty and pretty sarcastic, but can't tell a funny joke to save my life. I'm well educated but a large portion of my brain is dedicated to movie quotes. I'm a glass half full kind of girl. I am drama free and have zero tolerance for drama and head games. I'm happy doing pretty much anything - from getting schooled in a mean game of Sorry with my girls, to taking in a Reds game with friends to dressing up for a night on the town, as long as I'm with good company, I'm happy! I don't have a "type"-- brunette or blonde, slender or muscular, tall or short (although I prefer you be taller than me in heels so under 5'10" need not apply), religious or atheist...all that is just noise. I'm looking for a confident (not arrogant!) man with a good sense of humor who likes to enjoy life! I'm looking for that "spark" with someone. It's not physical, it's that twinkle in the other person's eye, that unspoken connection that is the beginning of so much more...

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Athletic

  • Height

    5'6"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Tonia

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    Woman. 37 years old. Zodiac sign: Taurus.

    Looking for: man. In age: 34-44

    I am looking for a relationship and someone to enjoy life with. I am ready for life's new adventures and looking for a partner in crime.

  • Lucy4

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    Woman. 59 years old. Zodiac sign: Aquarius.

    Looking for: man. In age: 61-89

    I'm a single mum, recently divorced. Looking for a real man, who is willing to be a in a commited and serious relationship. i enjoy going to the beach, and a walk in the park, i enjoy the feel of ocean breeze. I like to go shopping, i love to travel.. i'm searching for a partner i could spend my life with and i hope i find it here.

  • Mallory

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    Woman. 38 years old. Zodiac sign: Aries.

    Looking for: man. In age: 35-45

    I am a high energy woman who loves outdoor activities, especially hiking and canoeing. Two of my favorite sports that I love participating in are volleyball and cycling. In addition, I work-out several times a week. I also love to occasionally travel and explore when I can. I like going out with my friends where we enjoy live music, karaoke, open mic night, and community events. It's always great getting together for cook-outs and special events too.I have dogs and cats and am a huge animal lover, so I'm looking for the same. I have been a volunteer with the Humane Society for many years. I'm also very organized and would like to meet a guy with similar attributes. Although I enjoy staying active, I do like to kick back and relax, and watch movies and and play board games.My match would be a motivated, well rounded, non-smoking man between the ages of ***, who enjoys adventure sports and traveling and loves trying new things. A man that leads a fairly active and healthy lifestyle and that takes pride in himself and his body. Someone who can make me laugh and isn't a couch potato. If this sounds like you, then send me a message! A bit more of info that I feel is important, so as not to waste my time or yours. While I enjoy spending time with children, I'm not interested in dating guys with kids unless they are grown. So even if your kids don't live with you, but live with your ex full-time, you still have kids. I also cannot have kids of my own, so if you hope to have children 1 day, then we would not be a match for those reasons. I am also not interested in dating a guy who has ever been convicted of a crime aside from a speeding or parking ticket, or something along those lines. Or even if you have committed such crimes but have yet to be caught.On another note, communication and trust are extremely important to me and i feel they are the key components to make a relationship work and to keep it surviving. For example: If you say you are going to do something than I will hold you to it, unless of course it's some sort of emergency that can't be prevented. Actions do speak louder than words. I am not a mind reader.As for what I'm looking for, ultimately a long term committed relationship that hopefully will lead to marriage eventually. I'm not looking to get married tomorrow, because I realize that those things take time, but that is my future goal.*UPDATE: It has been my experience that most of the guys that I have chatted with on here will never agree to talk on the phone or even meet. They just want to send endless messages for hours and days on end. While I feel it's necessary to do so for a short time to feel comfortable with that person before giving out your #, I am serious about wanting to meet and date, in hopes of finding a guy to be in a committed relationship with. So if you have no intentions of actually talking on the phone and meeting for a date soon, then we are not a match.* Possibly going out to eat or anything that would enable us to enjoy great conversation. (Movies don't make a good first date b/c it doesn't allow for conversation.) I'm always up for almost any kind of adventure and I truly believe that any activity can be fun when you're with the right person!

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