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Jessica, 40

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About Me

So what can I tell you about myself? I guess the first thing that I should tell you is that I have one daughter. She is what I am most grateful for in life. I try to be the best mother and role model that I can be for her. But there is a lot more to me than just being a good mom.I have worked in law enforcement for the last 15 years, so I can be tough when I need to, but most of the time I am pretty nice. I am actually probably not what you picture when you think of an officer. I am pretty shy until I get to know someone. After I get to know a person I open up easily. I like to laugh and have fun. I am "the glass is half full" type of person. I always try to see the positive side of things. I'm a good listener and I try to do whatever I can to help the people that I care about.I like the simple things in life. I enjoy going to the movies or out to dinner. I am a social drinker but I can be perfectly happy not drinking at all. I'm mainly a jeans and blouse type of girl, but it is nice to get dressed up once in awhile for a nice night out. I'm hoping to meet someone who enjoys some of the same things that I enjoy. I'm hoping to meet someone who can add new experiences to my life and who I can add new experiences to theirs. I do believe in love, but I don't believe it is something that you find overnight. I know that a solid relationship takes time to grow and that it is not always easy. I'm willing to put in the effort when I meet that special someone.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Other

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'3"

  • Eye color

    Hazel

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Aliynah G

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    Woman. 34 years old. Zodiac sign: Scorpio.

    Looking for: man. In age: 18-31

    Hi! My name is Aliynah G. I am never married other woman with kids from Kent, Ohio, United States. Now I'm looking for new relationships. I want to meet a man, love of my life.

  • Graciela

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    Woman. 38 years old. Zodiac sign: Cancer.

    Looking for: man. In age: 35-45

    I heard you are a player? Nice to meet you, I'm the coach!Wow! Do you guys go to the beach/pool and belittle every woman there for their choice of swimwear? Why not? Most people wear less at the beach than i am wearing in my pic! Do you not look at magazines or watch television/movies because there might be too much skin showing? That's what i thought! If you cannot appreciate true beauty/art go on to the fat **** that is waiting to model for you.... Don't waste your time here. I truly don't give a sh*about what you have to say! Get it? I don't have much to offer but what I do have is my most valuable possession. I have a heart i can give you... It's in less than prefect condition, a little bruised and battered... Probably even scarred but underneath all it's blemishes it can still love like no other. I only ask that you treat it with the utmost respect, love, kindness, and gentle touch that you can. I have my body a soul which are in the same condition as my heart. Covered in scars and blemishes. Each telling a story of their own. Some are good and some not so good. But these are my stories that I hold dear. Nobody can take them from me. Nobody can change them. All you can do is add to them. The one that I allow this opportunity does not have te opportunity to change my history! However, he DOES have the opportunity to grab ahold of our future and run with it! Create new stories, ones that NO fairytale will ever begin to compare to. No author will ever be able to create a romance novel to compare to our story. Passion at the highest level possible. Love that is unbreakable! He is out there somewhere and one day we will unite :)I'm as real as they get! I am the outgoing, independent, loves to get dirty (real dirt lol) kind of woman. I retired from the military at age 32. Jack of all trades (master of none lol). I work on my own vehicles, sometimes turning wrenches better than most men. Love the outdoors, fishing is at the top of my list, camping, boating, riding my jet ski, swimming..... The hotter it is outside the better! I am always up for a good time. If you want to know anything..... Just ask!UPDATE: Don't send me perverted, unsolicited, messages, pictures or anything of that nature! I am interested in the person NOT your penis!Don't tell me how much money you make because I DON'T CARE!!! Money doesn't matter to me.... It is that simple. I take care of mine, you take care of yours and leave it at that. I will NOT ever depend on a man especially for money. Also, I will NOT support a man financially. I'm not rich and won't pretend to be. If you are looking for a woman to take care of you that is me BUT if you are looking for someone to fill in where your mommy left off KEEP MOVING!Call me shallow if you want but i am one of the few that will admit LOOKS MATTER! Have you ever known a relationship to work if there was no sexual attraction there? Just because i am not attracted to you doesn't mean you are ugly. It simply means you are not MY type. What i find sexy I'm sure is completely different for the next person. If i don't message you back don't take it to heart. I'm simply not going to answer every message especially if I'm not interested and do NOT keep sending me messages repeatedly!!! If i do answer your message that means something about you had peeked my interest. However, that is not a guarantee for a love connection.I usually will NOT initiate a conversation by messaging first because believe it or not I am shy! :/ so if i catch your eye please feel free to message me.If i do send you a message first it does NOT mean I'm into you. It just means whatever i messaged you about was good enough to deserve a comment.I am more attracted to younger men and men my own age but not completely opposed to older men. I guess it all depends on the person.Ohhhhhh and FYI I'm a fool for bright blue, grey, and green eyes. LolOne pic is NOT enough for me to decide if i think you are my type or not! So if you are interested in me i would suggest you post a few pics!If you have NO PIc you can forget it all together!!Send me a message telling me the "things you will and/or can do to me is very disgusting and disrespectful! Treat me the way you would expect a man to treat your mother or daughter. It is that simple! anything outdoors...... 4-..... Mudding.... Fishing.....Just have to wait and see.

  • Beth

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    Woman. 40 years old. Zodiac sign: Scorpio.

    Looking for: man. In age: 37-47

    I thought for a second I might have met someone. But, nope, still here :)...... But, I think friends only is what I need for a bit.Hi :) I'm a single mother of three. My oldest has moved out of the house. :( I've been divorced for 8 years and have well put that behind me. Well, let's see, I definitely would like to find a serious relationship eventually. But I think you have to spend at least a little time getting to know someone first to see if they fit into that category. Chemistry is more immediate, but you gotta have that too. ;). I'm sort of on a voyage right now to spend more time being happy. I woke up one day and realized that I was letting all my burdens weigh me down. It was making me someone I didn't want to be. Lol, this is a work in progress, but I am on my way. The biggest lesson in that for me has been my own mindset more than any external factors. I am sort of rediscovering how to have fun.Like everyone, I love to laugh. But, I really want to find that person I can be comfortable and silly with. You know, someone you can play with?;, that's bonus points. Yeah, I can be goofy at times. :)A good communicator is a must. *** Or at least you have to be ok with listening to me chatter away. I am a thinker in this aspect and I enjoy it. I like studying the world and myself trying to figure out the whys to things. A guy who is intelligent enough to keep up with me on this front is a huge turn on. That being said, sometimes I need someone to pull me out of my own head. :)I consider my spirit a dancer. :) And, as such, I love live music. Although, I haven't been to see near enough in recent years. I can be both extroverted and introverted. It all just depends on my mood. (Typical Gemini)Right now, I don't have a lot of freedom for the spontaneous trips etc. Lol, but I dream of the day that I will. I think I vaguely remember that I liked to travel. ;) My point is I can't be taking off as I still have children at home. But, I'd like that to change someday when empty nest hits. :)Lastly, when I fall in love with someone, I am crazy loyal to them and, in my eyes, they are the only man in the world. First date, let's decide what works for both of us. But, before that, let's meet for a half hour and see if we are even interested.

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