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Ruth, 38

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About Me

I live by these simple words, if you don't go after what you want, you'll never have it. If you don't ask, the answer is always no. If you don't step forward, you're always in the same place. I believe that in order to be irreplaceable, one must always be different. I find beauty in things that are odd and imperfect, they are much more interesting. Laughter is the best medicine. I am the combined effort of everyone I have ever known, the creator of my own catastrophe, someone's reason to smile. I'm an independent woman and can definitely take care of myself, I'm looking for a man who can take care of himself as well, be my best friend, stand side by side, conquer and share life experiences together.I'm looking for someone who is adventurous and likes to try new things. Who is open minded and creative and has an open heart. Someone who can get along with just about anyone and looks for the good in people. I need someone who lives with integrity, will be honest and truthful, loyal, can be empathetic and sympathetic without being a total wuss. Lol! I also need someone who sees me as a priority and not an option. I'm a sucker for tall men and a great sense of humor! Who can laugh at himself and along with others. Must be open minded to trying and exploring new things, and lives a drama free lifestyle! I am an artist and learn by being hands on and watching. I love photography and can find beauty in things that some people just can't see. Exploring nooks and crannies, armpits and elbows, anywhere off the beaten path to take a great picture. I also love to travel and take road trips, this world has so much beauty, I love to explore!I also like to paint and create altered art books. I love anything altered or mixed media or abstract... Hanging out with friends, sipping on some wine or drinking beers by the fire, enjoying family time and playing with my niece and nephew, life doesn't get any better than that!My goals and aspirations? I guess would be to experience all that I can in the life that I am living right now. There are still so many things to learn and experience that I have not yet done. Making as many people smile and feel good about themselves, it's just good for the soul!If there is anything you want to know, just ask! First date? I'm pretty easy going, I'm up for just about anything!

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Curvy

  • Height

    5'6"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Samiiepixie

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    Woman. 32 years old. Zodiac sign: Pisces.

    Looking for: man. In age: 36-45

    Hi! My name is Samiiepixie. I am woman from Kent, Ohio, United States. Now I'm looking for new relationships. I want to meet a man, love of my life.

  • Graciela

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    Woman. 38 years old. Zodiac sign: Cancer.

    Looking for: man. In age: 35-45

    I heard you are a player? Nice to meet you, I'm the coach!Wow! Do you guys go to the beach/pool and belittle every woman there for their choice of swimwear? Why not? Most people wear less at the beach than i am wearing in my pic! Do you not look at magazines or watch television/movies because there might be too much skin showing? That's what i thought! If you cannot appreciate true beauty/art go on to the fat **** that is waiting to model for you.... Don't waste your time here. I truly don't give a sh*about what you have to say! Get it? I don't have much to offer but what I do have is my most valuable possession. I have a heart i can give you... It's in less than prefect condition, a little bruised and battered... Probably even scarred but underneath all it's blemishes it can still love like no other. I only ask that you treat it with the utmost respect, love, kindness, and gentle touch that you can. I have my body a soul which are in the same condition as my heart. Covered in scars and blemishes. Each telling a story of their own. Some are good and some not so good. But these are my stories that I hold dear. Nobody can take them from me. Nobody can change them. All you can do is add to them. The one that I allow this opportunity does not have te opportunity to change my history! However, he DOES have the opportunity to grab ahold of our future and run with it! Create new stories, ones that NO fairytale will ever begin to compare to. No author will ever be able to create a romance novel to compare to our story. Passion at the highest level possible. Love that is unbreakable! He is out there somewhere and one day we will unite :)I'm as real as they get! I am the outgoing, independent, loves to get dirty (real dirt lol) kind of woman. I retired from the military at age 32. Jack of all trades (master of none lol). I work on my own vehicles, sometimes turning wrenches better than most men. Love the outdoors, fishing is at the top of my list, camping, boating, riding my jet ski, swimming..... The hotter it is outside the better! I am always up for a good time. If you want to know anything..... Just ask!UPDATE: Don't send me perverted, unsolicited, messages, pictures or anything of that nature! I am interested in the person NOT your penis!Don't tell me how much money you make because I DON'T CARE!!! Money doesn't matter to me.... It is that simple. I take care of mine, you take care of yours and leave it at that. I will NOT ever depend on a man especially for money. Also, I will NOT support a man financially. I'm not rich and won't pretend to be. If you are looking for a woman to take care of you that is me BUT if you are looking for someone to fill in where your mommy left off KEEP MOVING!Call me shallow if you want but i am one of the few that will admit LOOKS MATTER! Have you ever known a relationship to work if there was no sexual attraction there? Just because i am not attracted to you doesn't mean you are ugly. It simply means you are not MY type. What i find sexy I'm sure is completely different for the next person. If i don't message you back don't take it to heart. I'm simply not going to answer every message especially if I'm not interested and do NOT keep sending me messages repeatedly!!! If i do answer your message that means something about you had peeked my interest. However, that is not a guarantee for a love connection.I usually will NOT initiate a conversation by messaging first because believe it or not I am shy! :/ so if i catch your eye please feel free to message me.If i do send you a message first it does NOT mean I'm into you. It just means whatever i messaged you about was good enough to deserve a comment.I am more attracted to younger men and men my own age but not completely opposed to older men. I guess it all depends on the person.Ohhhhhh and FYI I'm a fool for bright blue, grey, and green eyes. LolOne pic is NOT enough for me to decide if i think you are my type or not! So if you are interested in me i would suggest you post a few pics!If you have NO PIc you can forget it all together!!Send me a message telling me the "things you will and/or can do to me is very disgusting and disrespectful! Treat me the way you would expect a man to treat your mother or daughter. It is that simple! anything outdoors...... 4-..... Mudding.... Fishing.....Just have to wait and see.

  • Jeanine

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    Woman. 38 years old. Zodiac sign: Scorpio.

    Looking for: man. In age: 35-45

    My uniqueness is what creates where I am in life as well as what roads I am currently traveling. The past few years between my travels to the middle-east, I have been working at holistic health of bodyworks vs the traditional nursing. My desires of conservativeness and organic living has me headed in the business direction to assist those who want to be healthy. Ironically, it stems from the roads I have literally traveled and are mending its repercussions. Some folks are entertained by my clever, imaginative, and witty mind. Pretty energetic and generally adaptable in restless devious ways. A downfall...indecisive sometimes when needing to chose a place to dine or what to eat. Quite upfront and very honest as integrity is a must. While I enjoy doing many a thing in life, I also invite the moments of intimate conversation whether while watching the sun rise or set or even snuggled in an embrace on the sofa. My taste in music spans across all genre. From hard/heavy rock, jazz, pop, Christian, to truly luv'n live music! If I had the opportunity to carry out a hobby I'd carry out activities outdoors are on the top of the list. The man that enters my world for long term will need to understand service to God and country. Desire to give as well as able to receive. If you are left and not right, please move on. If you don't have a picture keep searching...or you better send me one in your first message. No desire to have children, I'm not inerested in you. And if you do not love God we will never make a couple. I am honest and very aware of what I am looking for...ya'll that send one word or *** to meet without even writing something worth reading in your message...best wishes fishing I won't be your fish. If a first date is dinner and a movie...you and I won't mix. Dinner is great but how can two learn of the other during a movie?

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