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Shelby, 38

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About Me

I am a positive person. The type that always sees the cup half full, never half empty. I believe someone's true character is shown when people are at the bottom. The way one handles these situations defines who you truly are. I'm not one who likes to live life with any "what if's". To take chance is to truly live. You can't live in the past if you want to move on to see what the future holds. So many get stuck looking at the door that closed that they can't turn around for even a second to see the door that has opened. You will rarely see me without a smile on my face. I am a very kindhearted person that shows compassion to everyone regardless of their status in life. You never know what a kind word, a kind gesture, a kind deed, or even a simple smile can do for someone in life. I live my life doing all of these. I debated on even writing anything because the day I put up my profile and my pictures uploaded I got bombarded with messages within a matter of minutes. I second guessed the online dating at that moment thinking, "are people really that superficial that they don't even care about who I am, not what I look like". What is inside of me is more beautiful than my outside could ever possibly be. I know that we must be attracted to someone, but I actually read profiles to see if I would be interested in a person. I don't just base it on the pictures of whether I will respond or not. We are all looking for someone to share our lives with and it will take a lot more than looks to get me to settle down with a man. I am looking for one special man in my life. I am not looking for the perfect man, I am looking for the prefect man for me. He must be kind, know how to love and be loved, have a great sense of humor (very important to me, he must make me laugh), and intelligent. If you have any kind of mental illness, a serial dater, anger issues, jealousy issues, take any illegal drugs, live with your mom, or have commitment issues, please, pass me by! I have no drama in my life and I don't want anyone else's. Ain't nobody got time that. I hate to even have to put this but found it to be necessary. I am looking for a certain type of person just like everyone else on here. I don't need hate mail. For one, you are really just wasting your time and two, there is no possible way I could open, read, and respond to every message. I actually have a wonderful life that I like living.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Athletic

  • Height

    5'3"

  • Eye color

    Green

  • Smoke

    Yes, socially

  • Drink

    No

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    Woman. 28 years old. Zodiac sign: Virgo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 18-29

    Hi! My name is Zoe. I am never married spiritual but not religious caucasian woman without kids from Kent, Ohio, United States. Now I'm looking for new relationships. I want to meet a man, love of my life.

  • Lea

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    Woman. 38 years old. Zodiac sign: Gemini.

    Looking for: man. In age: 35-45

    I enjoy being active, like being outdoors, love animals...I have a love hate relationship with carbs...I prefer to think of chocolate as a veggie because it comes from a bean...sometimes at the end of the day I feel like my give-a-sh*t is broken...I must add no mullets please honestly the party is WAY over and the business foreclosed long ago... if you wish to know something just asklaughter is the best thing everoh so is a warped sense of humor for all u know I'm a short fat troll with a hump on my back and a wart on my nose (where warped sense of humor comes in)one last add on: if you're wearing orange and your pic looks like a mug shot most likely it is one, so please keep fishing preferably at the other end of the pondanother add on..teeth are required as in you must have your originals in your mouth just bc they're bought and paid for does not mean they're your teeth in the sense I'm talking about I'm sorry if I sound shallow but that's a definite deal breaker for me (full false teeth set) I'm starting to think this pond may be a bit polluted and I'm about to take off the waders and hang up my fishin pole...ill know what I'm looking for when I find it the best thing...finding what you never knew you were looking for...that connection I don't want a player or conartist I'd like to meet a genuine humorous person who will go with the flow and see what happens LAUGHING IS IMPORTANT SENSE OF HUMOR A MUST and just have fun even when doing nothing.....other things are also important but shall remain unstated for now :) alrighty one last cast and here we go!! (using worms for bait maybe that's the problem..maybe I should try beer *** or a walk in the park so many possibilities I'm pretty flexible and just go w the flow (gotta say a drive by or liquor store robbery are out...sorry not my type of date) oh yes and checking in w the wife while on a date again no thank you...

  • Eddie

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    Woman. 36 years old. Zodiac sign: Gemini.

    Looking for: man. In age: 33-43

    I love to play to pool and go out to see live bands, and karoake. I have a warped sense of humor, but I'm not mean. I love all kinds of music, especially rock. My dream is to go back to school to become a nurse practitioner someday. My ideal first date is a nice dinner, maybe a movie and then****ails at the end, or, to go see a local band.

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