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Lena, 40

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About Me

Well so far dating has not been a positive for me in any way, shape, or form. I wouldn't say I am a picky girlie, but I do know the kind of person that I click well with. I'm not writing a serious relationship off. But I don't have much faith left in the idea of being with Mr. Right. So let me tell you the basics on me and then I will tell you what I am looking for. I'm a pretty upfront person. I'd say I have a good head on my shoulders. I'm a TOTAL Gemini so I can be flip-floppy. But don't confuse that for flakey. I can be slightly stubborn at times, but fair, and I won't sugarcoat squat. I'm very strong willed. If I say I'm going to do something I do it. I'm also no pushover. I have a lot of ink and always adding. My ears are gauged, nose is pierced, and I don't dress like a soccer mom. I know when to tone things down. But will not change for anyone and wouldn't ask anyone to for me. I have a teenage son who lives with his grandma. Good reasons, not bad. I've also been happily divorced twice. I'm human and made bad choices. I wasn't letting my son grow up with bad role models. With that being said.. Who am I looking for? Basically people who enjoy the same interests I do. That is an absolute MUST. Physically I tend to go for tall men. Especially blondes. A bit of honesty.. I'm not attracted to bald men. It's not personal, many women are. I'm just not.. I'm sure some men don't like redheads ;. Men who are confident and know who they are. I do go to the gym and follow a good diet, so I prefer men who are the same, age ***. So I'm only interested in talking to men who are fairly local. If I were to hit it off with someone I would't want a long distance thing and I won't relocate ;) Sense of humor is a must. You have to be able to keep my wheels spinning. Not an easy task. Take a look at my interests. If you think we may mesh, hmu. If I'm interested I'll get back. If I don't please don't take it personally and good luck. If the company is right, it doesn't matter.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'6"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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    Woman. 39 years old. Zodiac sign: Cancer.

    Looking for: man. In age: 36-46

    I am an independent and adventurous lady who is normally optimistic and always has a smile. I am very active and love the outdoors and nature. I am passionate about healthy living and am looking for someone who feels the same and believes in taking care of themselves through exercise and healthy eating. I'm not obsessive by any means but it is my lifestyle. If you're idea of fun is watching TV on the couch, we just won't be a good match. I'm a fairly down to earth country girl. A bit of a tom boy who isn't afraid to get my hands dirty but have no problem knocking your socks off for a night on the town. I believe in living life to its fullest every day *** putting life off for tomorrow.I am looking for a long term relationship with a man who shares my zest for life. I believe that mutual attraction, respect, and love are all crucial to a successful relationship. Sharing some common interests would be even better. I love running, hiking, camping, travel, photography, and nature/great outdoors. I've been so busy for years raising my kids and building my business that I've had no time for anyone else. Now I'm at a point in my life that I'm ready to fall in love and be in a serious relationship.I'm not looking for perfection but I don't think anyone should settle. I want a partner in life who is crazy about me and I crazy about them. Someone to share this crazy life together and be best friends, lovers, and equal partners in the relationship.***I hate the disclaimers that people put in but experience is showing that it must be necessary so bear with me :) I have 2 kids, 17 & 15, and they live with me full time. I'm not looking for a dad for them but a companion for me. However if this is a problem, don't even bother messaging as they are part of my life period. And I'm not looking for a text buddy. It's great initially to get to know each other however it's hard to really know someone's personality through text so be willing to meet or at least talk on the phone. If you're not willing to do this then you're not really wanting to seriously date and not what I'm looking for at this time. A great first date to me is to meet up in a small cafe and just get to know one another and see if we are compatible.

  • Randi

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    Woman. 36 years old. Zodiac sign: Cancer.

    Looking for: man. In age: 33-43

    My hobbies are spending time with my family and friends.My goals are to find someone that knows how to treat a woman and not play games with her'i am a hopeless romantic that likes to make my man feel wanted and i want him to make me feel the same way.I am a very independant woman,i dont depend on noone if i cant get it myself i dont need it.I listen to just about any music.I like country,zydeco,some rap,and rock,and oldies.

  • Kellie

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    Woman. 36 years old. Zodiac sign: Aquarius.

    Looking for: man. In age: 33-43

    I am super outgoing, love to have fun, kind hearted kind of gal. I have the outlook on life of you only get one go round on this ride called life, so might as well have fun. Seriously, if you can't have fun, then what is the point. I am very much an outdoors lover...fishing, hunting, riding four wheelers with or without mud, back roading, weekend roadtrips, camping, floating the river, lake time, riding horses, etc are just a few things I love to do. I love to cook inside and on the grill. I also love to decorate....ok yeah I am pretty much a modern day so-called Betty Homemaker. lol I'm spontaneous, full of energy, and absolutely love life!!!I am NOT a size 2, but I am no where near a size 22 either. I am the in between not super skinny, but now huge...so yes, I have meat on my bones and I am not ashamed of it. I work out occasionally, try to eat right most of the time, but I am not going to starve myself and by all means if I crave steak and baked tator, I am going to eat! So if you are looking for a super model, super skinny chick....wrong gal here...carry on!I have morals and standards. I have a good job, a vehicle, my own place, my parents do not pay my bills, I take care of my kids and like to think I am a good mother. My kids are my number one priority. I am country....I talk country, dress country, act country, and do country things. The city life is something that does not appeal to me. I am NOT a ragging redneck, nor do I find that attractive in a male. I am country with class and I desire a man that is country with class also. One that knows how to fish and hunt and that backroading is an activity that country folks do. Also must fit in with my crazy, fun, and occasionally hell rasing family and friends! Last but not least no offense fella's, but I don't date out of my race. I don't date blacks or hispanics period. Not racist, just not my thing, So don't waste your time. I am so non-typical! As long as it isn't dinner followed by a movie it's good. Something fun...bowling, fishing, riding four wheelers, dancing, something where we can have fun and actually talk and get to know one another....along with dinner, I mean you gotta eat right? Lol

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