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Bessie, 40

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About Me

OK, raise your hand if you want to be the one to take me off of here....Just kidding, that's just the teacher in me. I love being playful. Maybe I'll show you with some gentle teasing or wrestling with you into that great kind of uncontrollable laughter. But, when there's something important you need to talk about, I can just as easily be a great listener. If you play tennis or golf, yes, I'd love to learn. If you don't, I know we could have fun learning together. But, nothing's better than snuggling with me on a chilly night watching a great movie or an exciting playoff game.In meeting me, you'll discover I'm a woman who has her own opinion, believes in the man she loves, will always be there for him making him feel like a king. Passionate, loving, action-oriented, trustworthy and always looking for a positive outcome, that's me. In meeting you, I want to feel an easy connection and hope you're the kind of guy who feels lucky in life and excited about your future. You don't take yourself too seriously, yet you take life seriously. You're confident, a good decision maker, trustworthy and can still be silly with me. I love men who are bold and masculine yet make me feel esteemed and protected. Someone who wants to open doors, keep me warm and look out for my best interest. If you like hugs and affection, that's a plus too : )As we get to know each other, you will get to know many of the other valuable treasures and secrets of the girl whose photograph just caught your eye. One thing fun and romantic to me? A low key night spent cooking and enjoying something fun and delicious with.....you?...I like first dates that involve activity and give you a chance to experience one another's personality. So, any of these can be great, especially if they're followed by something sweet, like going out for ice cream.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Yes

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Slim

  • Height

    5'8"

  • Eye color

    Hazel

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Bertie

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    Woman. 37 years old. Zodiac sign: Capricorn.

    Looking for: man. In age: 34-44

    Ahhh, what am I looking for? Someone Honest, Funny, Fun Loving, Hard Working, Plays Hard, Easy Going, Family Oriented, Energetic In Shape, Companionate & Passionate. I think that when you describe what you're looking for in another person it should sound like you are describing yourself. ;)Age doesn't matter to me. I think what's more important is ones Maturity Level & Energy Level. That simply varies from person to person. It's life experiences & how one's raised that contributes to what molds them into that person.I do have a son & daughter that are both in high school. I think its funny that in the profile it asks you have children then if you want children. I do want my kids (most of the time ... its not like I can return or exchange them). lol However, that part of my life has passed... I'm moving forward & that would be as if I started completely over. So if you are a man that wants to have children of your own then I'm not the lady for you. :)Don't let the fact that I'm looking for long term & wanting to get married scare you off. This doesn't mean that I'm desperate to tie the knot & will be expecting a proposal by the end of the date! lol I just want to find that special someone to grow old & disgusting with. Ha ha ha :)~I'm just built for marriage. I don't care much for the dating scene. I want to have someone to take care of & enjoy life with. Someone that I'm able to make a better person by just simply being in their life & vice versa. So please try to sweep me off my feet ... I look forward to it. :)***I don't usually respond to messages if you don't have any pictures.*** If I can put myself out there & upload some pics ... I expect the same from you. ;) Somewhere public for the 1st date ... My mom & dad didn't raise a fool. ;)A nice dinner & conversation would be a great start. I'm laid back & easy to please. So there is no need to stress over what you think I'd expect or over plan it. Just be yourself & I will be myself. We can see if it leads anywhere from there.

  • Petra

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    Woman. 39 years old. Zodiac sign: Aquarius.

    Looking for: man. In age: 36-46

    Intelligent, poetic, artistic.... Prefer insanity and chaos to its boring counter-part. Easy going, laid back but do not mistake that for a door mat. (far from it) Outspoken, well versed in many diverse topics. I will dance as if no one is watching, laugh as if no one is listening and love the right man with mind, heart, soul and body. I have had a few *** about my dedication to the gym. I am at the gym 5 to 7 days a week. I absolutely love the gym. I can focus all of my energy on me. In 6 months time, I have completely changed my appearance. I love to see the difference in myself, I enjoy pushing myself to work even harder and cant wait to see the results of my dedication in another 6 months. Favorite quotes: If you want things in your life to change, you have to start the change from within you, first. (Unknown)I will not be any mans down-time, spare-time, sometime or spare-time, so please, don't waste my time.;You have to risk your life to get love. You have to get right to the edge of death to ever be saved." from the book Choke by Chuck PalahniukThere are so many more I could add, I shall spare you. Diverse is definitely the word I associate myself with. Free-thinker, open minded are a few more. Many layers...how deep are you willing to dive?Some may think.. yea they all say open minded.. I can tell you, when you really want to be a part of someone's life, you are willing to explore aspects in their life so that a bond can grow between you. Please, correct me if I am wrong, but is that not the purpose of a relationship? To find someone who you want to share in their life, to allow them into your life...to have the bond grow and begin the foundation of something even more. Just to be completely upfront, at the moment I have 2 tattoos. A small one on my shoulder and a large one that takes up the entire right side of my back. I have a few more designs I would like to have inked on my personal canvas. :)

  • Sondra

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    Woman. 37 years old. Zodiac sign: Aquarius.

    Looking for: man. In age: 34-44

    I love comedy & laughing! I love to camp & be outdoors. My goals include finishing my Masters, getting through this rough economy (seriously). Wish to meet a party soul and have much fun

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