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Eliza, 49
United States, New York, Lindenhurst

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About Me

would the real southern gentleman with his priorities in order, please stand up! ha ha~ I have tried this site a few times and here I go again with a new profile. to me its quite simple... I just want to find that connection. The one that is real. I'm not 20 anymore and neither are you. I am not looking for a hook up or a man that is trying to serial date on here. I am looking for a mature, confident, established, fun, intellectual, goofy, sexy, passionate, and mannered kind of man that all the other women want too. lol. The thing I dislike the most on here is getting *** those that I have no attraction to and not knowing what to say back. so do I just move on to the next *** I say "thank you for contacting me, but I am sorry I do not feel we are the match I am looking for"... I have sent *** and got no reply back and its not a happy feeling. I would never want to feel i had any part in making someone else feel insufficient in any way.. I have that certain "look" I am searching for just like you are. Once that happens, then its time to try to get to know that person and see if there are things we have in common. Physical Attraction is of great importance to me. I am sure it is to you as well...If I had to be completely honest and describe my perfect man (physically) it would be this: 5'***'3, ***pds, dark hair, beautiful teeth and smile and a fit muscular body. OH and lives within 1 mile of my home.. ha ha..( just kidding, one the mile thing.) I am very nice. I really am. I care deeply and intensely. I am not high maintenence. No gold digger here. I make my own money and dont need yours. I have been single for 11 yrs and am quite independent.. (was married just short of 20 yrs***I expect a man to act like a man and be a gentleman in every aspect. Dont walk in front of me, just beside me and dont walk thru the door first. thats a pet peeve I have.. I dont ask for much and I am not ****y. I am quite easy going and forgiving but I am just a bit old fashioned too. I will do things for you that you least expect to make you feel special. I cook well and love to make you happy and feel appreciated. I have strong morals and am a Christian. If you are a non believer, it wont work with us.. I am not a fanatic but believeing in God is very important to me. I have 2 daughters and they are my life... not saying you wouldnt or couldnt be too, but I am a mom and a good one! They are grown~ I love animals, have 2 cats and if you dont like cats well it wouldnt work with us. I work hard, have a great job and am responsible. have never done drugs and hate.... that people do.I do however like to drink beer and probably drink too much sometimes. I am a pool player, and love live music. I have a new car and respect people who work hard to have nice things that they have worked hard for. Nothing has been handed to me. ever. I only like to snuggle for about 10 mins and then I need my space to stretch.. ha ha.. getting deep now I think. Honestly, I am really a cool person and easy to love.. I dont put up with a whole bunch of nonsense or fake people. If you are a player, move on. I have mastered being a player myself and I can smell you a mile away... ;) at this point in my life, I just want to find that special person to grow up with and close to and see if we can keep the fire going till we die. simple to me. Cheers~~ somewhere outside, warm weather, enjoying a good beer with good chemistry and conversation.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'4"

  • Eye color

    Green

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

Pop Craft Making German Italian Japanese
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