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Lydia, 48
United States, New York, Lindenhurst

Offline, last seen Mon, 22 Jun 2026 18:00:46

About Me

Hello tall single man,How's it going? I am here looking for a real and lasting relationship, not a one-night stand. I prefer an emotionally mature, honest man who is kind and caring. It's important to be honest up front about your intentions. I think being truly honest is respectful. I am all about being respectful and expect that in return.I have had some business success in my life but I also understand life's hard times too. I am educated and cultured. I am an artistic and creative person so I enjoy art galleries, traveling, visiting historical places, writing, and doing other creative stuff.I am very tall and average build. I like to walk and eat healthy but do not live in a gym, although I do feel like I live at my job sometimes! I would love to be with someone who enjoys being a little active on weekends, like take a bike ride, or go for long walks, work in the yard, etc. I do stay very busy!I raised one son and he just graduated from law school (Go Gators!). But I love kids and so if you have them, no worries.Race is not a issue for me. My mind is open to meeting one special person. My only request is the following: He needs to be at least 6'1 tall, and free on weekends, employed, has a car, is not newly released from jail, not married, and honest about all of the above! From there we have to talk and see if we are a fit.What interests you? I would love to hear more! Do you know what you want?So if you are ready to meet and say hello, please do send a message. You never know! If you are my type I will reply! I prefer to meet in the evening and talk over food. :) I usually can handle that after talking to you a while on the phone and exchanging pics. I will only meet men I think might be ok for me, and it's fine if you do the same.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    6'0"

  • Eye color

    Green

  • Smoke

    Yes, socially

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

Rap Greek Indian Biography Mystery Western American Football Cricket
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