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Phoebe, 50
United States, New York, Huntington

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IN A NUTSHELL...*I like to laugh*I don't pretend to be someone I'm not*I'm attractive*Most people like me*I like most people*I'm a Christian*Im not looking for a sugar daddy*No drama with the ex husband*I'm happy with my lifeI'M LOOKING FOR*Someone who makes me laugh*Someone who knows right from wrong*Someone who values me*Someone I can trustLASTLY*I don't believe in love at first sight, but I do believe in the click. If we don't click, then we keep fishing and we'll know, pretty quickly, if we click.NOW FOR THE REST OF THE STORY...I am looking for someone who still believes in love and someone who can laugh at this crazy thing we call life. So who am I? I ams who I ams. (Popeye) I don't know how to be anything else.I like to take life easy. I like to spend the day at the beach, on a boat or with a good book. I love to scuba dive, course it's been so long since I've been that I'd probably need a refresher course before I went again. I love to go to the movies, just about any kind except horror. I like all kinds of music. No rap or hard rock.) When I'm not working or making jewelry (my side thing and real passion) I like to relax. I like to go find some hole in the wall with cold drinks, good food and good music. I prefer a guy with a guitar to a band ya got to scream over. I like most people and most people seem to like me. I'm not bad looking. I'm told I have a beautiful smile. I need to lose some weight, but I'm working on it. I'm not really where I want to be in life right now, but I'm working on that too and I'm ok with where I am, for now. I got my faults, but I'm a good person. I am easy going and very accepting. I not gonna try to change you. I may decide that you're not the person for me, but that doesn't mean we can't be friends. I'm independent and able to take care of myself. I don't make a ton of money, but I can pay my bills. I love meeting people and hanging out with friends or someone special, but I need time to myself from time to time, as well. I was married for 18 years, most of which was good. I still believe there are good men out there and a good relationship is still possible. I know it takes work, but when you meet someone and the connection is there, it's a great thing. I was very hurt by my divorce and I needed time to heal, but it's been almost 9 years and I'm good now. I want to be with someone that I can love and respect; that I can laugh and cry with. I want to be with someone who has his head on straight and is basically happy with life and where he is in it. I want to be with someone who makes me laugh, who gets my jokes and who can laugh at himself. I want someone who knows the difference between right and wrong and who tries to do the right thing, even when it's not easy. I want someone who treats me right and makes me a priority in his life; someone who wants to be with me. I don't want to feel like, "I'll do," but I don't want to be someone you can't live without, either. I want to be someone you don't want to live without. I have two "grown" kids and a granddaughter. Both my boys are amazing in their own way. Both are very, very smart. Course neither is as smart as he thinks he is. They're 20 & 22. They still got a lot to learn. They are both out on their own and are doing pretty well. As far as baggage goes...let's be honest. We ALL have baggage. You can't get to our age without life affecting you, unless you've lived in a hole by yourself all your life. (If that's the case, keep fishing. I'm not interested. Yikes. Lol) The thing is not, if we have it, but how we deal with it. On the other hand, if ya got a small over the shoulder bag that fits easily into the overhead luggage compartment, then ok, you're human. I am a Christian. I don't always do what I should, but thank God, my God is a loving and forgiving God.In all honesty, I'm not sure about this online dating thing. It seems kind of cold, kinda like going to the drug store and picking out a tooth paste. Besides, I don't really know what to say, when I'm chatting online with someone I don't know. You loose a lot with text. There's no inflection or body langue to help the conversation. It's hard to tell, when someone's being goofy or flirting or rude or serious and I don't think you can really get to know each other this way. After all, you can edit yourself in an ***, but it's hard to meet people these days, so I'm giving this a try. I guess thats it. Hope to hear from you. Happy fishing. Meet for a drink and see where it goes. If the conversation flows and we look up and find the hours have passed and we have just gotten started talking and have a lot more we wanna say and hear, then we set up a second date. If there are a lot of awkward silences and the conversation is a polite struggle or all one sided, we say goodnight and we keep looking.I'll start a conversation on here and I'll respond to any *** get, even, if it's just to say, "No thank you," if I'm not interested, but, I'm not looking for a pen pal. So, if after a few ***, you're still interested go ahead and ask me out and let's see if there's a spark. Let's see, if a real relationship is a possibility. And just FYI...I'm not looking for a booty call, even if it's just "cuddling." So if that's what you're looking for, good luck. I wish ya the best, but I'm not the fish for you. Don't get me wrong, I like cuddling and I also really enjoy sex. I think its an important part of a good relationship, but let's get to know each other before we jump in bed.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'7"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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