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Shelly, 49
United States, New York, Huntington

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First, I am SINGLE....I am not looking for anyone that is married for any type of relationship. I am very close to my children and family. I have two children (grown).. I work hard and really love the things that I do. I am very outgiong, easy to talk to, sweet, loving, caring and kind. (Wow, I sound pretty impressive). I am very affectionate, and attentive to my partner. I give 110% to everything I care about, including relationships, family and work. You will find me to very loyal and devoted. I think I'm fun to talk to and to be around. I am always open to going new places and trying new things. With that being said, I love going anywhere new and everywhere is an adventure and exciting to me. I am small, fit and take care of myself. As for a partner, I love the strength of a man. Not just the physical strength but the inner strength. To me a strong man is one that is generous , protective, confident, loving, caring, and kind; one that is there when all is perfect but also when all is not. I would love someone that is fun, funny, spontaneous and simply loves life. I like someone that is educated (as least somewhat) and likes what he does. Let's face it WORK is a big part of who we are. I love conversation and I like to learn from my partner and hope that on some level he can learn from me. I don't expect you to be perfect. Life and people are imperfect. My life isn't perfect (as shown by my presence on here) and I'm not perfect. I'm 48 and much to my dismay don't look like I'm 25. A first date is always so awkward. I don't think a first date can be planned or decided until we have talked and gotten to know each other a little better.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Other

  • Body type

    Slim

  • Height

    5'2"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

German Mexican Action Drama Horror
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