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Hilda, 46

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About Me

...and I don't want a fish. """""""""""""""""""""""""""""""""""""""""no profile+no pic=no interest"""""""""""""""""""""""""""""""""""""""""""""""""""""""""I'm a homebody with a wild streak. I'm a full time parent of one amazing teenager and would prefer to date those who are parents, as well, for obvious reasons. I'm often misunderstood so I tend to keep to myself. I have a lot of different looks, just depends on the day, the music and my mood. I'm unique, articulate and silly as hell at times, although a slight misanthropic. I'm in love with art. I'm always rootin' for the underdog. I'm unconventional but polite and big on being kind to one another. I'm quiet but still engaging, nonetheless. What am I looking for?? I'm not sure to be honest, but I can tell you with 110% certainty what I am *not* looking for:gym rats, bad boys and corporate men with sticks up their bums. I'm not into any of that ego bs couple of drinks, people watching and some laughter

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Other

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'3"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Sallie

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    Woman. 49 years old. Zodiac sign: Leo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 46-56

    Ok so this being single thing is getting to be a bit challenging for me...I was part of a couple for so long, I'm struggling with taking that initial leap back into the singles scene, and frankly, even before I got married it wasn't my scene, so maybe that's why its even harder for me now. I've done all the hard work of getting my head together, letting things go, getting back on track and finding myself (Im being a little sarcastic here, only because this is what people have told me I need to do to "get back on the saddle")....but at the end of the day, I'm a good person, and I have good morals and a stable life, so isn't that what really matters? People say anything to try to give you that little push to rebound yourself back in the game, but I really don't want to be in the game. I just want to find one person that I can trust with my life and love with my heart---it's that simple.I think as we get older, we know what we're not looking for as much as what we are. I am definitely not looking for someone who needs to be taken care of. I am an only child so independence and responsibility has always come naturally to me...I'm looking for someone that gets that and is responsible as well. With that said, it does not mean I am not emotionally supportive...I just want someone to walk beside.To me, attraction is very important, but isnt always good looks. It's someone who's heart shines thru in their smile or has an attribute that they view as a flaw but I think is adorable. Personality by far is the biggest attraction....a sense of humor is a must...a sarcastic sense of humor a bonus. Another big one is stability and safety which to me means someone I can trust with my life...someone I have respect for and that respects me. Someone I can see myself growing old with. I'm blonde, so I do dumb things sometimes, mostly without even knowing which ends up making it even funnier--I'll admit it. Oh, and I'm not crazy...that seems to be a bonus on sites like these :) I have great kids but they're older now and are busy working and doing their own thing, so I find I have a lot more time on my hands.So.......guess there's only one thing missing. Hmmm, what could that be???? Someplace public and well lit...public so there's no pressure....well lit so I can see where I'm going if the sudden need to run like hell arises :)

  • Beatriz

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    Woman. 50 years old. Zodiac sign: Libra.

    Looking for: man. In age: 47-57

    My message is really simple for such a complicated thing::::I am throwing my "message in a bottle" out here into the world...I am looking for My Soulmate...He will have the other heart that belongs with mine...If you find my bottle and your not meant to be My Soulmate...no worries...just throw it back:)

  • Lynne

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    Woman. 47 years old. Zodiac sign: Cancer.

    Looking for: man. In age: 44-54

    If you are a liar, or a pig & just looking for sex, MOVE ON LOSER!WOULD YOU WANT SOMEBODY TREATING YOUR DAUGHTER, MOTHER OR SISTER THAT WAY? IF YOU DON'T TAKE THE TIME TO READ THIS & HEED IT, THAN MOVE ON!!! I'M NOT YELLING, BUT I AM LOOKING FOR MY LOVE & FUTURE, LIFE IS NOT A DRESS REHEARSAL. SO .....HI THERE :) FYI, I LEAVE MY LAPTOP ON & GO ABOUT MY BIZ SO I'M NOT ALWAYS HERE AS IT SEEMS. I REALLY DON'T WANT TO BE HERE. -TRUTH!I WISH I COULD MEET SOMEONE SPECIAL & REAL. IF WE MEET IT DOESN'T MEAN ANYTHING TO ME UNLESS YOU SHOW ME THE REAL YOU & WE FIND A CLICK. IF WE COULD BOTTLE THE HIGH WE FEEL FROM LOVE & LUST, WE WOULD ALL BE ADDICTS. WE ALL NEED LOVE.LOL, WOMAN MEANS 1 & WOMEN MEANS MORE THAN 1- THIS IS A HUGE CLUE OF INTENT. I'M A PRETTY HAPPY & POSITIVE BEING, SMILE & LAUGH VERY OFTEN EVEN AT MYSELF,LOL! I DON'T TAKE KINDLY TO BEING TREATED BADLY., AS I AM A LADY WHO DESERVES TO BE TREATED LIKE GOLD & IF WE BECOME A COUPLE YOU CAN COUNT ON ME TO BE ME-HONEST.NO BOYS, ****MAN UP! *** I'M NOT HERE TO BE PUNISHED & DEAL WITH WHAT SOMEONE ELSE DID TO YOU OR TO SUIT YOU FOR THE MOMENT. WE'VE ALL SUFFERED & THAT'S AN EXCUSE. I HAVE NO TIME TO BE STRUNG ALONG OR TO SERVICE YOUR ONE SIDED NEEDS. IF SOMEONE LOVES YOU THEY CARE ENOUGH TO SHOW YOU IN THEIR ACTIONS, NOT WORDS OR GAMES.I'VE HAD ENOUGH BS. DO NOT WANT ANYMORE, I WANT SOMEONE TO SHARE MY LIFE WITH & GROW OLD WITH. I'M FOR REAL!LOL, THAT BEING SAID, SO I KNOW WHAT I DON"T WANT & I NEED TO FIND WHAT I DO WANT.IF YOU'RE STILL READING, LOL, THEN....... YAYYYYY!I'LL KEEP THIS SHORT AS POSSIBLE, LOL.IF I DON'T RESPOND TO YOU, NO OFFENSE. SORRY, I'M JUST NOT FEELING IT.NO PIC, SUNGLASSES IN ALL PICS ETC... =NO RESPONSE FROM ME.~IT REALLY IS ALL ABOUT THE CHEMISTRY! ~A SENSE OF HUMOR IS A BIG PLUS :) HOWEVER, IT TAKES TIME TO GET TO KNOW SOMEONE FOR WHO THEY REALLY ARE.IT IS NOT ABOUT WHAT YOU OWN, DRIVE OR DO FOR A LIVING, IT'S ABOUT WHO ~YOU~ ARE, REALLY (.)**I ASK THAT IF YOU ARE INTERESTED IN SOMEONE ELSE, PLEASE DO NOT EVEN FLIRT WITH ME AS I WILL NEVER PLAY SECOND FIDDLE TO ANOTHER. I WANT SOMEONE WHO IS TRULY IN LOVE WITH ME. I'M SAYING IT LIKE IT IS.I'M REAL, GENUINE, ATTRACTIVE, SPIRITUAL, INTELLIGENT, INTUITIVE & WORTH GETTING TO KNOW.I HAVE ONE SON AT HOME & AN OLDER DAUGHTER ON HER OWN. My son is in 6th grade & will probably graduate early so I won't be stuck here for long winters too much longer.I'M LOOKING FOR A REAL & LONG TERM INTIMATE, COMMITTED RELATIONSHIP THAT TAKES TIME TOGETHER TO NURTURE.PLEASE DO NOT WASTE MY TIME OR YOURS IF YOU ARE NOT LOOKING FOR THE SAME. I WILL NOT BE A BOOTY CALL, TREATED BADLY OR TAKEN FOR GRANTED (.)I'M VERY CANDID & REAL. ALL HEART. NOT INTO "CRAZY" STUFF THAT DESTROYS, BUT POSITIVE, UPLIFTING THINGS.I LIKE CHIVALRY, (~NOT~ PHONY, ANNOYING, CRAP) & GOOD OLD FASHIONED ROMANCE. KEEPING THAT FEELING ALIVE TAKES WORK.I LOVE ROMANTIC GESTURES WHEN THEY ARE GENUINE. IT'S ALWAYS NICE TO KNOW YOU'RE BEING THOUGHT OF.IF I'M HAPPY, WITH MY REAL FRIENDS, KIDS OR WITH MY LOVE, I'M PRETTY COMFORTABLE NO MATTER WHAT I'M DOING & THAT ENERGY MAKES ME REALLY SHINE & I BECOME INSPIRED~~~~~~ I CAN MOVE THE WORLD WHEN I'M THAT HAPPY!AFTER THE CHEMISTRY & PHYSICAL ATTRACTION, STIMULATE THAT PART OF MY BRAIN & HEART-ALL I CAN SAY IS WOW- YOU LUCKY GUY, HAHA.I LOVE THE OUTDOORS, HIKING, GARDENING, STREAM FISHING, NATURE, ART, DESIGN, GOOD MUSIC, SHOWS, CONCERTS & GOOD COMPANY. I LIVE IN A TOWN THAT OFFERS A LOT TO DO. I LOVE ROMANTIC NIGHTS BY CANDLELIGHT OR WAKING UP THE RIGHT WAY :)) & ANYTHING FUN, GOING TO YARD SALES, BREAKFAST & TAKING A RIDE SOMEWHERE BEAUTIFUL. SIMPLE STUFF.MY CHILD IS IN SCHOOL HERE & I'D REALLY LIKE TO STAY AROUND HERE BECAUSE I LOVE THIS BEAUTIFUL AREA & THE SCHOOLS ARE GOOD.NOT CLOSED IN MY THINKING. (Note, I do not have any tattoos, I don't have a problem with you if you have some-too each his own). One of my fav albums *** ALSO LIKE TO COOK FOR OR WITH SOMEONE WHO APPRECIATES IT. I LIKE TO STAY BUSY WITH ACTIVITIES WITH THE OCCASIONAL LAZY WINTER/RAINY DAY AT HOME ENJOYING BEING COZY TOGETHER, BY THE FIREPLACE, WATCHING MOVIES, OR READING, CREATING & LISTENING TO MUSIC.THANK YOU FOR TAKING THE TIME TO READ WHAT I FEEL & SHARE & FOR ALL OF YOU WONDERFUL, REAL, TRUE MEN OUT THERE! I WOULD LIKE TO FIND THAT SPECIAL ONE FOR ME WITH SIMILAR INTERESTS, SO PLEASE MAKE CONTACT WITH ME. YA NEVER KNOW. we'll see if we get there

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