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Sallie, 49
United States, New York, Huntington

Offline, last seen Sun, 28 Jun 2026 01:57:30

About Me

Ok so this being single thing is getting to be a bit challenging for me...I was part of a couple for so long, I'm struggling with taking that initial leap back into the singles scene, and frankly, even before I got married it wasn't my scene, so maybe that's why its even harder for me now. I've done all the hard work of getting my head together, letting things go, getting back on track and finding myself (Im being a little sarcastic here, only because this is what people have told me I need to do to "get back on the saddle")....but at the end of the day, I'm a good person, and I have good morals and a stable life, so isn't that what really matters? People say anything to try to give you that little push to rebound yourself back in the game, but I really don't want to be in the game. I just want to find one person that I can trust with my life and love with my heart---it's that simple.I think as we get older, we know what we're not looking for as much as what we are. I am definitely not looking for someone who needs to be taken care of. I am an only child so independence and responsibility has always come naturally to me...I'm looking for someone that gets that and is responsible as well. With that said, it does not mean I am not emotionally supportive...I just want someone to walk beside.To me, attraction is very important, but isnt always good looks. It's someone who's heart shines thru in their smile or has an attribute that they view as a flaw but I think is adorable. Personality by far is the biggest attraction....a sense of humor is a must...a sarcastic sense of humor a bonus. Another big one is stability and safety which to me means someone I can trust with my life...someone I have respect for and that respects me. Someone I can see myself growing old with. I'm blonde, so I do dumb things sometimes, mostly without even knowing which ends up making it even funnier--I'll admit it. Oh, and I'm not crazy...that seems to be a bonus on sites like these :) I have great kids but they're older now and are busy working and doing their own thing, so I find I have a lot more time on my hands.So.......guess there's only one thing missing. Hmmm, what could that be???? Someplace public and well lit...public so there's no pressure....well lit so I can see where I'm going if the sudden need to run like hell arises :)

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Separated

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'5"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    No

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    Woman. 46 years old. Zodiac sign: Leo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 43-53

    Warm, Kind, Vivacious Personality. Attractive, Adventurous, Courageous -- The ladylike exterior may lead you to believe that I may shy away from adventure. Not so. I love to laugh and make others laugh. When paired with the right kind of guy, it is my extreme pleasure to be the fun, sensuous and attentive partner that my man always dreamed of. Guess you could say I am sometimes a conformist in the sense that Iove to have a tranquil living environment, yet I am an individualist who is inquisitive, independent and intelligent. I enjoy music, art, architecture & design. Being creative and imaginative, I am open to trying new things (deep sea fishing? lol) Love rollercoasters. Love to cook. Very easy to get along with and appreciate a man with manners, class, intelligence and charisma.I'm always seeking self-improvement. Love the business of business. :) Enjoy adventure and challenges in what I do. Probably my best gift is that of being an encourager. I possess the people skills to help others find solutions and inspiration. I have a good head on my shoulders, yet also enjoy fun and joyful creativity. I am kind and respectful to everyone I meet. Fiercely loyal and loving, I'm longing to meet my best friend and true love, spoiling him with admiration, companionship, and magnificent affection. Oh.... and some fabulous home cooked meals. :)I'm new on this site ... I'll come back and edit this so you can really get to know me a little better and so it doesn't read so much like a resume. LOL I'll try to find some pictures that are more everyday *** so much glamour (did I really say that?) I do like to doll up, however. Also, the site keeps getting my age wrong even when I repeatedly edit it -- but hey, I'm not complaining.... I've been getting it wrong on purpose for years. LOL It's close enough. A person's age is not a deal-breaker for me -- it's the heart (a healthy one) that matters (please be one who takes good care of himself). If you don't have a photograph posted, please attach one or two current ones to your message if you'd like to communicate with me. No picture, no response. I'm looking for a real "cut above" man: character, honesty, humor, intelligence, kindness, passion and CLASS. I promise you the same in return. Then we'll take it from there.

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    Woman. 48 years old. Zodiac sign: Pisces.

    Looking for: man. In age: 45-55

    I am a single Mom of two teenager girls. I'm fun loving, enjoy having a good time with family and friends and love to laugh. I love animals. I enjoy shopping, eating out, movies and sporting events. I am a true down to earth person. What you see is what you get. If I meet someone I would expect the same from him. Please don't ask me for "other" photos or a booty call. That will be a sure no answer to your message.I'm not interested in ongoing "Internet talk". If your interested drop me a line! Happy Fishing!

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    Woman. 49 years old. Zodiac sign: Scorpio.

    Looking for: man. In age: 46-56

    I am a divorced 53 yr.old. I have three kids above the age of 21, 6 grandchildren. I like to have fun.I am a very honest, open, sensual and affectionate women looking for a man who above all is honest, likes to laugh and joke around and be silly at times, yet knows when to be serious, is direct and straightforward and can talk about most anything with his woman. I want us to be the best of friends, who can't wait to be with each other. Someone that doesn't look so much into what they are doing as much as who they are doing it with, with the right person anything can be fun, even doing nothing at all. Someone who likes to cuddle, hold hands when walking, not afraid to show affection in public.I am a very honest upfront person that does not play games and you should be the same.What ever happened to old fashion romance - hugging, holding hands, a gentle or passionate kiss, subtle body language, and the anticipation of a relationship with someone you've gotten to know and really like? But there is also a serious side of me.I consider myself very down to earth, I like taking walks in the moonlight. I love country music and the older rock and roll . I like going for drives in the country or where ever, camping.bonfires outside in the summer time,mud bogs, l have even done some mud wrestling with some friends was very fun if you do not mind getting dirty and l do not. It washes off, maybe even get help lol.I am a happy person most of the time. Love to laugh and have some fun enjoying life...I work for railroad company I clean the cars,been there for 5 yrs. My family is very important to me they come first know matter what. up to us

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