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Sallie, 49
United States, New York, Huntington

Offline, last seen Fri, 19 Dec 2025 14:38:30

About Me

Ok so this being single thing is getting to be a bit challenging for me...I was part of a couple for so long, I'm struggling with taking that initial leap back into the singles scene, and frankly, even before I got married it wasn't my scene, so maybe that's why its even harder for me now. I've done all the hard work of getting my head together, letting things go, getting back on track and finding myself (Im being a little sarcastic here, only because this is what people have told me I need to do to "get back on the saddle")....but at the end of the day, I'm a good person, and I have good morals and a stable life, so isn't that what really matters? People say anything to try to give you that little push to rebound yourself back in the game, but I really don't want to be in the game. I just want to find one person that I can trust with my life and love with my heart---it's that simple.I think as we get older, we know what we're not looking for as much as what we are. I am definitely not looking for someone who needs to be taken care of. I am an only child so independence and responsibility has always come naturally to me...I'm looking for someone that gets that and is responsible as well. With that said, it does not mean I am not emotionally supportive...I just want someone to walk beside.To me, attraction is very important, but isnt always good looks. It's someone who's heart shines thru in their smile or has an attribute that they view as a flaw but I think is adorable. Personality by far is the biggest attraction....a sense of humor is a must...a sarcastic sense of humor a bonus. Another big one is stability and safety which to me means someone I can trust with my life...someone I have respect for and that respects me. Someone I can see myself growing old with. I'm blonde, so I do dumb things sometimes, mostly without even knowing which ends up making it even funnier--I'll admit it. Oh, and I'm not crazy...that seems to be a bonus on sites like these :) I have great kids but they're older now and are busy working and doing their own thing, so I find I have a lot more time on my hands.So.......guess there's only one thing missing. Hmmm, what could that be???? Someplace public and well lit...public so there's no pressure....well lit so I can see where I'm going if the sudden need to run like hell arises :)

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Separated

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'5"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    No

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  • Alissa from Huntington | Woman | 50 years old | Sagittarius
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    Woman. 50 years old. Zodiac sign: Sagittarius.

    Looking for: man. In age: 47-57

    I enjoy the simple thing in life such as bonfires, cooking at home ( do not do that very well)evening walks around the lake and once in awhile I love to go dancing. I also love sports (football) my son plays and I am his biggest fan. I also love to work on home projects such as painting, decorating but not much for shopping unless it is for home improvements. I love to spoil that special person and let them know daily just how wonderful they are. I prefer gifts of time or a special photo or letter. I am a huge romantic at heart however very tender hearted. My No No's list is mean what you say and say what what you mean. Without the best communication and honesty there really is not a real relationship there. I do not play games and expect the same. If you are just out for a good time please go to the next profile:) If you do not know what you want see the previos statement. No one really needs to waste anyone's time. Treat others the way you would want to be treated. Disclaimer* If you think you are baggage free, drama free think again. We all have had some baggage....come on laugh about it. It is called life and will only make you stronger* meet for a drink somewhere and visit, go dancing (even if it is not a great match you can still get in some cardio time.

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  • Lynne from Huntington | Woman | 47 years old | Cancer
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    Woman. 47 years old. Zodiac sign: Cancer.

    Looking for: man. In age: 44-54

    If you are a liar, or a pig & just looking for sex, MOVE ON LOSER!WOULD YOU WANT SOMEBODY TREATING YOUR DAUGHTER, MOTHER OR SISTER THAT WAY? IF YOU DON'T TAKE THE TIME TO READ THIS & HEED IT, THAN MOVE ON!!! I'M NOT YELLING, BUT I AM LOOKING FOR MY LOVE & FUTURE, LIFE IS NOT A DRESS REHEARSAL. SO .....HI THERE :) FYI, I LEAVE MY LAPTOP ON & GO ABOUT MY BIZ SO I'M NOT ALWAYS HERE AS IT SEEMS. I REALLY DON'T WANT TO BE HERE. -TRUTH!I WISH I COULD MEET SOMEONE SPECIAL & REAL. IF WE MEET IT DOESN'T MEAN ANYTHING TO ME UNLESS YOU SHOW ME THE REAL YOU & WE FIND A CLICK. IF WE COULD BOTTLE THE HIGH WE FEEL FROM LOVE & LUST, WE WOULD ALL BE ADDICTS. WE ALL NEED LOVE.LOL, WOMAN MEANS 1 & WOMEN MEANS MORE THAN 1- THIS IS A HUGE CLUE OF INTENT. I'M A PRETTY HAPPY & POSITIVE BEING, SMILE & LAUGH VERY OFTEN EVEN AT MYSELF,LOL! I DON'T TAKE KINDLY TO BEING TREATED BADLY., AS I AM A LADY WHO DESERVES TO BE TREATED LIKE GOLD & IF WE BECOME A COUPLE YOU CAN COUNT ON ME TO BE ME-HONEST.NO BOYS, ****MAN UP! *** I'M NOT HERE TO BE PUNISHED & DEAL WITH WHAT SOMEONE ELSE DID TO YOU OR TO SUIT YOU FOR THE MOMENT. WE'VE ALL SUFFERED & THAT'S AN EXCUSE. I HAVE NO TIME TO BE STRUNG ALONG OR TO SERVICE YOUR ONE SIDED NEEDS. IF SOMEONE LOVES YOU THEY CARE ENOUGH TO SHOW YOU IN THEIR ACTIONS, NOT WORDS OR GAMES.I'VE HAD ENOUGH BS. DO NOT WANT ANYMORE, I WANT SOMEONE TO SHARE MY LIFE WITH & GROW OLD WITH. I'M FOR REAL!LOL, THAT BEING SAID, SO I KNOW WHAT I DON"T WANT & I NEED TO FIND WHAT I DO WANT.IF YOU'RE STILL READING, LOL, THEN....... YAYYYYY!I'LL KEEP THIS SHORT AS POSSIBLE, LOL.IF I DON'T RESPOND TO YOU, NO OFFENSE. SORRY, I'M JUST NOT FEELING IT.NO PIC, SUNGLASSES IN ALL PICS ETC... =NO RESPONSE FROM ME.~IT REALLY IS ALL ABOUT THE CHEMISTRY! ~A SENSE OF HUMOR IS A BIG PLUS :) HOWEVER, IT TAKES TIME TO GET TO KNOW SOMEONE FOR WHO THEY REALLY ARE.IT IS NOT ABOUT WHAT YOU OWN, DRIVE OR DO FOR A LIVING, IT'S ABOUT WHO ~YOU~ ARE, REALLY (.)**I ASK THAT IF YOU ARE INTERESTED IN SOMEONE ELSE, PLEASE DO NOT EVEN FLIRT WITH ME AS I WILL NEVER PLAY SECOND FIDDLE TO ANOTHER. I WANT SOMEONE WHO IS TRULY IN LOVE WITH ME. I'M SAYING IT LIKE IT IS.I'M REAL, GENUINE, ATTRACTIVE, SPIRITUAL, INTELLIGENT, INTUITIVE & WORTH GETTING TO KNOW.I HAVE ONE SON AT HOME & AN OLDER DAUGHTER ON HER OWN. My son is in 6th grade & will probably graduate early so I won't be stuck here for long winters too much longer.I'M LOOKING FOR A REAL & LONG TERM INTIMATE, COMMITTED RELATIONSHIP THAT TAKES TIME TOGETHER TO NURTURE.PLEASE DO NOT WASTE MY TIME OR YOURS IF YOU ARE NOT LOOKING FOR THE SAME. I WILL NOT BE A BOOTY CALL, TREATED BADLY OR TAKEN FOR GRANTED (.)I'M VERY CANDID & REAL. ALL HEART. NOT INTO "CRAZY" STUFF THAT DESTROYS, BUT POSITIVE, UPLIFTING THINGS.I LIKE CHIVALRY, (~NOT~ PHONY, ANNOYING, CRAP) & GOOD OLD FASHIONED ROMANCE. KEEPING THAT FEELING ALIVE TAKES WORK.I LOVE ROMANTIC GESTURES WHEN THEY ARE GENUINE. IT'S ALWAYS NICE TO KNOW YOU'RE BEING THOUGHT OF.IF I'M HAPPY, WITH MY REAL FRIENDS, KIDS OR WITH MY LOVE, I'M PRETTY COMFORTABLE NO MATTER WHAT I'M DOING & THAT ENERGY MAKES ME REALLY SHINE & I BECOME INSPIRED~~~~~~ I CAN MOVE THE WORLD WHEN I'M THAT HAPPY!AFTER THE CHEMISTRY & PHYSICAL ATTRACTION, STIMULATE THAT PART OF MY BRAIN & HEART-ALL I CAN SAY IS WOW- YOU LUCKY GUY, HAHA.I LOVE THE OUTDOORS, HIKING, GARDENING, STREAM FISHING, NATURE, ART, DESIGN, GOOD MUSIC, SHOWS, CONCERTS & GOOD COMPANY. I LIVE IN A TOWN THAT OFFERS A LOT TO DO. I LOVE ROMANTIC NIGHTS BY CANDLELIGHT OR WAKING UP THE RIGHT WAY :)) & ANYTHING FUN, GOING TO YARD SALES, BREAKFAST & TAKING A RIDE SOMEWHERE BEAUTIFUL. SIMPLE STUFF.MY CHILD IS IN SCHOOL HERE & I'D REALLY LIKE TO STAY AROUND HERE BECAUSE I LOVE THIS BEAUTIFUL AREA & THE SCHOOLS ARE GOOD.NOT CLOSED IN MY THINKING. (Note, I do not have any tattoos, I don't have a problem with you if you have some-too each his own). One of my fav albums *** ALSO LIKE TO COOK FOR OR WITH SOMEONE WHO APPRECIATES IT. I LIKE TO STAY BUSY WITH ACTIVITIES WITH THE OCCASIONAL LAZY WINTER/RAINY DAY AT HOME ENJOYING BEING COZY TOGETHER, BY THE FIREPLACE, WATCHING MOVIES, OR READING, CREATING & LISTENING TO MUSIC.THANK YOU FOR TAKING THE TIME TO READ WHAT I FEEL & SHARE & FOR ALL OF YOU WONDERFUL, REAL, TRUE MEN OUT THERE! I WOULD LIKE TO FIND THAT SPECIAL ONE FOR ME WITH SIMILAR INTERESTS, SO PLEASE MAKE CONTACT WITH ME. YA NEVER KNOW. we'll see if we get there

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  • Sara from Huntington | Woman | 46 years old | Capricorn
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    Woman. 46 years old. Zodiac sign: Capricorn.

    Looking for: man. In age: 43-53

    I enjoy skiing, jet skis, exercising, hiking, anything outside. I work out several times a week and am looking for someone who takes care of himself, both inside and out. I enjoy traveling and would like to see some new cities or countries. I am an easy going person and a good friend. My friends describe me as someone who gets along with everyone. I have 3 teenage kids and enjoy watching their sporting events and spending time with them. I am not into drama and am definately not a drama queen. I am honest and hard working and enjoy just about anything. A first date for me would be something where we could get to know each other - maybe dinner or drinks at a quiet bar, or a picnic in a park.

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