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Helena, 50

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About Me

Hi ...spunky, friendly, intelligent, passionate woman seeking a man that is interested in establishing a meaningful yet fun connection. My life is busy and I have a solid career in education, two wonderful children, loving family and friends, and a relationship with God. I know I am blessed ...and yet I long to have a real partner. My heart, mind, body, and soul were made to love...but I do have my own set of imperfections. My ideal mate will understand that no one is perfect and will be willing to work through potential issues via communication and a zestful sense of humor.So, if you are at the same place in life and my words have sparked an interest, then please *** me what appeals to you. I try to avoid communicating with multiple men at one time and appreciate a man that can do the same...multi-tasking in dating is not a plus...lol!!Thanks for checking me out and best wishes...:) The first date is really more of a meeting where both parties talk face to face to see if there is enough interest to agree to date. I like to keep these really simple as I am more concerned with seeing if there is a connection then where we are or what we do. The real first date should come after the meeting...and then my hope is that it will be something we both enjoy and don't want to see end. Again, I don't really care what we do...I am easy to please...I just want to laugh, love, and live each day to the fullest with someone that wants the same with me...:)****PRIVACY NOTICE******WARNING--any person and/or *** this website or any of its associated websites, you do NOT have my permission to utilize any of my profile information nor any of the content contained herein including, but not limited to my photos. You are hereby notified that you are strictly prohibited from disclosing, copying, distributing, disseminating, or taking any other action with regard to this profile and the contents herein. The foregoing prohibitions also apply to your employee(s), agent(s), student(s) or any personnel under your direction or control. The contents of this profile are private and legally privileged and confidential information, violation of my personal privacy is punishable by law. It is recommended that other members post a similar notice to this or you may copy and paste this one. Thank you...:)

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'4"

  • Eye color

    Green

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Martha

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    Woman. 48 years old. Zodiac sign: Gemini.

    Looking for: man. In age: 45-55

    Looking for a REAL HONEST MAN!! Haven't found one Yet!! But... I know there is a gentleman out there! OK... This is the part that I don't like... Talking about me & everything I like & dislike. Anything else but not about me... ;) OK.... one thing I will say, "I LOVE country music and I sing it as well!" not very many people like it :( Just Sayin.... If you want to know anything else about me just ask, "And I'd be glad to answer it, that is that it is appropriate to ask. then I'll answer you." Thank you... =) I don't play games nor do I want any games. If you want to ***, just don't think your getting a Booty Call from this lady!' I'm tired of you men that say your gentlemen and say, "You have respect for ladies and don't!" Well your NOT... So just MOVE ON... If your NOT.... A true Southern Gentleman!! And, I don't want any lines that your from back east and your a gentleman... When your really NOT!!! The true colors come out after a few times you get to chat with them! I'm a lady and I want a true Gentleman!!WARNING: Insitution or individuals using this site or any of it's associated sites for studies, projects, advertising, sales, or any other reason you DO NOT have my permission to use profile or pictures in any form or forum both current and future. If you have or do, it will be considered a violation of my privacy and will be subjust to legal ramifications. Just meet for coffee & see if we'd hit it off...

  • Bethany

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    Woman. 47 years old. Zodiac sign: Leo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 44-54

    So I recently thought I had found my shining knight, but here I am. If at first you don't succeed; try, try again.I am not really a hobby type person, but I don't begrudge people who have them. I am open to trying different things to find something fun to do. I am open to almost all types of music; some of my favorite genres are classical, top 40, 80's, jazz, classic rock. I like stand up comedy and most movies. I usually prefer movies and books that make you think but like the comedy - need to laugh again.No more children for me but as I have a couple (one left at home), if you have them it is not a problem. Would love to travel more: have a few holiday destinations in mind - I like to dress up or down - enjoy 5* dining as well as a great steak or burger at a BBQ. I love Spa's - that is my personal indulgence.I will always be voluptuous and love wearing my heels. I would love to find someone to go dancing with.I am an animal person. Must admit that I am not what I would consider romantic -.. I have always said I would marry my best friend - the 'however' is my best friend is a woman. I don't believe she is interested... She isn't really my type anyway. I have tattoos (and getting more) and like if you have them, not into piercings personally tho - standard earring for me.Is my perspective the same as everyone else? This really depends on the day things are written - I am a woman; this could be a 'I feel really blah and unmotivated' day, it could be a 'I feel really sexy today - let's rock and roll!'One of the "tests" I took did a really good job of putting it in a nutshell:Asserters are direct, self-reliant, self-confident, and protective.How to Get Along with Me:• Stand up for yourself... and me.• Be confident, strong, and direct.• Don't gossip about me or betray my trust.• Be vulnerable and share your feelings. See and acknowledge my tender, vulnerable side.• Give me space to be alone.• Acknowledge the contributions I make, but don't flatter me.• I often speak in an assertive way. Don't automatically assume it's a personal attack.What I Like About Being Me:• being independent and self-reliant• being able to take charge and meet challenges head on• being courageous, straightforward, and honest• getting all the enjoyment I can out of life• supporting, empowering, and protecting those close to me• upholding just causesWhat's Hard About Being Me:• overwhelming people with my bluntness; scaring them away when I don't intend to (this is a BIG one)• being restless and impatient with others' incompetence • sticking my neck out for people and receiving no appreciation for it• never forgetting injuries or injustices• putting too much pressure on myself• getting high blood pressure when people don't obey the rules or when things don't go rightHere are some things about you.Don't tell me you are 6'2" when you are really only 5'10"..... please whip out a tape measure and check if you are not too sure! These things are noticeable.... and if you are not able to be truthful about the obvious it will just make me wonder what else is not being told. You will be able to be to the point...but not mean. Just tell it like it is. Honest communication is very important.... Please have some indication of who/what you are looking for in your write up. Time is precious and there is no point in wasting it. Gainfully employed is a must (sad I have to say that) as well as you must be a non-smoker. Goal orientated; Intelligence and humour are important - the mind must be stimulated sometimes more than the body..... however the physical part is very very important.... An abundance of facial hair is a turn off for me; a little is not a problem. Pic for a pic, Gentlemen - it is only fair. Not sure what is meant.... first date or first meet? Meet = coffee (that way either of us can bow out gracefully) to make sure the person in the profile resembles the person I meet :-)Date = dinner in an out of the way place with a medium noise level; that way we can actually talk :)

  • Selena

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    Woman. 50 years old. Zodiac sign: Aquarius.

    Looking for: man. In age: 47-57

    Let's try this again..........So many changes in my life over the last 2 year, not even sure where to start on here. I am a mother of 4. I have one birth son who is ***damn I am getting old LMAO). I have 3 adopted children 23, 21 and 20 with (FASD) Fetal Allcohol Spectrum Disorder, RAD (Reactive Spectrum Disorder), Bi-Polar and from there the list goes on depending on which child we are talking about. Some times I am kinda lost I will admit it, I am not always sure what my purpose in life is anymore. However I am excited to find out. For the first time in my life, I get to make my choices based on what I need *** someone else. So here is to new beginnings can’t wait to see what life has in store for me ;-)Guess I have to add this again, just can't help myself. For all those men out there who say they don't want drama, drama is a part of life, if you are alive you are going to get drama. Now if you are saying you don't want someone who starts drama, I get it, or tries to drag you into it. But let's be honest here, if you want a drama free relationship, try a blow up doll........... But you might want a roll of duct tape just in case............... Just sayin' LMFAOYes I am a bit warped, life tends to do that to us. But *** telling me what a nice guy you are why don't you show me? Never had a guy come up to me yet and say I am a jerk................. Oh wait maybe a few of them LMAOAlways remember "The minute you settle for less than you deserve, you get even less than you settled for." Just sayin'One more thing that I shouldn't even have to add but guess some don't get it. If you are married or in a relationship, move on, not interested just sayin'Life is not about waiting for the storm to pass... It's about learning how to dance in the rain...........

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