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Essie, 47
United States, New York, Hicksville

Offline, last seen Wed, 22 Oct 2025 21:49:31

About Me

If you are looking for a "discreet" meeting because you are attached, married or involved please move along I do NOT do "discreet" encounters.We all start out as strangers... Its where we end up that counts.The object to this journey called "life" is not to arrive at the grave safely in a well preserved body,but to skid in sideways, totally worn out and used up,loudly proclaiming "WOW What a ride"!I am smart but act retarded. I like being single but hate being alone. I am a hopeless romantic but terrified of dating. I love going out but prefer to stay home. I am crazy but the most normal person I know. If this makes any sense to you well then we may have a good start.I am a single adult female that is looking for someone to show me the fun side of Life. I am open minded and a free spirit. I am looking for someone that can be an addition to my life NOT my life. I am not looking for someone to "take care" of me I have been doing that for years. I AM looking for someone that loves the outdoors, being inside, being active and having laughs everday.SO if you have read this far please drop a line... I will respond to all *** luck in your searchMuch Luv MishUPDATE: I hate that I have to add this to my profile but after several months here I feel it is a MUST!!!I understand we all get horny I do as well BUT I am a person and it gets old being treated like a I am a life support system for a vagina!!!I would love to find someone to do things with but sex is NOT an options until I get to know you and know that I am more than just a "hook-up" men say its so hard to find someone on here well yeah when after just a few responses back and forth you start talking about sex.Sorry if I am ranting but 98% of the men I have talked to on here with in the first few responses are talking about sex.. if a hard "member" is all I want I can go to any bar and get that... NOT that I am opposed to sex I love it just as much as the next person.I am looking for a friend a gentle man as well as a lover.. but the lover only comes with time and getting to know one another..SOO if your still interested please send a message. We would have to discuss that....

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Curvy

  • Height

    5'7"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

Hardcore American Middle Eastern South American Mystery Sport Baseball Dance
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    Woman. 48 years old. Zodiac sign: Pisces.

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    Woman. 48 years old. Zodiac sign: Sagittarius.

    Looking for: man. In age: 45-55

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