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Marlene, 44

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About Me

I've been off this site for awhile but thought I would try it again...yes I am a masochist! lol I keep thinking to myself that "you get what you pay for"...my first big red flag is...should I really be on a dating site that has to ask if you have a car??? I have some better questions they should include based on what I have met..."How much longer are you on probation?" or "Does your wife know you are dating and playing yourself off as single?" But as long as you have a car...My favorite thing about this site is the array of "virtual" gifts. REALLY?? My all time favorite is the steak dinner..."here honey...have a virtual steak dinner on me...". "oh thank you...but I just ate and could not eat another bite"!! Please don't send me a virtual puppy...I have no time for housebreaking!Anyway...I do have a car, so I must be a hot commodity. I am a 43 year old mom of a very strong willed 10 year old. He has an old soul and the sense of humor of an adult...but he knows where ALL of my buttons are and insists on pressing them often! I have a very sarcastic sense of humor and no filter. If something runs across my head it comes out my mouth. So if you are thin skinned...I might not be for you! It can be a hazard but think of it this way...you never have to wonder what I am thinking or how I feel about something! ;-)I'm honest to a fault. I believe there is no worse deception or disrepect than cheating on someone you supposedly care about. I never cheat...If I am done, the person I am dating will be the first person to know. I will be honest and admit that I am not "good" at relationships. They tend to last about 3 weeks, occasionally 3 months and VERY rarely three years! I just realize pretty quick whether it is something that is going to work or not and I don't waste a lot of time hanging around to try and change someone into who I want them to be. I am not a jealous "stalker" type and I will not date one either. I am looking for someone with a great sense of humor. I would like someone that can see the humor and irony in everyday life events and laugh till your belly hurts about them! I want someone who is independent, stable and honest. I like a casual first date. Meet for drinks or coffee. If the date is going great then there is the option of staying longer or finding something else to do. If it is not, it is easy enough to get out after an hour or so! I hate dinner and a movie as a first date. Too cliche'...

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Curvy

  • Height

    5'9"

  • Eye color

    Green

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Terri

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    Woman. 41 years old. Zodiac sign: Pisces.

    Looking for: man. In age: 38-48

    So, after turning 40....I bought my condo, joined a Bootcamp, entered my first Ruckus race and a softball team....life is too short not to enjoy! I can't express enough, how important I feel humor is... to a relationship. If I could find someone to make me laugh...someone to laugh with, I think everything else in life is secondary. I value my son more than anything and would like to find someone to enjoy adult time with as well. I enjoy sporting events (Red Sox in particular), hanging with friends and family. I don't mind being alone, I just choose not to be.I love music, mostly every kind. I am not a country or Rap fan but can tolerate a little bit of everything. I basically have music on all of the time.I am just hoping to find someone I can relate to, enjoy spending time with and most of all...laugh with. Life is just too short for anything else.So, I have to address the "Meet Me" Feature. I seem to receive a lot of messages regarding people who want to "meet me". When I look into it...they never even viewed my profile??? Not to mention, I am not really sure how to respond to that...you just receive an *** and so wants to "meet you"...so then what am I supposed to do?? I guess I'm just not sure what to do with that information..haha. My ideal first date would probably include a drink! It's too nerve racking to do anything else. After that is out of the way, anything is possible.

  • Ana

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    Woman. 43 years old. Zodiac sign: Scorpio.

    Looking for: man. In age: 40-50

    A friend suggested that I give this a try and met an awesome guy on one of these sites. We will see how this goes... My schedule is a bit crazy and doesn't allow for much time on the computer so I might offend people with my delayed response time. I can go days without looking at my personal ***'t been on *** With a huge deadline just behind me, I have a lot more free time and want to be as active as possible. Want to join me?My ideal day would start waking up next to my sweetheart, then running a 5K for a good cause, flying or golfing followed by a day on the boat or a Tigers/Red Wings/MSU game. Also enjoy shooting (cameras & weapons (although I don't hunt)) and am just as happy at a Kid Rock concert as I am seeing Les Miz. I love black tie events as much as hanging with friends at a dive bar on the beach...complete with sand in my toes! Favorite airplane is the Cirrus SR22 or anything that does aerobatics. And one day, I would love to perform aerobatics on my own! Favorite movies are along the lines of Act of Valor &..but also enjoy the comedy This Means War (sorry - I'm definitely not your typical girl...and that can be a good or bad thing depending on what you are looking for.Despite what my chemistry test results say, family is extremely important to me, and I am very close to mine. I am also very focused and have lots of self control...when it comes to most things! My job demands it.Hoping to find someone honest, genuine, caring, confident (but not arrogant), fun (can laugh at himself or with me...at me), passionate, that's comfortable in a C-suite or ready room, successful in what he does, athletic, fit, independent, positive, has manners & high standards for himself and wants the same in a partner. What a list! It takes a special kind of guy that can handle a gal that's trained for combat or to take on the IRS. Nothing stresses me out or scares me these days.I still find it charming when a date opens the car door, waits for others before diving into his own meal or is romantic. I do my best to make others feel special too.There's a feminine, relaxed and soft side to me too. For most of my adult life, I've been a size 4 or 6 and am that now so I won't have to buy you drinks for not looking life my photos! I really enjoy life along with what it has to offer and am very happy right now. It would just be nice to have someone in the area to share fun things with. You have a choice every day to make it a great one. That's my goal. Ready to take on the world with me?I'm willing to give most things a try once but won't do anything illegal or immoral. If you are married or in a relationship (meaning the other person thinks she's your one & only), don't contact me. It could cost me a job I love so I couldn't be more serious about that and would never want to hurt another person. Selfish people really suck. If your goal is just to have some "fun" you will want to move on now too. I will be a waste of your time since one night stands are of no interest to me. The last thing I am going to do is jump in bed with a stranger I meet on the internet. Also can't be around anyone that does drugs or any type of illegal activities... and wouldn't want to either. Normally wouldn't feel the need to say all of that but am finding that there are ALL types out here! (So maybe I am scared of a few things!) I don't judge other people...but am trying to save us all a lot of time/energy even though it sounds uptight. And due to fraternization rules, he must also be an officer if currently in the military. Geez, another rule. I hate rules!! When it comes to most other things, I am pretty laid back.So if the above hasn't scared you off and you think we have some things in common, please send me a message telling me why. Who knows? Maybe we'll have the same luck that my friend had. She couldn't be happier. Those that don't dare, won't win!

  • Kate

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    Woman. 44 years old. Zodiac sign: Taurus.

    Looking for: man. In age: 41-51

    I love hiking and anything outdoors . Would like to some someone with same interest also exercise and go to church when my work schedule allows love animals especially dogs I don't have any drama in my life except for whatever I have to deal with at work lol I work on an ambulance so there is always someone with drama. I wear combat boots to work not a fancy kinda girl but want to b treated with respect I think I have a sense of humor u have to in my job Talk at first see if we have anything in common and then agree to meet and see if there is chemistry

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