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About Me

Hi There! About me... I love being outdoors, any excuse to get together with family and friends, walking, hiking, water, mountains, trees, reading, writing, porches you can sit out all year, gardening, coffee, microbrews, fall, architecture, remodel, anything artsy fartsy, travel, science, history, music of all kinds, football, hockey, veggies, chips and salsa… and the sound of squeaky screen doors….. doesn’t really take much to make me smile. I’ve lived a few places... 17 years later made my way back. I’ve done a variety of things from working in government, teaching, PD, building inspections, landscaping, loading trucks, to designing and building a house. I had two jobs I absolutely loved. You could also say I am a contradiction. I love to play in the mud but then I’m still a girl. I wont kill spiders because they kill the bad bugs.. but when one catches me off guard or I walk thru a web… yes I do the girlie eeky squeaky dance. A person I would be interested in spending time with…. Someone not afraid to act a little silly at times… be willing on occasion to make a fool of themselves just because why not? Who will dance with me no matter how good or bad they dance just because either way we will have fun. Someone who knows its about the journey.. that life is now…there is no waiting to be happy Someone who likes to be outside, go for walks, likes to talk, can agree to disagree, who can smile at me when I look like a flamingo trying to figure out which shoe looks better, who finds amusement in times I cant decide or suddenly am in a situation I become shy. And I want to be able to laugh at the odd ways that are just him, give him a smile when he is worried about nothing important. Someone that gets me biting my lower lip and grinning just at the thought of him. Id be interested in someone who already likes himself and his life and that for him finding that person he clicks and can always honestly be himself with is just value added. Anyway… that would be good. Thanks :) **grew up Catholic.. would say spiritual not religious **The intent Choices are ridiculous - not looking for anything serious to wants a relationship... I put wants a relationship in that I think if it ends up friends or more aren't those both technically relationships? yikes :/ Some people you feel a connection/chemistry with and others you don’t.. its just there or not. I don’t think there is a perfect date that can be created or planned, it doesn’t have to involve elaborate plans or cost a lot – a great date just is. I think usually it is when you can be yourself and are comfortable, can laugh, have fun no matter what’s going on. Whether I make a new friend or am lucky enough to feel that chemistry all is good.Update: I think it is odd to meet someone online and go on a "date." (I like you and want a kiss goodnight thing) I would say first time we meet face to face it is to say hello see how that goes. ( I pay my own way - this is not up for debate) Maybe we go on a date after that.. maybe we hang out a few more times to get to know each other before an official date happens. I dunno.. I just think its ok to take time to get to know someone as a friend first and not have the "date" word hanging over our heads lol.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'6"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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