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Lily, 42
United States, New York, Franklin Square

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Hi There! About me... I love being outdoors, any excuse to get together with family and friends, walking, hiking, water, mountains, trees, reading, writing, porches you can sit out all year, gardening, coffee, microbrews, fall, architecture, remodel, anything artsy fartsy, travel, science, history, music of all kinds, football, hockey, veggies, chips and salsa… and the sound of squeaky screen doors….. doesn’t really take much to make me smile. I’ve lived a few places... 17 years later made my way back. I’ve done a variety of things from working in government, teaching, PD, building inspections, landscaping, loading trucks, to designing and building a house. I had two jobs I absolutely loved. You could also say I am a contradiction. I love to play in the mud but then I’m still a girl. I wont kill spiders because they kill the bad bugs.. but when one catches me off guard or I walk thru a web… yes I do the girlie eeky squeaky dance. A person I would be interested in spending time with…. Someone not afraid to act a little silly at times… be willing on occasion to make a fool of themselves just because why not? Who will dance with me no matter how good or bad they dance just because either way we will have fun. Someone who knows its about the journey.. that life is now…there is no waiting to be happy Someone who likes to be outside, go for walks, likes to talk, can agree to disagree, who can smile at me when I look like a flamingo trying to figure out which shoe looks better, who finds amusement in times I cant decide or suddenly am in a situation I become shy. And I want to be able to laugh at the odd ways that are just him, give him a smile when he is worried about nothing important. Someone that gets me biting my lower lip and grinning just at the thought of him. Id be interested in someone who already likes himself and his life and that for him finding that person he clicks and can always honestly be himself with is just value added. Anyway… that would be good. Thanks :) **grew up Catholic.. would say spiritual not religious **The intent Choices are ridiculous - not looking for anything serious to wants a relationship... I put wants a relationship in that I think if it ends up friends or more aren't those both technically relationships? yikes :/ Some people you feel a connection/chemistry with and others you don’t.. its just there or not. I don’t think there is a perfect date that can be created or planned, it doesn’t have to involve elaborate plans or cost a lot – a great date just is. I think usually it is when you can be yourself and are comfortable, can laugh, have fun no matter what’s going on. Whether I make a new friend or am lucky enough to feel that chemistry all is good.Update: I think it is odd to meet someone online and go on a "date." (I like you and want a kiss goodnight thing) I would say first time we meet face to face it is to say hello see how that goes. ( I pay my own way - this is not up for debate) Maybe we go on a date after that.. maybe we hang out a few more times to get to know each other before an official date happens. I dunno.. I just think its ok to take time to get to know someone as a friend first and not have the "date" word hanging over our heads lol.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'6"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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    Woman. 45 years old. Zodiac sign: Taurus.

    Looking for: man. In age: 42-52

    About Me:I am loyal, dedicated, ambitious, career oriented, truthful and loving! I want to find someone to enhance my life and enjoy all the great things that companionship can bring...walking by the beach, dinner by the ocean, traveling anywhere, watching a movie...All while holding hands and waking upto someone who makes me anxious to come home from work each day :-)I can adapt to any social situation and enjoy meeting new people and eventhough I don't have children...I do love them....I'm a nurse who is very caring!Ideal Person:Intelligent,Honest,Loving Well-rounded man! Not a Game Player who is seeking the same! I take care of myself exercising and eating right would like someone who cares about their appearance as well. Love to travel and dine out/have drinks in a nice cafe as well as stay home and watch a movie! A man who is Intelligent, Established, Honest, Loving, and a Gentleman to have a relationship! Not a Game Player and who is seeking same...Want a funloving companion to enjoy life with along with someone to do the finer things in life with! Want someone who lives a healthy lifestyle in moderation...you have to have room to have a little fun!Good Luck Fishing and Always put your best foot forward you never know when the RIGHT ONE may come along! First date could just be a cup of coffee or a drink by the beach!

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  • Lois from Franklin Square | Woman | 42 years old | Libra
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    Woman. 42 years old. Zodiac sign: Libra.

    Looking for: man. In age: 39-49

    That's why I'm here, but I need you to make that happen! I'm an old fashioned gal who likes to laugh and have fun. Race and looks are not as important as the person you truly are. I am honest and really mean that. I AM into: Jesus Christ, God, music, movies, laughter, sex, outdoor activities, watching football, kicking back at the lake, cooking in and out, sightseeing, my dog, the zoo, intelligent conversation, weekend adventures, concerts, wide variety of old school music, and anything romantic. I am a great card player too. Also, I am open to trying new things. I am the type of person that will bend over backwards to help others if I can, that's what I do all day at work. Since I work from home, it is really challenging to meet new people. I'm not looking for a sugar daddy, but rather a relationship where we take care of each other. Things I am NOT into: random booty calls, negative people, whiners, and complainers. Please be someone okay with me smoking and please, please be the type of man who knows how to take charge, be a really good kisser and stuff, and not have me making every single decision. Also, it is a must that one of your profile pics is one with you actually smiling AND that you also have a regular job. Let's meet for coffee or a drink somewhere and take it from there. I'm pretty open as long as it's nothing too dangerous!

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  • Stacy from Franklin Square | Woman | 45 years old | Capricorn
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    Woman. 45 years old. Zodiac sign: Capricorn.

    Looking for: man. In age: 42-52

    Hey, I am fairly new to the whole online dating scene. Was just curious what all the fuss was about with online dating sites. I am 45 and I have 3 kids all of which are over the age of 20. I'd like to travel one day and be able to expierence new things. I like going for bike rides or walks when the weather is nice. I am a fairly good cook or so my kids tell me. Haha. If you'd like to know anything don't be afraid to strike up a convo. Perhaps a coffee or walk to get to know one another.

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