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Tamara, 43
United States, New York, Florida

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About Me

Dating at this stage of life is quite the Science Experiment. There are many variables. One variable is Chemistry. What exactly is chemistry? The definition of chemistry is " the scientific study of matter and energy and how they interact". --MATTER: Two individuals, ENERGY: What the two individuals give off. EXACTLY!!! To me, chemistry is a connection, an attraction, a bond or common feeling between two people. In my opinion, it starts very early in a friendship/relationship. Positive or negative chemistry is often one of the first feelings two people have about each other. It can be verbal or nonverbal, conscious or unconscious—yes, just like you were hit over the head with it! All the substances need to be put together or it's not going to work. Most of us know that when meeting someone for the first time can be a good experience, or a crazy experiment. You meet, talk and try to see yourself with that person well at least that is what I do. However, sometimes at the first meet, things can be awkward, so I do not always go by first impressions. I am honest and upfront and if I am not interested, I will tell you. All I ask is for the same respect in return. I'm no stranger to online dating as I’ve been on and off this site for a little over a year and have learned a lot, mostly to curb my expectations and not to take anything personally. Ok, enough of my psychological mumbo jumbo…ha!.. I will say that I am a down to earth. sweet, out-going and a people person. I love to laugh and enjoy whatever it is I am doing, good conversation and laughter is a plus!!!***there’s just one thing missing at this point…and that is sharing it with someone special. I’m on here to hopefully find that chemistry/bond with someone, someone who I can share plenty of laughs and good times with and to build something long lasting with. You meet, and if there is an attraction and good conversation, let’s see where that goes. Date, yes, actually dating and getting to know one another. I will be upfront here and say not that I am NOT looking to be anyone’s friends with benefits or a casual fling. Oh, let's not forget....I am not looking to be your pen pal either. I like to chat briefly, talk on the phone and then meet and let's see. On my down time, I enjoy working out as much as my time allows. I eat healthy and feel it is important to take care of yourself. I also enjoy going out to listen to a live music, bike riding, walks and really just about anything. My nationality is quite unique, I am Japanese and Irish and I am also 5’8- so keep that in mind. If you have a big personality, good family values and in a good place in your life, message me.....Remember..life is a gift, tomorrow is history, the future is a mystery, but today is the present..so if you feel we have some things in common, reach out.Nothing venture, nothing gained. Good luck to you all. First date, let's meet somewhere quiet over coffee, where we can talk and get to know each other.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Slim

  • Height

    5'8"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

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