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Barbra, 43

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About Me

I am a single mom who also helps support other members of my family. I'm trying to get out on my own with my daughter and start living life again. I love motorcycles, and almost anything outdoors. I play pool, darts, and bowl. I'm hard headed, but good hearted. I've been on here before and met some great men, but not been able to find my long term guy...(maybe this time lol) I am a flirt and outgoing by nature, but know when it's time to chill. I'm flattered by all the attention from the younger men, but it really isn't my thing. All of my pics are a year or less old. The one in the dress was taken ***I'm open to meeting for coffee or a drink, and then maybe dinner or a bike ride if we connect.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'6"

  • Eye color

    Hazel

  • Smoke

    Yes, regularly

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Blanche

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    Woman. 41 years old. Zodiac sign: Cancer.

    Looking for: man. In age: 38-48

    PLEASE IF YOU'RE REMOTELY BI POLAR AND HAVE A CRAZY FAMILY PLEASE STAY AWAY FROM ME!!!!!YOU MUST LIVE BY ME OR I WON'T RESPOND! SECOND PLEASE LIVE SOME WHAT CLOSE TO ME,BECAUSE I WILL NOT DO A LONG DISTANCE RELATIONSHIP AND I HAVE A MALE ROOMMATE AND IF THAT BOTHERS YOU I RECKON YOU BETTER PASS ON BY THEN.........dancing to Love Shack..getting to ***and starting over again...meeting my friends here...watching the creek gush down a mountain in the snow...sneaking animals in the house when they are suppose to stay outside...loving the feeling of achieving a goal....buying gifts because I love to give....laughing....one on one dating....believing the best in people.....hugging someone that has a skeleton in their closet....spending time with my girls and their guys,,,,,had it all...lost it all....but i'm happy...feeling the wind in my hair.....the nap of a man's neck..ripped jeans...black leather bootsSeeking my partner in crime who can be funny and goofy.. who can put a perma grin on my face!! I dont mind getting dirty and riding quads and dirt bikes, kicking some a$$ in darts n pool, stock car races, sitting around the fire and looking up at the stars, me watching my steelers at a divey bar or at heinz field! etc, but I have my girly girl side that gets her nails done and loves to tan in the summer, smell pretty for my guy, gets dressed up for a night on the town, but I RATHER WEAR MY RIPPED JEANS, TEE AND A CARHARTT BALL CAP WITH A PAIR OF CARHARTT BOOTSI just want to find that special guy, that will be there when I need a shoulder to cry on, that wont lie, cheat or run when it gets tough, but will also rip someones head off if they mess with me. Someone who can make me laugh by being goofy, that will grab your hand when your walking thru a mall, lean in and give you that kiss in front of everyone and not have a care in the world. I have a huge heart and I would love to give it to someone that wouldn't break it.. Ok enough sappy stuff I just wanna have fun who is in?Favorite Movies: Titanic, Departed, The Beach and one of my Favorites City Of Angels, god If the perfect angel would fall out of the sky for me...Favorite restaurants: Monte Cellos and T.G.I.. I love of all sorts of music except rap and techno..Favorite sports: Steelers and Pens Don't let someone become a priority in your life, when you are just an option in theirs.O yeah If your profile picture is of you flexing, please move on Im not interested! If your a sexy biker super bonus. Add me on *** up under *** DateSky is the limit

  • Rose

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    Woman. 45 years old. Zodiac sign: Aries.

    Looking for: man. In age: 42-52

    Remember if you try to be someone you are not you will attract somone you don't want --MeNot looking for Mr. Perfect but tolerable imperfections*Update*First, I will address the intent options. First, we have Casual Dating, No Commitment, hmmm, that sounds like a whole lot of one-night stands to me. If I am going to go that route, why not make it profitable and be a prostitute? Nope that one is not for me. Next, I Want To Date But Nothing Serious, well that sounds an awful lot like the first one to me. Then we jump right to I Want A Relationship, wow, really? Nothing in between? How about, Not Looking To Date 20 But Not Jumping Right Into a Relationship? *Deal breakers* (yep I have had messages which prompt me to add these)1. You 20 somthings and younger guys really need to stick to your age bracket. Most of those girls have probably never dated a man in their late 30's or 40's,so they don't know what they are missing, I have and I do. So if you are younger than say upper mid to late 30s, move along I am just not interested. That means if your profile picture is of you in your cap and gown, read no further.2. I do NOT want to whip you and I don't need you to do my housework or submit to me.-chargeable batteries seem a whole lot less maintenance. I wasn't born with a pair nor do I want to be burdened with trying to carry yours.3. If you are of the age to be messaging me, are still living with your parents and/or have no car, grow up and let Mommy and Daddy retire and enjoy the rest of their lives, I'm sure they are tired of wiping your butt. I certainly will not take their place.4. If you are on any kind of offender list, move on.5. If you send me rude, vulgar or crude messages, chances are I will ***, all that really tells me anyway is that you lack intelligence and/or imagination.6. If I see one more headline that says "Looking for a REAL woman" or "Looking for an honest woman" or "No drama" I might seriously lose my lunch. . .I mean, really, are any of us really looking for a fake, lying, drama king/queen? Besides, do you honestly think the fake, lying, drama kings/queens are going to message you and admit it? About me:I am a work in progress, still learning new things about myself, the world and the other people in it. I laugh, a lot, my sense of humor ranges from witty, sarcastic and a bit dark. I try to be non-judgmental, to each their own, right? So I try to avoid people who judge everyone for everything, just can't seem to get along with people like that, lol. Sometimes I can be very spontaneous while other times I tend to over-think things. I love being outside, love the water, the woods and the sky with its various moods. I listen to a wide variety of music, country, rock, blues, jazz, hip-hop, rap, oldies, just depends on my mood. I don't watch much TV but enjoy a good movie, again I like a wide variety, comedy, action, horror etc. I love football...Go Bengals. I'm a very optimistic and happy person. Family and friends are very important to me, I enjoy being around people that are funny and don't take life too seriously. I am not looking for a boyfriend for the sake of having a boyfriend, it all starts with dating but nothing serious ;o). Want to know more, ask :o).About you:The type of man that attracts me: A sense of humor with lots of witticism, this is essential and not negotiable He cannot be perfect, I’m not. He must have flaws, I do. He has to have a past, because I do. He definitely cannot be or believe himself to be a saint, I'm not nor do I want to be. In addition, yes, there has to be chemistry, without it, it cannot go further than friendship.There are a few traits I do not like in men, or anyone for that matter, if you are clingy, whiny, jealous, controlling, obsessive, possessive or rude please don't message me. I am not that way so I could never be attracted to a man that is.A few quotes I like: Never regret something that once made you smile -UnknownDo not ask the question unless you are prepared to hear the answer -UnknownIf you can't convince them, confuse them *** voices in my head may not be real but they have some damn good ideas. -UnknownWe have enough gun control, what we need is more idiot control. -Unknown Hey I'm fairly open, make a suggestion as long as it's not in some lonely, dark alley.... If we meet for drinks, I will buy my first drink...if it's going well and you decide you would like to buy me a drink I may accept. I think this takes the pressure off both of us...lol.

  • Bridget

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    Woman. 44 years old. Zodiac sign: Aquarius.

    Looking for: man. In age: 41-51

    About Me:(guy in pic is my brother!) I am a high energy, intelligent, very passionate woman full of love, ambition and adventurousness. I am an Army veteran as well. I feel deeply about my family, 2 teens, my work in the non-profit sector, my career and my partner - whom I hope to find. I don't need a man in my life, I want one. I only have the kids half of the time, much to my dismay, but it does leave a lot of time for 'adult time.' I love, love, being in love and loving. Nothing is more fulfilling than giving and caring in my opinion.My Ideal Person:I can say I want a guy who can stimulate me intellectually as well as physically and enjoys the pursuit of carpe diem. I would love a strong male personality in my life. I have a flex time job as Director of Sales and Marketing, I consult part time as a paralegal and am primarily focused on developing my e- I also raise 2 teens 50% of their lives.and they are, of course, my priority. However, I would like to develop a life with a gentleman, a competent decision maker, and a really fun and active man. Life can be difficult and laughter, being the best medicine, is best shared with another. And it is important to know that my children have a father and I am not seeking someone to fill that position in their lives. I am about 10 years or less from retirement and need a partner in life that understands my life pace and life place. I am very capable of reciprocation to another with my same needs. So in the boat together is fine by me as well. First few dates- anything as close to old school courting as possible. Your version will be likely be just fine. I am a huge fan of romance and would love to find someone that feels the same way I do about relationships. Of course, I am not looking to see/date multiple people at once and expect the same respect in return.

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