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Cathy, 43

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About Me

I'm not single because I don't get offers; I'm single because I won't settle for less than I deserve.First, I am a mother of ***year old granddaughter & 8 year old son). Second, I ONLY date black men. So the big question is why?? No, white men, it's not what you think. The black men come in extra small just like you do! Physically, that is what I am attracted to. I'm gonna keep it real on what I do and don't want:Do want:Someone with a steady job (can be professional, factory worker or something else) I don't need his money. I do fine myself!Someone with his own carSomeone who is happy in lifeSomeone who wants to be a friend first, then a best friend, then an awesome lover (yes in that order)Someone who is taller then me in 5 inch heels (yes 6' +)Someone who is adventurousSomeone who likes kidsSomeone who is affectionateSomeone who is honestSomeone with ambitionDon't wantSomeone with dramaSomeone with a wife or girlfriend that doesn't understand themSomeone with multiple baby mamasSomeone who drinks every dayThug or thug wanna be with his pants hanging off his ass.Someone who lives further then 1 hour awayWell if your still reading your probably saying to yourself, "wow this chick has a whole lot of demands!"About me: I'm single by choice I own my own homeI own my own carI live a comfortable life (meaning I make enough to support me & my 2 kids and everything we desire)I'm spoiled (yes spoiled, by yours truly)I'm happy with my life and all it has afforded meI didn't forget where I came fromI have a huge heart I don't judge I love my feet rubbed (so if you have some weird foot phobia were not meant to be)Oh, did I mention I have a sense of humor too?I am everything that I mentioned above in what I want in a man I've heard and experienced the horor stories. From the crazies to the stalkers or the women who is waiting for their man to get out of jail. I am none of the above. I'm sigle, no crazy ex and entirely too busy to stalk anyone. Please make sure your pic is recent. All of mine are dated and were taken in ***& ***. I haven't changed much.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Curvy

  • Height

    5'6"

  • Eye color

    Green

  • Smoke

    Yes, socially

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Dora

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    Woman. 43 years old. Zodiac sign: Cancer.

    Looking for: man. In age: 40-50

    hi hun I wanted to let you know that I was thinking of you today. I was thinking of how lucky I am to have a man who believes in me the way you do. Who not only appreciates my honesty but loves my loving and caring nature. HUN I want to Thank you for understanding that my family and friends are very dear to me. But most of all Thank you for giving me room to be independent but never being too far away for me to reach and find your hand. Babe I want you to know that I admire you... your strength and your weaknesses, your kindness, your humbleness , but most of all the fact that you're always a man of your word. So yes I was thinking about you today and thought about us . I thought about how amazing it will be when we are finally together. As amazing as our lives may be now it won't compare to what it will be when we are finally together.loveME lets meet at a place where we can talk. 1st meetings are always so stressfull, but I realized that people wouldn't be so stressed if we would all just be honest about who we are and leave the facades at home. So lets meet, talk, have fun see if we click we what we're looking for and we'll know when we

  • Eula

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    Woman. 45 years old. Zodiac sign: Cancer.

    Looking for: man. In age: 42-52

    Hey meetville I AM LOOKING TO MEET SOME INTERESTING NEW PEOPLE THAT MATCH UP WITH MY PERSONALITY.I ENJOY MUSIC, DANCING, CAMPFIRES, WALKS ON THE BEACH, MOVIES WITH GOOD COMPANY. I AM AN ATTRACTIVE WHITE FEMALE 44 YEARS OLD WITH BLACK HAIR AND BLUE EYES. I AM 5"2 AND 120LBS PETITE BUILD.I AM LOOKING FOR SOMEBODY IN THE ***YEAR OLD RANGE. I LIKE TO HAVE A COUPLE OF DRINKS AFTER A LONG DAY. I LOOK FORWARD TO MEETING SOMEBODY REFRESHING WITH A NEW BEGINNING.

  • Rose

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    Woman. 45 years old. Zodiac sign: Aries.

    Looking for: man. In age: 42-52

    Remember if you try to be someone you are not you will attract somone you don't want --MeNot looking for Mr. Perfect but tolerable imperfections*Update*First, I will address the intent options. First, we have Casual Dating, No Commitment, hmmm, that sounds like a whole lot of one-night stands to me. If I am going to go that route, why not make it profitable and be a prostitute? Nope that one is not for me. Next, I Want To Date But Nothing Serious, well that sounds an awful lot like the first one to me. Then we jump right to I Want A Relationship, wow, really? Nothing in between? How about, Not Looking To Date 20 But Not Jumping Right Into a Relationship? *Deal breakers* (yep I have had messages which prompt me to add these)1. You 20 somthings and younger guys really need to stick to your age bracket. Most of those girls have probably never dated a man in their late 30's or 40's,so they don't know what they are missing, I have and I do. So if you are younger than say upper mid to late 30s, move along I am just not interested. That means if your profile picture is of you in your cap and gown, read no further.2. I do NOT want to whip you and I don't need you to do my housework or submit to me.-chargeable batteries seem a whole lot less maintenance. I wasn't born with a pair nor do I want to be burdened with trying to carry yours.3. If you are of the age to be messaging me, are still living with your parents and/or have no car, grow up and let Mommy and Daddy retire and enjoy the rest of their lives, I'm sure they are tired of wiping your butt. I certainly will not take their place.4. If you are on any kind of offender list, move on.5. If you send me rude, vulgar or crude messages, chances are I will ***, all that really tells me anyway is that you lack intelligence and/or imagination.6. If I see one more headline that says "Looking for a REAL woman" or "Looking for an honest woman" or "No drama" I might seriously lose my lunch. . .I mean, really, are any of us really looking for a fake, lying, drama king/queen? Besides, do you honestly think the fake, lying, drama kings/queens are going to message you and admit it? About me:I am a work in progress, still learning new things about myself, the world and the other people in it. I laugh, a lot, my sense of humor ranges from witty, sarcastic and a bit dark. I try to be non-judgmental, to each their own, right? So I try to avoid people who judge everyone for everything, just can't seem to get along with people like that, lol. Sometimes I can be very spontaneous while other times I tend to over-think things. I love being outside, love the water, the woods and the sky with its various moods. I listen to a wide variety of music, country, rock, blues, jazz, hip-hop, rap, oldies, just depends on my mood. I don't watch much TV but enjoy a good movie, again I like a wide variety, comedy, action, horror etc. I love football...Go Bengals. I'm a very optimistic and happy person. Family and friends are very important to me, I enjoy being around people that are funny and don't take life too seriously. I am not looking for a boyfriend for the sake of having a boyfriend, it all starts with dating but nothing serious ;o). Want to know more, ask :o).About you:The type of man that attracts me: A sense of humor with lots of witticism, this is essential and not negotiable He cannot be perfect, I’m not. He must have flaws, I do. He has to have a past, because I do. He definitely cannot be or believe himself to be a saint, I'm not nor do I want to be. In addition, yes, there has to be chemistry, without it, it cannot go further than friendship.There are a few traits I do not like in men, or anyone for that matter, if you are clingy, whiny, jealous, controlling, obsessive, possessive or rude please don't message me. I am not that way so I could never be attracted to a man that is.A few quotes I like: Never regret something that once made you smile -UnknownDo not ask the question unless you are prepared to hear the answer -UnknownIf you can't convince them, confuse them *** voices in my head may not be real but they have some damn good ideas. -UnknownWe have enough gun control, what we need is more idiot control. -Unknown Hey I'm fairly open, make a suggestion as long as it's not in some lonely, dark alley.... If we meet for drinks, I will buy my first drink...if it's going well and you decide you would like to buy me a drink I may accept. I think this takes the pressure off both of us...lol.

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