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Cathy, 43

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About Me

I'm not single because I don't get offers; I'm single because I won't settle for less than I deserve.First, I am a mother of ***year old granddaughter & 8 year old son). Second, I ONLY date black men. So the big question is why?? No, white men, it's not what you think. The black men come in extra small just like you do! Physically, that is what I am attracted to. I'm gonna keep it real on what I do and don't want:Do want:Someone with a steady job (can be professional, factory worker or something else) I don't need his money. I do fine myself!Someone with his own carSomeone who is happy in lifeSomeone who wants to be a friend first, then a best friend, then an awesome lover (yes in that order)Someone who is taller then me in 5 inch heels (yes 6' +)Someone who is adventurousSomeone who likes kidsSomeone who is affectionateSomeone who is honestSomeone with ambitionDon't wantSomeone with dramaSomeone with a wife or girlfriend that doesn't understand themSomeone with multiple baby mamasSomeone who drinks every dayThug or thug wanna be with his pants hanging off his ass.Someone who lives further then 1 hour awayWell if your still reading your probably saying to yourself, "wow this chick has a whole lot of demands!"About me: I'm single by choice I own my own homeI own my own carI live a comfortable life (meaning I make enough to support me & my 2 kids and everything we desire)I'm spoiled (yes spoiled, by yours truly)I'm happy with my life and all it has afforded meI didn't forget where I came fromI have a huge heart I don't judge I love my feet rubbed (so if you have some weird foot phobia were not meant to be)Oh, did I mention I have a sense of humor too?I am everything that I mentioned above in what I want in a man I've heard and experienced the horor stories. From the crazies to the stalkers or the women who is waiting for their man to get out of jail. I am none of the above. I'm sigle, no crazy ex and entirely too busy to stalk anyone. Please make sure your pic is recent. All of mine are dated and were taken in ***& ***. I haven't changed much.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Curvy

  • Height

    5'6"

  • Eye color

    Green

  • Smoke

    Yes, socially

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Ethel

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    Woman. 42 years old. Zodiac sign: Leo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 39-49

    Weird things happen to me; nothing that you should be afraid of, but just realize that if we get together, you're in for a wild ride. I stare at spreadsheets all day, so I relish occasional craziness. I'm flirty, sassy and gregarious, so if you're the jealous, controlling type, go be co-dependent elsewhere. I enjoy getting into trouble as long as there isn't too much of a chance that we'll be arrested. I'm a decent cook and I love a nice bottle of Malbec.. or two. Also, I'm still recovering from the finale of Breaking Bad. I have enjoyed being single and now I'm looking for a relationship *insert gasp here*. I'm not looking to jump into anything without getting to know someone first. I've never been married, so I'm pretty sure it won't kill me to take things slow and make sure we are compatible. If you are divorced, I'm totally OK with that. You had to leave her in order to find me right? :) I am looking for someone with honesty and integrity. Please be who you say you are–please no game players! Please show a recent photo (get out of denial, yes, you and I both have aged–hopefully, gracefully, lol!) I'm not looking for Mr. Muscle; Mr. Average Body is just perfect by me. And for-the-love-of-God, no one likes shirtless bathroom pictures unless you're looking to get laid, which I'm not. Not until the second date. That's a joke, yo.I must admit, I like a bit of a bad boy; not an awful, I'm-going-to-treat-you-like-crap kind of guy, but someone who's edgy. Truth is, I'm just a nice girl (most of the time) who's looking for some fun and companionship. I love tall, funny guys who can hold me spellbound with a story or make me laugh until I cry. I also love creativity and passion. Lots of passion. The right man not only fascinates me but also brings out the best in me. We push each other to be the greatest people we can be. If you're comfortable in your own skin, have a strong sense of self and aren't afraid to expose your flaws, I'm sure we'll get along just fine. But I will say that if you're over 5'10, have eyes I can get lost in, are a Sox fan or U2 fan, I'm already melting. Don't be shy, ***! Drinks and easy conversation to see if we click.

  • Mari

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    Woman. 41 years old. Zodiac sign: Pisces.

    Looking for: man. In age: 38-48

    i like to go out and have fun ilike to go to the movies go for walks. work out bike riding

  • Shawn

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    Woman. 43 years old. Zodiac sign: Cancer.

    Looking for: man. In age: 40-50

    This is harder than I thought sitting here trying to figure out on what to say about myself. Well to begin with, I’m a woman of all trades. I’m a mother, a self-’t like doing dishes…lol.My ambitions in life is to one day open up my own Gourmet Pastry and Sandwich shop and call it, “Sweet As Can Be”. I love the night time air and the morning sound . I enjoy all types of music except for the hard rap. The oldies will still always be my favorite; The Carpenters, the Delfonics, Zapp Roger. Let’ I can go on and on and on. Music and a hot tub go together like peanut butter and jelly. I'm a gemini, the chatterbox smart and witty. Outgoing, very chatty... Adaptable but needs to express themselves. Argumentative and outspoken. Likes change. Versatile. Busy, sometimes nervous and tense. Beautiful mentally and physically.You know all human kind hopes to find that SOMEONE that makes us happy makes us smile, makes us feel love and appreciated. Hoping that SOMEONE is the ONE you can grow old with. Share special moments with. Laugh with, Dream with. Someone who makes you feel stronger and better person. One in which does not judge who you are but loves the person you are.Before we meet someone we all have our expectations of what we want from that person hoping their the ONE. Years later our expectations crumble and we end up with someone that tears our hearts apart.I’m not looking to play games with anyone. I have a lot to offer to my future lover. I don’t ask for nothing in return but bona fide respect. A nice movie and dinner is good for a starter. Drinks and dancing is fun, But if you really want to impress me take me skydiving Lol... I honestly would just about enjoy anything interesting.

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