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United States, New York, Elmont

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I am a salon owner who has a passion for life. I love music and the outdoors. I am the kind of girl who is not afraid to get my hands dirty but I also love to get dolled up for a night on the town. I have a strong sence of self and I'm very independent. I am a forward thinker who has no problem saying whats on my mind. I belive that life makes you who you are today and I'm pround of who I am. Ok so...that's the quick version for those of you who really don't give a S#%T are only on here because you think you might get LAID on the first date...Lol! Ummm...let me go ahead and clear things up for you just a little bit...YOUR NOT!!! Well not with me anyway... Lmao! NOW...that I have your attention, I guess I should help you understand a little more about me and just what I'm looking for in a man.....huh? It's quite simple actually...lol! One that has A JOB, A PLACE TO LIVE, A VEHICLE and NO EX-GIRLFRIEND A STALKING or NO so called BACKLASH, as it was once described to me...LMFAO!!! YEH...cause that's ALWAYS FUN!!! When I ask you if you are "SINGLE" that means that you are are "NO LONGER" living with or plan to be staying ***nights a week with your girl "FRIEND", who also happens to call or text repeatedly throughout any giving evening that we may happen to be together crying and begging for you to come pick her ass up because she's drunk. Why NOT? you might ask..lol! Well...because that usually interferes with really getting to know someone and having a good flippen time...Lol! OH...and btw...I HATE LIERS, THIEVES AND CHEATERS! In my opinion, they are the SCUM OF THE EARTH!!! Lets face it, we are all grown on this site and I prefer to be "UP FRONT & DIRECT" about everything and lets just see what happens! I can assure you that I'm not into that whole "MIND F#%K" thang which seems to be the norm with guys these days! I'm over all the GAMES & PLAYERS! So hear me loudly, if ya wanna play A F#%King GAME call ";!!! NO MORE DRAMA!!!I need someone who understands my sense of humor, as I may often find things that are somewhat inappropriate flippen hysterical! I think that people should really just to learn to lighten up a bit and not take things so damn serious. Almost anything can be funny, if ya just stop and look for the humor in it. I would also like the person to be as witty as I am, SARCASTICALLY SPEAKING ...Lol..Lol! Which just so happens to be my favorite language! I hear and speak in SARCASM, so I hope you can take a joke...lol! There is nothing better, as far as I am concerned, than a man that can keep me laughing. SO ...If you're a stick in the mud and not into having FUN and LIVING LIFE A LITTLE ON THE EDGE...then MOVE ON!!!! ;-)I think quick on my feet and I usually say what I'm thinking, so that too may be offensive to some people! I love to learn and thoroughly enjoy having an intelligent conversation or debate. I seek knowledge and try to learn something new everyday. When it comes to TV or books I tend to prefer things that are REAL! So as one might imagine I like true crime shows, the history channel, autobiographies...ya get the picture. NOW, don't get me wrong, I do love to laugh so a good comedy is never out of the question. Neither is anything that is "On the edge of my seat"...ACTION! On rare occasions, I may throw caution into the wind and venture off to see something that is a little more out of character for me and still enjoy it. For ***, the movie "; ...lol...lol! OK...You can stop laughing now!!! Yes...I said it!!!! DON'T ASK! As a date, I would defiantly consider myself to be a "FLUTTERBY" ...Lol...who will NOT be CAGED! Meaning...that I am not the girl who will be forced to sit at a table, keep quiet and just look cute! I talk to everybody. SO... you must have a sure sense of self! JEALOUSY is just not my thang! I am HONEST, LOYAL and I take my FRIENDSHIPS VERY SERIOUSLY, as I am an only child and tend to adopt my family along the way. Ya see...I blow and go, meaning that I have found throughout life that holding onto anger will only hurt you in the end. I work very hard and play even harder, so you must have a life of your own as my down time is PRECIOUS BUT ALWAYS INTENSE! Ya know, the party doesn't end until you smile for the mug shot!!!! LMFAO! I FEED off of the energy in the room, so ya just never can tell just what's in store. If the room is HOT.... WATCH OUT...cause were gonna have one hell of a story to tell in the morning..Lol! S#%T it's even a surprise for me and I like it that way! Lol! I also love to dance, if ya wanna call it that...lol! I LOVE ALL kinds of MUSIC but these days I prefer my music a little on the HEAVY! Music defiantly takes me to another place, it "IS" my sweet spot. It's that beautiful place that's located just above earth and right below heaven where NOTHING ELSE MATTERS!!! You just have to let the music take you there! So...as one would imagine POP'S is a regular venue for me, along with following some of the local talent around town! Actually, in case ya didn't know St. Louis has some of the most AWESOME MUSICIANS AROUND ya just gotta know where to find them..lol..lol! Of course, that's where I come in, NO WORRIES, I've got that S#%T covered LOL..LOL!!!Moving on...I have many different sides to me and I can be put into nearly any situation and come out on top, for I am a SURVIVOR of LIFE! I can honestly say that I have been knocked down by some of the worst things that life can throw at you, but I HAVE and ALWAYS WILL GET UP!!! There's only one place that I don't mind being on my knees and CRAWLING MY WAY THROUGH LIFE AIN'T IT! As I said in the beginning, I own a hair salon so I never meet a stranger and I can sell you a bag of wholly socks and you'd swear you got a good deal! I'd like to believe after the life I have lived that I am a very good judge of character and can pretty much sum you up in 5 min. or less. Typically, I can walk into a room of ***people I have never met and walk out with 99 friends. I can be a CORPORATE EXECUTIVE, the GIRL NEXT DOOR or a FREAK IN THE SHEETS, it just takes the right man to bring it out in me...lol! Oops...did I just say that? I DID...LMFAO! Idk...I hope that helps ya figure me out a lil better? SO, I guess you could just call me "SYBIL" ..hahaha! SO..If ya think your the one that can appreciate the ***sides of "SYBIL" ..lol, please by all means send me a message! I suppose the problem for me has been that I have a pretty good idea of just what I'm looking for at this point in my life and I'm actually starting to wonder if that person even exists...lol! WHO KNOWS? Honestly, I think that it's all about finding that one person that plays well with your DEMONS! Ttys! :-)

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'4"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    Yes, regularly

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

Blues Electro Photography Caribbean Indian Italian Turkish Crime Family & Kids Horror
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