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Melva, 23

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Hey everyone! Well I live In a small town where everyone knows everybody. I have a beautiful 4 year old daughter. Iown my own business as a pet groomer. I love to play sports, go out with friends, and just stay home and cuddle up with my daughter to watch a good movie. My hearts been played, used, and taken for some rides. I am looking for a serious relationship only. If u are just here for a piece of ass or do not want a committed relationship save yourself a message and move on. Getting to know one another is key. I want to take things slow and build trust with one another before dating. I am a very open and honest person and I expect to be treated the same in return.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Yes

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'9"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    Yes, regularly

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Yina

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    Woman. 37 years old. Zodiac sign: Aquarius.

    Looking for: man. In age: 19-39

    Hi! My name is Yina. I am never married catholic hispanic woman without kids from Perth Amboy, New Jersey, United States. Now I'm looking for new relationships. I want to meet a man, love of my life.

  • Lorie

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    Woman. 24 years old. Zodiac sign: Virgo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 21-31

    Woot! I'm a lady who's getting down with her social self! Grew up being shy; got tired of it. Now, I just do me! If you like it, cool. If you don't, that's no problem either. I don't require your approval to live my life, and I hope you enjoy yours. Anyways, I enjoy the games of video-ness! I love books and writing, but don't partake in enough of either at this point in my life. If you'd like to know more, it should go without saying, but I'll say it anyway: just ask! I'm right here! Now I have to go find the stupid mosquito that's hiding in my room, eating my legs! XDBesides books, games and art, I enjoy movies, mainly fantasy and good horror; much of today's "scary" movies aren't scary at all and that's quite disappointing to me. Last good scary movie I watched that actually kept me up a few nights was the first Grudge movie, and only after the first time. The subsequent few occasions that I've watched it, it's been quite ridiculous. Buffy, oh how you sadden me by not roundhouse-kicking that ghost chick in the face. I long for a good scare!Music-wise, I listen to almost anything, though my favorites are definitely classic rock and *** throw some classical in there for a bit of culture). I like movie soundtracks such as Star Wars, LOTR, Pirates, and Star Trek. Big booming basses and cellos tickle my eardrums! Same with loud horn pieces.Also, I've recently discovered that I'm an avid fan of shooting things, mainly large rifles and bows! And I am eagerly awaiting the zombie apocalypse. Don't judge. You know you're going to want a bad-ass chick who's got your back when it comes, and that's me.Another new interest of mine is workouts. *Le gasp!* My favorite is the Insanity workout by Shaun T. It's the only one that hasn't bored me, and that I've stuck with. I have had trouble with going to the gym in the past and sticking with exercising, but I'm completely committed to this, especially since I paid for it myself. (Figured I might as well jump headfirst into the ice water) It's hard as Superman's cheatin' alien abs, but I love it! And I've definitely seen a change in my energy and stamina, not to mention I feel sexy! I've only been doing it a month, so I've got a long road ahead. However, I look forward to it.*Update ***:I was thinking about things, and so now I feel like I should elaborate on a few things about the kind of man that I'm searching for.1.) I am looking for a MAN, not a little boy. However, I do understand that to different people, that word could be defined different ways (besides being one of the male gender). So let me describe to you my definition of the word. -A man is strong (both physically and emotionally), intelligent, protective, respectful, confident, determined, motivated, and ambitious. Now, most of these words can pretty much stand on their own, but I do want to point out a couple of things. When I say strong, I don't mean that you have to have the body of an Olympian god (besides today's version of Dionysus as a fat drunk). But there are extremes on both ends that I can't deal with. There IS such a thing as too thin. If I think that I could toss you over my shoulder like a barbarian woman in a raid, then I just am NOT attracted to you. (I'd prefer it the other way around, lol) And of course, there's the opposite of too thin. I do feel without a physical attraction, it is near impossible to move on to the more emotional and intellectual attractions. If you don't like what you see, what is there to motivate you to make the move to get to know them better? I have experienced both sides of the coin; I have been passed on because I wasn't someone's view of attractive, and I've passed on others who don't fit into my view. It is a shame that this is how the dating world works, but it's always been this way, since the beginning of everything. I understand this, and I expect those of you who take the time to read this to understand it too. I am working on my physical self, but that's for me, not for you. I'd like others to see what I see when I view myself in my own mind's eye, and that's one sexy biscuit! -A man is intelligent. If our conversations are going to consist of nothing but three word sentences that cover the same boring topics all the damn time, I just can't do it. I do understand that the level of education completed CANNOT EVER be a trustworthy indication of one's own intelligence. I've only got my Associate's, and sometimes people think that that's what defines my personal intellect, but it's not. I'm constantly learning new things, usually through research that I stumble onto while doing other things. I listen. And I love absorbing new information. But because I didn't finish a four-year college (as of yet), some people tend to write me off as one who couldn't possibly understand the intricacies of their Bachelors in whatever. So I expect the same love of learning and attempts at actual, meaningful conversation in my prospective partner. -A man is protective. This should be clear all on it's own, so I'm going to pass on a whole paragraph about it. A man will protect and fight for what's his. -A man is respectful. I'm not asking for you to call me "my lady" or anything (although you could quite possibly get brownie points for it, if we're seriously dating). But I am asking you to respect me, as a person and as a woman. Above, I mentioned a man is strong and protective. This are both good traits that I view highly; however, sometimes they can become misconstrued. Meaning the man can become oppressive and even abusive. These are things I DO NOT TOLERATE. One who holds respect for me and others finds it difficult to become oppressive or abusive. Know this, if someone tries to hurt me or mine, I am not afraid to retaliate and fight back. My daddy raised this lady right! -A man is confident. I dated a guy once who's level of self-esteem and confidence was practically non-existent. I will not do that again. If I feel like I'm the one wearing the pants in the relationship, I'm out. I'd like to believe that I'm a mix of both modern and traditional. I believe the man should be the head of the household and the bread-winner. However, I also believe that the woman can contribute as well. But I've seen that if the man does not feel that he is the head, then he comes to resent the woman. I do not want that at all. Confidence is key.

  • Sofia

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    Woman. 24 years old. Zodiac sign: Cancer.

    Looking for: man. In age: 21-31

    I'll start with this my cousin whom I've very close with is in the military and currently at Fort Leonardwood ... I was down the start of Feb. and had a blast...I'll be down June 9th till the 15th... Seeing how my cousin and his wife recently had a baby they can't hang out and go do as much as I'd like to do so I'd love to find some people to maybe go out with and show me so cool things... I'll pay in cheese curds!)I know this is long you don't have to message me telling me so!YOUR NIGHT/DAY IS ABOUT TO GET A WHOLE LOT BETTER : ) IN...3..2...1....DEAL BREAKERS!A) IF YOUR GANGSTER-ISH OR SAG YOUR PANTS!... I say this not because most men who do this are of a darker color and I have a problem with that... However some of my trailer park/hillbilly family may... and that could get awkward! I DO NOT WANT TO TALK TO MARRIED MEN! Yes I know despite the fact that you're cheating on your wife and you're prolly a lying **stard I'm sure the possibility that you're a nice guy is there... I'm just not willing to take that chance!B) I DO NOT WANT A ONE-NIGHT STAND!... This will eventually lead to unwanted phone calls due to my amazing skills... I'm not trying to break hearts here!C) I DO NOT WANT TO BE IN A THREE SUM OR ANY SUM FOR THAT MATTER!... OR ANY OTHER OBSCENE SEXUAL THING YOU CREEPERS CAN COME UP WITH... That's pretty self-explanatory!D) I AM NOT LOOKING TO REVICE PICTURES OF ANY SEXUAL NATURE!;member" is adorable the truth is they for the most part look like every other baby or again in your case "member" The difference is babies get more cute with time and unfortunately your stuck with your "member". E) NO STALKERS/ CREEPERS... I don't have time for that... And I don't want to end up in a garbage bag in your trunk, because that would prolly make the list of worst first dates ever! F)YOU MUST MAKE ME LAUGH... I'm sorry if this post doesn’t make you laugh and you can't come up with something equally as awesome and witty... this will never work... G) PLEASE BE BETWEEN ***... I'm not sure how to have the conversation with my parents about how this new guy I'm seeing graduated high school the same year they did... and I'd like to try and avoid that awkward moment when we're in public and you're mistaken for my father.Now for those of you who have met those above requirements…ME...I'm sarcastic! I have an awesome family!I work at an optical office... I love my job.I DO NOT use drugs... I am NOT "***friendly" ... would be best if you didn't use drugs either.I grew up with all boys so I learned fast when to swing and when to haul ass.I swear like a sailor.I have a give em’ hell mentality. I have the best stories! I love love love music & love Karaoke... Because basically after about 12 PBR's I'm a rock star!A hole in the wall, a screaming juke box and a Shot of whiskey... I call that solving problems.Big fan of road trips... Nothing better then a back road and blasting some good country music with the windows down!I love tractor pulls… I’m an IH fan : ) I love the outdoors (hunting…fishing…camping) However… I'm not really a big fan swimming... pools= Burning eyes... bad hair... sunburns... little kids pee-pee! Lakes = mouthful’s of dirty water and FISH POOP... dead fish... fish sex... dead bodies!I hate bugs (I kill them with Windex while jumping up and down!)... I also hate snakes so if you wanna be friends you'll have to promise to throw yourself in front of a snake at any given moment and I would prefer in that moment you have a super awesome Australian accent!I love adventures.I have an attraction to... -Anything vintage looking - The 40's and 50's -Men in Uniform... Military...Police...Fire...UPS ... and in that order ha-ha! -A southern accent -Red head's -A man with a guitar -Tattoos! -Cowboy boots -Bow ties -Road Trips - sense of humor I hate cats and small overly hairy dogs... Yeah Yeah Yeah I'm an ***hole! BUT please do not let your cat prance around my lap and legs and laugh and say oooh he likes you that’s soooo cute... no really it's not I am now caked in cat hair and as for your cat I'd like to punt it across your living room... yep that’s how cute I think that is!I do however love dogs (large dogs)I'm a horrible driver... I mean give me a break I am a woman… I know what I'm good at making sandwiches and babies! HAHA THAT WAS A TOTAL JOKE! When I'm not screaming the lyrics to songs... I'm normally making racecar noises.I enjoy Non-adult fun, which may include any of the following combinations... Wal-.. foam sword fights... prank calls... sliding down stairs in laundry baskets...sledding... watching cartoons in pj's... Nerf and or water gun fights... = ] ... AND COKE CAUSE I'M DANGROUS!I love kids or as I call them cupcakes... However I will bring them candy and they will receive the most annoying toys I can find for whatever excuse of a holiday I can come up with!I have weird quarks... I challenge every person I see eating a banana to do it as non-sexual as possible... It's usually makes my day! I can be as crud and off putting as I want cause I'm a woman and it's cute... You may not because you’re a man and it's creepy and un gentlemen like! Double standers suck!..... which part is more weird that I'm a grown adult so loves sleep overs with her best friend or waking up to someone at 3 am whispering "I can show you the world" in your ear?You...You must have...-HAVE A truck... although I'll consider those of you with a car/suv... I say this because at any given moment I may need to be rescued from evil doers! (pedal bikes do not count... I'm sure your huffy has sweet pegs but I'm prone to falling and well you can image).- HAVE A phone... This is for two reasons... I'll need to be able to get ahold of you to alarm you that I’m in need of rescue and also because at 3 am when I've had to much to drink drunk Jessica needs to be able to wow you with her awesome night- YOU MUST BE FUNNY! I need to find someone who can put up with my goofiness! … Laughing until you pee is not a bad thing!- YOU MUST BE ABLE TO QUOTE DUCK DYNASTY… ha-ha come on are you really that surprised?- YOU MU

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