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Phyllis, 25
United States, New Jersey, Hoboken

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About Me

Disclaimer: I've recently given this space a little update as "short and sweet" was only attracting extremely overweight men who don't take care of themselves, perverts, and old men. None of which am I'm in the market for!Heya, there! I'm twenty- I'm 5' 4" and feel like "a few extra pounds" is an accurate description for my weight even though it doesn't accurately describe my fitness level or lifestyle. I'm a college graduate. I'm currently employed as a customer service representative for a large manufacturing company. I spend my days on the computer entering orders and taking calls from customers. Not the most glamorous gig out there but it pays the bills until the economy bounces back enough for me to land a job using my degree. Plus, its a reputable company, I have virtually no commute, and there always room to move up if I choose to stay. I'm aspiring to become a probation officer but with all the budget cuts... positions are hard to come by and then I'm often competing with veterans or those who already have several years of experience in the field. My day will come though! I own my own home. I guess you would call it a fixer-upper but its completely livable. Haha. It should be really cute and homey once I'm done with it. I'm also a huge animal lover and have been actively involved in animal rescue since my college days (currently on a hiatus from fostering). I have four dogs (three beagle mixes and a pinzu) and two cats. Don't worry... they're all well behaved. They all also happen to be rescues. Obviously a love of animals is a must.Several months ago I embarked on a journey to change my life. I wasn't obese but I wasn't exactly happy with myself. I embarked on clean eating diet (convert for life but only follow ***, go to the gym three to five times a week, and now since I can officially run a 10k without kneeling over... consider myself to be a runner. If you love to run - major bonus points.Other than running... I enjoy cooking, reading, blogging, dabbling in Youtube, hiking, camping, volunteering, and traveling.I'm looking for someone in their mid-to-late twenties who's driven and has a good head on their shoulders. I'm looking for someone who compliments my personality and lifestyle while helping me grow and better myself as person. I'm an independent girl who takes care of herself so I expect any potential partner to have his life together as well. I'm not rich or famous but I'm doing better than most my age.I'm not interested in dating men who don't take care of their bodies. I don't expect you to be a body builder by any means as I'm not a super model but being sloppily overweight its not acceptable. I'm not interested in men who live at home or who play excessive amounts of video games. No men with kids unless you happen to be an absolutely exceptional man and father - just not all that interested in inheriting a starter family or drama. If you're not employed and cannot take care of your finances then don't bother. I don't need a man financially and I'm not looking to have to financially support anyone. No one who drinks excessively or does drugs (no not even marijuana) need to apply. I'm as straight-laced as they come. I'm a ruler follower. And lastly, no criminal record. Given where I want to go in life, I can't chance future opportunities by associating with those who don't follow the law.I guess I should also note that I'm not looking to get married asap but neither am I looking to be be someone's weekend only fun. I'm looking for someone who wouldn't mind building a strong foundation as friends with similar interests first and seeing where things go from there. If you've made it this far... and think we'd be a good match - please don't hesitate to send a message! It really depends on how comfortable I feel... and how long the driving distance is. Usually a simple meal at a neutral restaurant is a good idea - although I'm always game for sushi.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Curvy

  • Height

    5'4"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

Latin Volleyball
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