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Lila, 24
United States, New Jersey, East Brunswick

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About Me

PLEASE GIVE ME A CHANCE! It may be a drive... but if I could, I'd make the drive to meet a potential mate...I am artistic, I am musically inclined, I love to write (poems and stories). I was in a pretty serious relationship up until a couple months ago. The guy tore my heart out and spit on it, but I can only be injured for so long. I'm very determined and extremely resilent to verbal teasing, since I am the youngest out of 4 girls. I oftentimes will hold my tongue when things bother me, so if I seem upset and say 'nothing' when asked... be assured it is about that person who asked.I dislike confrontation, and I dislike even more upsetting those I care about. I one day want to be a concept artist for my favorite TV networks: Cartoon Network and Nickelodeon. I went to high school for graphic design/3D animation and didn't quite excell in 3D animation (too many glitches!!) but was told my conceptial art and my storyboarding skills were phenominal. (Geez it feels like I'm filling out a Resume... lemme get back to me)I LOVE dry humor. Monty Python, Mr. Those are only a few of my favorite movies with my favorite type of humor! I don't like scary. I'm a big scardy cat. For about ***years after seeing the first Chuckie movie, I couldn't own any doll. Same amount of time after seeing IT I couldn't shower with my eyes closed and I always watched the drain during.I adore the paranormal though. I am an extremely spiritual person, and honestly I don't mind WHAT religion you're into. They're all beautiful in their own way, each person believes in what they believe in. I was originally raised Catholic, but found a higher power in seeing the beauty in ALL religions. (Wow... I sound like a kook!) I do believe in angels, demons, and even ghosts. Though not in the "Scooby Doo" or "Paranormal Activity" effect.I am -I suppose***of a kind. I enjoy a lot of things, but I am a VERY cuddly person. I LOVE to be close to someone. I like to caress the back of my significant other's head, hold hands, touch jawline, lean against, etc. I have been this way since BIRTH. I also am not entirely fond of... outside. It's not that I don't like it, it's that it doesn't like me. Bugs attack me, birds go out of their way to try and poo on me or my car... dogwood tree-fluffs float by just in the right angle to float into my nose/throat if I'm not careful how I'm breathing at the time.I hope as you read this you have (made it this far first off) and secondly can tell a little about me that I'm NOT saying. Like about my sense of humor and my way of thinking. I have a unique thought process that not many people understand, and my sense of humor usually eludes everyone. Remember how I said I liked to write in paragraph 1? Well now you understand my meaning of that if you've made it this far. :DI like to make people laugh (which sucks because of my eluding sense of humor *** ) and I love love LOVE to sing. I'm very shy about it though. You'll know when I feel comfortable around you, because I'll either start singing to a song, or offer to sing you a song. I'm not really all that girly. I own like... 3 dresses, tops? But I adore boots. I don't EVER wear makeup, and I rarely do anything with my hair. I let it fall the way it falls naturally. I have no tattoos (scared of the needle....) I have no peircings (I had my ears and belly button peirced. I did the belly button one on my own in Middle School and it fell out *** I don't usually wear jewelry. But I LOVE rings. Rings are awesome. I own some, but I probably wont wear them.I'm looking for a serious relationship. One that will more than likely end in marriage and beautiful little babies. You know. Happiness and rainbows. I don't want anything casual, and I live in like... nowhereland... and own a GAS GUZZLER of a car... so the odds of me ever meeting you at a place are slim. Also because my sense of direction REALLY SUCKS. I got lost 3 times trying to go to a friend's wedding. *** WITH a garmin.... yeah.LAST BUT NOT LEAST!! I like any type of music. My favorites are: Any song I can sing to and use my voice to it's full potential (none of that half-talking Rhianna crud), Techno, Dubstep (NOT THE SAME AS TECHNO I SWEAR!), and oldies (The Doors, The Beatles, etc.)Ok... that wasn't last... 3 AND ANY PASTA THAT ISN'T WHOLE GRAIN! 3 I like to be romanced, I won't lie. Flowers, dressed up(or not, honestly. Not girly. Remember?) chocolates(I will be your best friend FOREVER... or until I run into coconut chocolate... bleh!)... dinner, etc. I'm pretty old fashioned when it comes to this. Doors opened for me (unless it's a car door... because I'm RIGHT there, I mean... I'm not LAZY. I'm just a LADY.), check paid in full by one taking me out (that half-n-half crud is dumb, sorry... just being honest. Honestly, paying half and half will come during marriage. I wanna be pampered! :D ).Honestly though, if you can cook? THAT is a big plus. If you take me to your place and cook me a delicious meal, that is awesome. I do like the night time, so if you take me to a park at night, or somewhere at night it is way more romantic than a "lunch date" where everyone is everywhere rushing to eat because they gotta get back to work. I like to take it slow, and hope that by the 3rd date you wont expect me to drop my pants for you. Though at the same time I do move fast depending on how much you intregue me.IF you can surprise me, THAT is awesome too. I love surprises. 3

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Yes

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Other

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'3"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

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