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Kristie, 25
United States, New Jersey, Califon

Offline, last seen Thu, 23 Oct 2025 06:16:24

About Me

I am not perfect and I dont try to be. I can stay in and chill and I love to be the life of the party. I have been a a few really serious relationships that didn't end good or bad but its not baggage I carry with me. I am looking for someone romantic..not just the 'sweet and romantic like every new person is' then it ends and you're a douche... :) if u dont have a car or are looking for a hook up then move on. my expectations aren't unrealistic but over the years I have come to realize that I do want A real grown man who is romantic with me and I know there are plenty of real men in the world that won't have to look up the word for it to fit. :) Im not tiny and never will be, I am what doctors would say is 'overweight' I'm sure but I am sexy and I put myself together very nice and I'm not huge or beastly... and the right man will love the fact that my ribs don't show in a bathing suit. I sometimes would rather do dinner at home with a candle and then a night out on the town. Though I wouldn't mind a fancy dinner or a bar night. I want to be treated like a princess and I treat my man like a king. Not trying to get married, just maybe do some dating and see if we hit it off. Humor is just as big as romance is for me. I love a man's masculinity and ways he can show it. Confidence is huge but its a thin line to being full of yourself. I am super chill, love a pale ale and hate chocolate, NOT COMPLETELY so don't freak out, but I don't prefer a plethora on my pallet, just not my thing. Mmm i work a lot so it's hard to have a ton of hobbies. I like to play and sing music. I'm learning the guitar as you already know :) It's summer so I try to be near water and getting a tan as much as possible. Like to camp and fish and make snowmen and snowboard when possible. No I'm not awesome at snowboarding but it's still fun and I try! Originally from MI I have culture changed quite a bit the last 9 years since I've lived over here and I've learned to love the people, the trees and the rain. I work 12 days on with 2 days off regularly so my schedule is kinda crappy but I flipping love my job and would never compromise it. Now that I wrote you a huge novel; how about yourself? I think I covered a crap ton of angles there. :)I've never done something like this so I don't really know how it works but please no scary raper men... :)And if you read this whole thing...you were probably bored, or desperate...but legit in my book ;) so what's your story??? I don't mind what we do, meet up at a bar, fancy restaurants, or having a movie night with a board game and meeting all my pets. Lets just somewhere that we can chat like friends and like we've known each other for years...I don't want it to be wierd or awkward or fake. We can chit chat on what sounds fun for both of us. I'm pretty open to try anything at least once, except for seafood :)

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Yes

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Buddhist

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'4"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    Yes, regularly

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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