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Lourdes, 47
United States, Maine, Lewiston

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About Me

Like many others, it's come to this! Searching for love on the WWW! Personally, not my favorite way to meet people, but it beats going to bars and meeting people who are not themselves after imbibing all night! ABOUT ME..I am in a point in my life where I have finally found peace and happiness.. even by myself.. but I would like to find that special someone who is looking to experience a fun and fulfilling life with a strong woman by his side! I am super affectionate and love holding hands, PDA, cuddling on the couch, kissing you to no end, running my fingers through your hair, giving back rubs and most of all hugging.. from what I hear, hugs can add years to your life!! :) I have no children at home, so my time is my own and I am willing to give you a good portion of that time. I am a drama free girl..very centered and live in the present moment, so you don't have to worry about any baggage! I enjoy my career and it provides for all of my needs, but I would like a partner who will help create a great life for both of us! I love to experience new things, so if there is something that you enjoy doing, I would love to experience that with you! I've been wanting to get to a football, baseball or basketball game! If you fish..I would love to try that too! I probably wouldn't be interested in hunting though.. not in my nature to kill things!. anything to get the adrenaline pumping! I like to hear live music.. mostly in smaller venues! I love to sit on my deck in the mornings while I drink my coffee or read a book with the mountains in the distance! As far as my physical aspects, I think my photos are pretty accurate. Most people say I look better in person and that I look a lot younger than my true age. I like to say somewhat fit, but I'm not a gym junkie by any means! I probably border on athletic, but I say average because I have an extra 10 pounds! I'm not one of those dainty girly girls.. I'm more athletic and love to eat! You won't see me spending every other day at some salon or plastic surgeon.. I have no fake parts.. I am me!! ABOUT YOU..I am hoping to find a man who has been single for a little while--someone who is comfortable with himself. I will not be interested if you are married, in a relationship or just separated! As far as the exterior, I can't really be specific.. when I look at your picture, the attraction is either there or not.. sometimes it's your eyes, sometimes your smile or your lips that draws me in to read your profile! I would like to find someone who would rather spend time living life than be at work! I know we all have to work.. and I admire a man who works hard, but I also like someone who knows how to balance work and play and makes time to enjoy life! I would like someone who likes to be outdoors and explore.. I don't really sit around and watch TV all day, so I think it would bug me if you did! I would hope that you are affectionate, and are willing to put some effort into making plans once in a while..be spontaneous! surprise me with dinner.. or a picnic...a back rub or a foot massage! Light some candles and draw a bath for me.. then join me! it doesn't have to be expensive, but thoughtfulness and creativity goes a long way!! The most important thing to me in a relationship is your willingness to give me some of your time!! Just an aside.. if you're interested..don't just make me a favorite.. write to me.. catch my interest! I will not likely contact you first!If any of this interests you, send me a message! I promise I don't bite!! At least not on the first date!! Something simple like coffee or a drink with no huge time commitment. See if there's an attraction. If so, we can continue..if not.. we are not stuck in an awkward situation and can go our separate ways!!

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'5"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

Bluegrass American Irish Italian Spanish
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