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Eleanor, 44

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About Me

I'm not your average women. I am self sufficient and not looking for someone to support me. I play on a soccer teams and workout at the gym at 5:00 am every day. I'm not into game playing that is why I play soccer. What you see is what you get. I can be a girly girl but also don't mind getting my hands dirty. I'm looking for that certain guy I can connect with. I like to laugh and have a positive outlook. The man I am searching for has to have a sense of humor and the chemisty has to be there. He has to be self sufficient. I want someone I can open up a bottle of wine with and fight with who has the last piece of pizza. Someone I can cuddle up on the couch and watch scary movies with and will take my hand when I get scared and I'll take his too and won't even tell.Who I am looking for... Someone who can be committed and excited to be in a relationship. I love a man who has his own opinions and can express them in a sympathetic way. I am looking for the man who is the exception to the normal. Independent, strong, cares about his health and is physically active. I want someone who is interested in learning more about himself and me. MUST be smart. He does not have to be book smarts though. I want someone who is supportive and giving. I want someone to build the rest of my life with. I want someone who has his own interests and hobbies, and is okay with me having mine. Discovering things we can share is even better. I want someone who can identify and call me on my stuff. I want someone who loves to give and receive attention. I am very attentive. He should enjoy the simple pleasures. A little jealousy is healthy but not overboard. I want a man with dreams and ambitions of his own and be okay with me trying to help realize them. *Update to my profile*I feel a man should enhance your life not complete your life...I'm very happy where I'm at and love to laugh and have fun....it would be fun to have someone there to enjoy it with me....I have to be attracted to you and its not always about the looks...it could be something that just stands out about you...I'm just not willing to settle and I don't need to....I also like to watch football....go Cowboys..... Probably for a first date we would meet over coffee and see if there is any attraction.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Athletic

  • Height

    5'4"

  • Eye color

    Green

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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    Woman. 44 years old. Zodiac sign: Sagittarius.

    Looking for: man. In age: 41-51

    I love laughter and am very attracted to people who can make me laugh. I can be very funny at times, and at other times very serious. I especially appreciate sarcastic humor. I love my dogs, my cats and my son. They are all my babies.What do I want? That's what I'm trying to figure out. Right now, I want to date and find out what is important to me in a man. After a long term, passionless relationship, I feel the need to get to know many people to figure out what is right for me. If the right man comes along, I will not turn him away, but I'm not rushing to find him. First I want to find out more about what I want.Update ***and ongoing:I have been dating and observing those traits that work for me as well as those that don't, so I thought I'd mention those traits here as a way of keeping track.I have appreciated the men who have:1) been affectionate/used terms of endearment to refer to me - I am a sucker for this2) been kind/treated me well3) expressed their attraction to me with class and/or passion4) had great senses of humor5) had a similar mindset as mine6) been direct and real with me7) helped me step outside my comfort zone8) been a friend first and a potential romantic partner second9) Bonus points to the guy who helped me look for my car for an hour when I couldn't remember where I parked it. You're awesome! (At least you were until we got to number 8 below.)I have not appreciated the following actions in the men I have gone out with:1) I did not appreciate showing up for a first date and seeing my date groping another woman; telling me I look great does not make up for this.2) I did not appreciate being stood up because my date was too drunk to show himself; no I will not reschedule.3) I did not appreciate the men (yes, plural) who have expressed their undying adoration for me but have then abruptly stopped talking to me the first time I refused to send them naked pics. Guess what. These men still don't have naked pics.4) I do not appreciate when someone says they want to go out with me, but then refuses to do so. WTF?5) I do not appreciate the date who tries to push beyond my stated physical boundaries. If I set a limit, I mean it. Oh, and I'm a black belt in karate so watch out ;***I did not appreciate the guy who chatted with me nonstop for two weeks and then stopped cold turkey with no explanation. If you decide you hate me, can you please just tell me and not make me wonder what happened?7) I did not appreciate the guy who whenever I asked him a question online, he'd give me one word answers, and then invited me to his house for the SOLE purpose of taking care of his boner. Have a personality first, people.8) I did not appreciate the guy who told me that he wanted a long term relationship just because the thought that was what I wanted to hear. Not wanting a long term relationship will not take you out of my dating pool. Being dishonest probably will, though.Please understand that with very few exceptions, I enjoyed almost every date I've been on (yes, even with the groper.) I enjoy the humor in these situations and just generally enjoy going on a date. It makes me feel alive.As I continue to date, I will continue to update this list until such time as I am ready to settle down! :)

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    Woman. 44 years old. Zodiac sign: Sagittarius.

    Looking for: man. In age: 41-51

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  • Sheri

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    Woman. 48 years old. Zodiac sign: Aquarius.

    Looking for: man. In age: 45-55

    I love to have fun, my boys, grandkids, my animals, the outside, ice cold beer, sports, walks, good conversation, music my favorite artist is my son, then ledzeppelin. I care about people and I try to stay happy , I know life can be hard but you have to know sad to know happy and so on. I hope to try knew adventurers. I hope I can fulfill the goals I've set. Its fun to do spur of the moment .My hobbies are gardening, cooking,movies ,a good book ,and meeting new people. I'm real feel whats inside of a person is important. I'm honest real upfront hoping to get the same. My favorite sport is baseball and I am a cubby fun***\\***Plz ***\\\***Put This ***On Your ***account If ***You Know ***\\\***Someone ***\\***Who Died ***\***Of ***\\\***Cancer ***\\\---or fighting it now My first date I would like to get to know one another then f we have some kind of connection doing what we both agree and I'm open for suggestions. Hope that whatever it was both had fun,and was worth it!!!!

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