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LilyOffline
Woman. 44 years old. Zodiac sign: Sagittarius.
Looking for: man. In age: 41-51
I love laughter and am very attracted to people who can make me laugh. I can be very funny at times, and at other times very serious. I especially appreciate sarcastic humor. I love my dogs, my cats and my son. They are all my babies.What do I want? That's what I'm trying to figure out. Right now, I want to date and find out what is important to me in a man. After a long term, passionless relationship, I feel the need to get to know many people to figure out what is right for me. If the right man comes along, I will not turn him away, but I'm not rushing to find him. First I want to find out more about what I want.Update ***and ongoing:I have been dating and observing those traits that work for me as well as those that don't, so I thought I'd mention those traits here as a way of keeping track.I have appreciated the men who have:1) been affectionate/used terms of endearment to refer to me - I am a sucker for this2) been kind/treated me well3) expressed their attraction to me with class and/or passion4) had great senses of humor5) had a similar mindset as mine6) been direct and real with me7) helped me step outside my comfort zone8) been a friend first and a potential romantic partner second9) Bonus points to the guy who helped me look for my car for an hour when I couldn't remember where I parked it. You're awesome! (At least you were until we got to number 8 below.)I have not appreciated the following actions in the men I have gone out with:1) I did not appreciate showing up for a first date and seeing my date groping another woman; telling me I look great does not make up for this.2) I did not appreciate being stood up because my date was too drunk to show himself; no I will not reschedule.3) I did not appreciate the men (yes, plural) who have expressed their undying adoration for me but have then abruptly stopped talking to me the first time I refused to send them naked pics. Guess what. These men still don't have naked pics.4) I do not appreciate when someone says they want to go out with me, but then refuses to do so. WTF?5) I do not appreciate the date who tries to push beyond my stated physical boundaries. If I set a limit, I mean it. Oh, and I'm a black belt in karate so watch out ;***I did not appreciate the guy who chatted with me nonstop for two weeks and then stopped cold turkey with no explanation. If you decide you hate me, can you please just tell me and not make me wonder what happened?7) I did not appreciate the guy who whenever I asked him a question online, he'd give me one word answers, and then invited me to his house for the SOLE purpose of taking care of his boner. Have a personality first, people.8) I did not appreciate the guy who told me that he wanted a long term relationship just because the thought that was what I wanted to hear. Not wanting a long term relationship will not take you out of my dating pool. Being dishonest probably will, though.Please understand that with very few exceptions, I enjoyed almost every date I've been on (yes, even with the groper.) I enjoy the humor in these situations and just generally enjoy going on a date. It makes me feel alive.As I continue to date, I will continue to update this list until such time as I am ready to settle down! :)
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HelenaOffline
Woman. 41 years old. Zodiac sign: Sagittarius.
Looking for: man. In age: 38-48
Hello out there! I am a single, professional woman with a great life looking for someone special with whom to share it. I have a wide variety of interests. I enjoy the outdoors fishing, camping and hiking. Have done some bird hunting and started bow hunting last year (although mostly unsuccessful). I enjoy traveling to experience new cultures, exploring out of the way places, finding interesting food, sampling wine, and tasting craft beer. Although I have my own hobbies, I am always interested in exploring new things and enjoy both the physical and intellectual stimulation that comes with new activities. I would welcome a partner who has varied and different interests.I was a competitive gymnast through college and enjoy staying fit with various types of exercise. My interests and lifestyle both encourage and require a healthy and active body. I am looking for a partner who also values physical fitness….both to explore those activities that require strength and endurance as well as participating in exercise together. My actual age is 46 although most who meet me initially believe me to be in my late 30’s due to my personality and activities. I have found that my interests, fitness and activities make me more compatible with a younger age bracket. Unfortunately, it appears that most men on this site search for a partner who is younger than themself regardless of activity/interests. This makes it difficult for me to connect with a possible good match. So I have changed my “match” age to fit into a better partner bracket for me. So if you insist that your woman be younger….not just act and look younger….I am not the match for you.Summer is around the corner. I have many activities planned for those wonderful, warm months.…..it would be nice to have someone with whom to share them. If interested, shoot me an ***'m not digging through a bunch of "he wants to meet you" nudges. And I won't respond to *** say nothing but "hi".... or..." wow, you're hot ". If you are just window shopping looking at pictures or don't have the guts, energy, or intelligence to send an *** some insight into who you are, why you think we may be a good fit, or initiates an interesting conversation then we wouldn't be a good match anyway.
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WendyOffline
Woman. 46 years old. Zodiac sign: Scorpio.
Looking for: man. In age: 43-53
***Hobby: Acrylic Painting, I am painting and selling them and they buy it from me... ***My goals is : trying to get my own business (Arts Gallery***About Me: I am born Hard of hearing and Proud of it.. Some people didn't know that I am hard of hearing.. I talked good and hear them better not all the way better.. LOL***Well I like the music and I can hear but the problems are Couldn't understand any word they sings.. But someone can tell me what they are saying..