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Rachelle, 43
United States, Maine, Lewiston

Offline, last seen Mon, 08 Jun 2026 14:36:34

About Me

I enjoy sports, playing and watching. I enjoy being around lots of people and quiet moments. I can also function appropriately in both settings and would hope the same for you. I just discovered I'm a little bit romantic (don't tell anyone, I have my image to consider). I am a very positive and happy person and would like to find someone who is happy and wants to have fun in life. I enjoy witty people and fun spirited banter. I want to buy an vacation home by the beach to run away whenever I want.UPDATE: Smokin' is fine as long as you are using in in a sentence to describe how I look, but other than that, not so much. I don't like the gym, I find it intimidating and don't really know what I'm doing in there. I prefer to bike, water sports, and I play softball and sand volleyball ***times a week. It just means I'm not desperate and everything has to start somewhere.For the 32 crowd: I do not "dislike" younger men and am flattered, I try not to make group judgments; however my experience is we rarely have much in common, are at different places in our life, I'm not interested in a hook up and yes, conversation is essential. Having said that, there are some very mature young men out there.For the ***crowd: I'm not looking for a hook up (not a judgment, just a clarification). Some clues I'm not the one for you: you ask to borrow anything (money, car, phone, etc.), you have more pet bowls than place settings, your eyes and your toes haven't met in years, you look or act 60, any part of the employment process makes you sweat(background check, drug test, etc.), you like skinny girls, there is no difference between your texting syntax and a business communication, the numbers ***mean nothing to your barber, you have 15 pics posted and none of them are smilng. I would enjoy a sporting event or something a little quieter for good conversation. I'm pretty easy going and could have fun almost any where with the right company. Going for a nice motorcycle ride in the cool evening, running through sprinklers, or just sitting by the lake talking. I don't set expectations and enjoy letting the moment dictate the situation....

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Athletic

  • Height

    5'2"

  • Eye color

    Green

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Lily from Lewiston | Woman | 44 years old | Sagittarius
    Lily

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    Woman. 44 years old. Zodiac sign: Sagittarius.

    Looking for: man. In age: 41-51

    I love laughter and am very attracted to people who can make me laugh. I can be very funny at times, and at other times very serious. I especially appreciate sarcastic humor. I love my dogs, my cats and my son. They are all my babies.What do I want? That's what I'm trying to figure out. Right now, I want to date and find out what is important to me in a man. After a long term, passionless relationship, I feel the need to get to know many people to figure out what is right for me. If the right man comes along, I will not turn him away, but I'm not rushing to find him. First I want to find out more about what I want.Update ***and ongoing:I have been dating and observing those traits that work for me as well as those that don't, so I thought I'd mention those traits here as a way of keeping track.I have appreciated the men who have:1) been affectionate/used terms of endearment to refer to me - I am a sucker for this2) been kind/treated me well3) expressed their attraction to me with class and/or passion4) had great senses of humor5) had a similar mindset as mine6) been direct and real with me7) helped me step outside my comfort zone8) been a friend first and a potential romantic partner second9) Bonus points to the guy who helped me look for my car for an hour when I couldn't remember where I parked it. You're awesome! (At least you were until we got to number 8 below.)I have not appreciated the following actions in the men I have gone out with:1) I did not appreciate showing up for a first date and seeing my date groping another woman; telling me I look great does not make up for this.2) I did not appreciate being stood up because my date was too drunk to show himself; no I will not reschedule.3) I did not appreciate the men (yes, plural) who have expressed their undying adoration for me but have then abruptly stopped talking to me the first time I refused to send them naked pics. Guess what. These men still don't have naked pics.4) I do not appreciate when someone says they want to go out with me, but then refuses to do so. WTF?5) I do not appreciate the date who tries to push beyond my stated physical boundaries. If I set a limit, I mean it. Oh, and I'm a black belt in karate so watch out ;***I did not appreciate the guy who chatted with me nonstop for two weeks and then stopped cold turkey with no explanation. If you decide you hate me, can you please just tell me and not make me wonder what happened?7) I did not appreciate the guy who whenever I asked him a question online, he'd give me one word answers, and then invited me to his house for the SOLE purpose of taking care of his boner. Have a personality first, people.8) I did not appreciate the guy who told me that he wanted a long term relationship just because the thought that was what I wanted to hear. Not wanting a long term relationship will not take you out of my dating pool. Being dishonest probably will, though.Please understand that with very few exceptions, I enjoyed almost every date I've been on (yes, even with the groper.) I enjoy the humor in these situations and just generally enjoy going on a date. It makes me feel alive.As I continue to date, I will continue to update this list until such time as I am ready to settle down! :)

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  • Nancy from Lewiston | Woman | 41 years old | Pisces
    Nancy

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    Woman. 41 years old. Zodiac sign: Pisces.

    Looking for: man. In age: 38-48

    I am out "fishing" for a great guy who is as easy going as I am. I love people, animals and being social. I have a good job, great friends, and a supportive family. I have so much to offer but I would like to find a friend first who can eventually become my partner in life.! It would be a great place for a first date :) LOL. Uh,,,Disneyland anyone?? Kidding :)The usual coffee meeting and maybe a walk in a park would be comfortable.

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  • Ashlee from Lewiston | Woman | 44 years old | Gemini
    Ashlee

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    Woman. 44 years old. Zodiac sign: Gemini.

    Looking for: man. In age: 41-51

    Movies, music, travel, coffee, art.... I just like to go and do! Family is my first priority-I am a single mom and that's what's most important to me. I just got accepted to grad school for my 2nd MA and am fairly content with life as it is... I'm looking for someone to be the icing on the cake so to speak. I'm super busy and sometimes making plans with me can be a challenge. I like all kinds of music with the exception of most rap and scream metal. Live music and live sporting events are my favorites... I'm not too big on televised sports. I'm not a slug, but I'm not a fitness geek either so if you're looking for a workout partner, I am not your girl. I'm old-fashioned, so make the plans, bring me flowers, open the door, text me first ha ha! And if you don't have a profile picture, I appreciate you looking at mine, but don't message me. And if I don't message you back, it just means that you're not my type, but I do appreciate the fact that you took the time to contact me. Dinner, coffee, galleries, concert, ice cream...

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