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Gretchen, 42

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About Me

Hello,I like to have fun, appreciate life, its beauty and journeys it has to offer. I have a playful, warmhearted, and loyal disposition. I take pride in keeping my body and mind healthy and in shape. Some of my interests are; trying new restaurants, hiking, nature, fashion, working-out, friends/family, traveling, art, watching movies, socializing, night out on the town, concerts, and relaxing at home. I believe opportunities arise for a reason, so I have an open mind. I love music! Anything I can dance to; hard rock, alternative, electronic, hip hop, house, pop, indie, country and more. It's an amazing feeling seeing people smile and laugh. I would like to share that with someone special. Attraction can come in mysteriously different ways. I like a man who is; affectionate, enjoys being social, active, or happy just watching movies, has a silly/goofball side, witty humor, traditional values, and his words match his actions. It really comes down to a man I can be best friends with, share interest, chemistry and embrace life's ups &With all that said, I prefer to exchange dialouge and meet in person. I think that makes for a real connection. Who's ready for an adventure? A comfortable atmosphere to delight in each others company over yummy food, tasty drinks (doesn't have to be alcohol) and good conversation. It mainly depends on the person, just bring on the smiles. :)

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Athletic

  • Height

    5'6"

  • Eye color

    Hazel

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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    Woman. 45 years old. Zodiac sign: Aquarius.

    Looking for: man. In age: 42-52

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