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Bertha, 27
United States, Maine, Bangor

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I am a single mother of two beautiful children. My daughter is 8 and my son is 4. They are my whole world, but quite sheltered from my dating life, not that there is much of one to speak of, but men that I date do NOT get introduced to my children until I feel it is time. I'm a loud mouthed, ball busting sort of woman, with a very soft heart, who's very passionate and emotional, but I don't take any shit. A little edit to this whole thing, I'm a die-hard smoker. I try to quit every once in a while, but if I do, it will be MY choice, I'm not hurting anyone but myself, and I'd rather go out happy and smokin than miserable and nervous, lol. Anyways, back to my diatribe. I denied for a long time that I was country, but I won't lie, I have a lot of good southern values, with a bit of a rocker/hippie/poet twist to it. I'm a traditional woman in that I want a home, a husband, and to care for my children. I was raised to care for my man in all the ways most women today don't. I'm not on here looking for sex, or someone to simply hang out with. I've plenty of friends to do such things with. I'm looking for someone intelligent, kind, well read, and most of all, decent. I don't want anyone who has no idea what they are looking for, such confusion has no place in my life. I have a direction in my life, and I'm fighting hard to get there. Music is a huge part of my life, it frees my soul and calms me on a bad day. I have an ipod in my head and it's always on shuffle. Everything reminds me of a song, not that I sing at the wrong moments or anything, lol. I'm young, but don't count me out, I have a very old and (sometimes) wise soul. I crave a depth in a man that I've yet to find, but when I do, I will hang onto it and not let go. I'm also a writer, I get asked a lot on this site what my hobbies are, and being a full time mommy doesn't let me have many, but writing and singing are huge for me. I listen to all types of music, mainly being country and blues. I sing, so it's got to have a melody for me to sing to, or I'm not happy with it. I think I may stop rambling now, but I will say this, if you've gotten to the end of this, and you think that I'm some rambling, demanding person, you'd probably be right. I'm a talker to the end, and I'm a complete open book. I'm never boring, never not wanting to talk, always asking why, and tenacious as they come. Anyone that gets with me would have to be okay with that and a ton more, so if you think you're man enough to handle me, go ahead and message me. I'll respond. I'd like a nice dinner, a nice wine, and excellent conversation.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Other

  • Body type

    Curvy

  • Height

    5'6"

  • Eye color

    Green-gray

  • Smoke

    Yes, regularly

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

R&B Techno British Caribbean Middle Eastern Motorcycle Racing
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