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Vonda, 44

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About Me

Over the last several years I've learned, for the most part, you can not take yourself or much of life too seriously. I work hard and am passionately committed to my faith, my son and my small circle of friends/family. Life is meant to live and enjoy embracing the joy of life, even amidst the "chaos".Based on some of the messages I've received on here, I feel the need to make a couple points of clarification so nobody, including me, wastes their time. I typically don't answer messages without images. It has nothing to do with judging a book by its cover, rather it feels like I'm communicating with somebody who's hiding part of themselves and that's uncomfortable and unattractive to me. In addition, I have no interest in random hook ups or sexting. No disrespect to anyone utilizing this site for such, it's just not who I am and those messages are uncomfortable. Ok...clarifications made! I look forward to meeting new friends and wish anyone reading this much luck and success! First dates are kind of awkward by nature. In my opinion, an ideal first date is something that enables enough interaction to get a good sense of the person I'm spending my time with and potential chemistry. I'm not looking to be impressed with venue, I prefer the opportunity to speak to and get to know the person I'm meeting, to a flashy venue.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'4"

  • Eye color

    Green

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

SIMILAR PEOPLE

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  • Consuelo

    Online

    Woman. 44 years old. Zodiac sign: Aries.

    Looking for: man. In age: 41-51

    Hi,I'm a 40-something woman looking for someone who is looking to meet someone cool and see where it goes. I'm a hard working, caring, intelligent, passionate giving person and I give my all in a relationship. I'm not going to jump into anything, but prefer taking time getting to know someone as I believe a lot of people just jump in without taking the time to know the person and build a friendship which I believe is a solid foundation to any relationship. I have my own business, have a home, a few hounds running around the yard and I work a bit, but my job allows for some flexibility so that I can pretty much do what I want. I'm looking for someone who is honest, trustworthy, intelligent, has a good sense of humor, confident, can dress it up in a nice suit and kick it back in cargos and a t-shirt. I love music of all kinds, love live music, and I would love to travel more as well. I'm not a clubbing person, but I do like to go out for some drinks and a good dinner just as much as being home taking in a good movie with the right person.I'm close to my family, most of them are local and have a great set of friends, just looking for the man who i feel chemistry with, is kind, interesting, mentally stimulates my mind, intrigues me and who is excited about starting that next chapter in life as I am. A first date I would think we should do something where we could sit down and get to know each other and see if there's that "connection," so probably meet for coffee or a drink and see how it goes.

  • Lorraine

    Online

    Woman. 42 years old. Zodiac sign: Taurus.

    Looking for: man. In age: 39-49

    I'm new to using an online dating site and am just looking around to see what it has to offer... When I decide if I plan to stick around for a bit I will update my profile description... Thanks for taking a peak at my profile and enjoy your day! =)

  • Tisha

    Online

    Woman. 42 years old. Zodiac sign: Leo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 39-49

    I am true to form. I am just as my pictures display. I love to meet new people and make new friends. I have two kids who are my entire life, so if you're willing to meet me, you must know that my children are my priority and you would be an added bonus to my life. I like to surf, kayak, run, bike-ride long paths, ski, fish, hunt, box....and now that I've got your attention, I really don't like to do all of that stuff. I am a smartass, I curse, I drink, I laugh LOUDLY in public because I am not shy nor do I keep my thoughts to myself.. Having said all this, I am not mean or cruel and I do not make fun of anyone's inability to make me laugh....Wait long enough and I will make a fool of myself anyway...:-) I am a fantastic mother, and one day, in the teenage years, my kids will probably hate me..:) I can be your best friend as well as a great girlfriend and all the while joking around and enjoying life to the fullest. Take a chance.. Great things come in small packages..(and I do have 4" heels, just so you know).....:-) Things to consider if you're NOT interested: if you have negative things to say to me about my appearance or pictures, PLEASE move on and tell someone who cares.. I don't need negativity in my life!....& you are not worth the air I breathe..:). And if you want to "hit it and quit it", again, please pass me by.. I am not on-line to find my next 'booty-call'. I don't want to waste your time with saying 'no', don't waste my time by asking..:)Thank you and now back to 'Fishing'..:) First date is scary and unsettling but exciting at the same time. I am up for an initial encounter to see if we click, and then the rest is up to whatever will become. I like talking and getting to know a person. I'm not the girl your mother warned you about, she would never have an imagination this good...:)

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