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Vonda, 44

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About Me

Over the last several years I've learned, for the most part, you can not take yourself or much of life too seriously. I work hard and am passionately committed to my faith, my son and my small circle of friends/family. Life is meant to live and enjoy embracing the joy of life, even amidst the "chaos".Based on some of the messages I've received on here, I feel the need to make a couple points of clarification so nobody, including me, wastes their time. I typically don't answer messages without images. It has nothing to do with judging a book by its cover, rather it feels like I'm communicating with somebody who's hiding part of themselves and that's uncomfortable and unattractive to me. In addition, I have no interest in random hook ups or sexting. No disrespect to anyone utilizing this site for such, it's just not who I am and those messages are uncomfortable. Ok...clarifications made! I look forward to meeting new friends and wish anyone reading this much luck and success! First dates are kind of awkward by nature. In my opinion, an ideal first date is something that enables enough interaction to get a good sense of the person I'm spending my time with and potential chemistry. I'm not looking to be impressed with venue, I prefer the opportunity to speak to and get to know the person I'm meeting, to a flashy venue.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'4"

  • Eye color

    Green

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Renee

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    Woman. 41 years old. Zodiac sign: Aquarius.

    Looking for: man. In age: 38-48

    i am a very generous, caring person. many times that ends up coming back to bite me but i wont change who i am. i naturally like to take care of and spoil people. i am looking for someone who is fun, and most importantly, has a great sense of humor but beyond that- just be honest. it's simple i'm not picky. if we are laughing, it's a great date

  • Shanna

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    Woman. 41 years old. Zodiac sign: Aquarius.

    Looking for: man. In age: 38-48

    I am a single mom working as an RN in a day-surgery type center, in the recovery room, in the burbs. I love music; especially that of a punk rock nature and hope to come across someone that shares my taste in music. I love going to see live shows but it's always more fun when someone goes with you. I have a sarcastic sense of humor for the most part, but a good one just the same. Chillin with beer in front of the tv is a great time just as getting all dressed up and going to a five star restaurant is. I am wise in time but young at heart. I refuse to grow old or be old. (not to be confused with a lack of maturity) I'm flexible and am extremely giving of myself when it comes to somone I care about. My kids are of course the most important things in my life but my heart is big enough to share. Please understand upfront though, there is no competition; they come first! I am very passionate in some ways but also very relaxed and easy going. I'm prideful and independant as all single mothers are so don't be intimidated or take it personally. I do know how to let go and relinquish the reigns every now and then ;) I enjoy deep conversations, as well as silly ones. I don't believe in lieing; my honesty can be brutal at times but at least it's truth. Reading good books and watching old movies are favorite past times. Audrey Hepburn is my favorite actress. I most definitely do not fit the soccer mom profile. I have a style all my own. Something that makes me unique: I collect Gone With the Wind items. It has always been my favorite movie for as long as I can remember... The whole young, beautiful Irish girl... spoiled.... the man of her dreams.... what else would you expect from an Irish girl of today?What am I looking for? Well first and foremost you must be a man. Yes, I mean that in every sense of the word: physically, emotionally, metaphorically! Someone with a sense of humor, strength, passion, respect, not afraid of commitment, honest, trustworthy, friendship, chemistry....be open to whatever may come. I am not looking for someone to complete me, fix me or take care of me! My kids complete me. Life has thrown me a few punches and I've been beaten but I'm not broken. And I take care of myself just fine. A first date can be anything.... a concert, pool and beer (I like pool but not a champion by any means), dinner, dessert, coffee, drinks.... really anything is up for discussion.

  • Helen

    Online

    Woman. 41 years old. Zodiac sign: Scorpio.

    Looking for: man. In age: 38-48

    ***Well I've been off here for a few weeks & I'm not so sure I'm going to stay much longer. I'm going to be starting classes in Oct & working towards making a change in my life. Not really sure how dating anyone is going to fit in unless it's the totally right situation for me. >>Starting to think that being on here is like hearing that horrible song "How much is that doggie in the window" looped over & over!!UPDATE** You lookin to upgrade? ;****New- seriously do not want to see your naked pics & I won't be sending any. C'mon really! I've barely been on here a week & already considering taking it down. I like to have fun & drink when I'm free but don't insult my intelligence with stupidity! Thanks now on to the real stuff. I like being with someone who makes me smile & likes to have fun. I like to sing & go for walks & chill out by a fire. I love music but mostly rock & country. Anything from Five Finger Death Punch to Jason Aldean. My kids come first in my life & if they don't like you then I won't either. I'm looking to go back to school & get out of retail hell within the next year if not sooner & want someone that isn't lazy or selfish. Somewhere with lots of people so its not so stressful & awkward.

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