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Vonda, 44

Offline, last seen Mon, 09 Feb 2026 10:31:39

About Me

Over the last several years I've learned, for the most part, you can not take yourself or much of life too seriously. I work hard and am passionately committed to my faith, my son and my small circle of friends/family. Life is meant to live and enjoy embracing the joy of life, even amidst the "chaos".Based on some of the messages I've received on here, I feel the need to make a couple points of clarification so nobody, including me, wastes their time. I typically don't answer messages without images. It has nothing to do with judging a book by its cover, rather it feels like I'm communicating with somebody who's hiding part of themselves and that's uncomfortable and unattractive to me. In addition, I have no interest in random hook ups or sexting. No disrespect to anyone utilizing this site for such, it's just not who I am and those messages are uncomfortable. Ok...clarifications made! I look forward to meeting new friends and wish anyone reading this much luck and success! First dates are kind of awkward by nature. In my opinion, an ideal first date is something that enables enough interaction to get a good sense of the person I'm spending my time with and potential chemistry. I'm not looking to be impressed with venue, I prefer the opportunity to speak to and get to know the person I'm meeting, to a flashy venue.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'4"

  • Eye color

    Green

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Freida

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    Woman. 44 years old. Zodiac sign: Pisces.

    Looking for: man. In age: 41-51

    I am a single lady, never married with no children. It was not in God's plans for me to have a family of my own in my early adult years, but I have never given up hope of finding love again and eventually marriage. I love sports, so if that isn't one of your hobbies I suggest you keep searching for someone you may have more in common with... I play softball, golf and I run marathons and other distances. I love watching Royals baseball and all NFL and college football games, in person and on TV. I've had a few different career paths in my life which have brought me where I am today, an account executive in the promotional products industry. I love the flexibility of my job and the choice to work from my home, it allows me to spend my time the way I want. Family is very important to me, I spend a lot of time with mine and would love to add someone else's family to the mix. I've always enjoyed a variety of different music genres my favorites being classic rock, r&b and hip-hop, but love to explore new music, especially live... it's been on repeat since last week. I have a golden retriever and would officially call myself a dog lover. Community service is a big part of my life, volunteering my time to help others and the community I live in has a special place in my heart and in my weekly schedule. I think first dates when you are meeting someone should be brief, casual and in a public place. Meeting for coffee, lunch or a happy hour drink seems most appealing to me. I

  • Nicole

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    Woman. 43 years old. Zodiac sign: Aries.

    Looking for: man. In age: 40-50

    Never married hard working busy single mom of 1 looking to add some more grownup fun in her life. . I am lucky I have great friends. I love my life, I'm just missing someone to share it with. I believe in chemistry, a good laugh, a strong hug, stimulating conversation, a nice glass of wine, and romance. I am real, independent, and have a huge heart. I can be a little stubborn at times, it is just that I am passionate :). I'm told I look younger than my age. I like to dress up as much as lounging around. I prefer dinner parties than dinner outs - so much more intimate. It doesn't mean I don't enjoy a nice dinner out, and a little dancing once in a while. I enjoy hockey, baseball, and football. This also makes me a little competitive :)And I am so much more... I speak 3 languages!!!If you read this and it makes you smile, why not write me?Have a great day! I think when we talk we would have a better idea of what we would like to do. I find somewhere public is always best for a first date. Like grab a coffee and go for a walk in one of our great neighbourhoods.

  • Ericka

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    Woman. 42 years old. Zodiac sign: Aquarius.

    Looking for: man. In age: 39-49

    Day shift worker that likes to hang out, shoot pool, spend time with friends and family. Love motorcycles and warm weather and the beach and boating. I would stay inside for the entire winter if I could. And I am NOT an amazing driver in the snow. Old soul... I like 70's and 80's rock. Recently quit smoking so still pretty vulnerable there. I like to go to the gym but I need a little guidance. I am an independent woman that is looking to give up some of that and find a good man... no a great man that I can take care of and is willing to take care of me. I prefer a man who is tall, has a great sense of humor, has a soft side but is also confident without being controlling.

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