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Carey, 41

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About Me

Okay so trying a new profile... I am not your typical woman or rather not what you would typically find on a site such as this. I married young and was married a very long time. I am not exactly sure what I am looking for by joining a site such as this. I do know what I am not looking for. I am totally not interested in sex. That is not to say I do not like sex or that I am anti sex.. lol... it is just to say that if I man wants to have sex with me.. he has to pass a few goals before getting there lol. I believe if faithfulness within a relationship and believe in honesty. In my opinion.. communication is the most important key to any relationship. If you have issues with communicating.. please do not contact me. I have been down that road and refuse to be there again.Family is very important to me. I have two teenage children. They do live with me and sorry but they do come first in my life. If I were to ever meet a man that I felt was Mr. Right, I do understand the roles family would take in that situation. I am a Christian. God is very important to me. I can honestly say that I would never have made it through all I have survived had it not been for God. No man will ever come between me and my relationship with God. I enjoy a variety of activities. I feel I am a very open minded individual as long as it stays within normal morals and values range. Bottom line.. I know without a shadow of a doubt I would make a good match with a person who truely wants a relationship with a woman who understands and values a relationship. I would not match with anyone looking to be a player. I am hoping by changing my profile I will eliminate some of the individuals who have a let's say more sexual desire on this site. While I do enjoy sex.... I am saving myself for that special guy who will actually take the time to get to know me. First date... would depend on who I am with and where meeting him. If on this site.. would never go for anything other than a public meeting. On that note... do not expect to text me and then meet immediately... I kind of value me... and I want to be as safe about this as possible. The Internet is not the safest way for a female to meet people. However, I do want to say... I would not allow a man to pay for a date with me... expectations seem to stem from that and I refuse to feel obligated to anyone. :)

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Slim

  • Height

    5'5"

  • Eye color

    Hazel

  • Smoke

    Yes, socially

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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