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Lessie
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Woman. 45 years old. Zodiac sign: Gemini.
Looking for: man. In age: 42-52
** I'm getting some very nasty messages, in regards to messages I don't reply back. I've been called stuck-up, told I think I'm too good for this site, and a couple of not nice things.. 1. I don't log on here every single day. Give me time. 2. I have found that it's best to not reply at all, if not interested. I did reply to every single message with a polite reply.. and many men took that as encouragement, and not as "Thanks.. but, no thanks." 3. Vulgar messages will get you blocked.. immediately. Be a gentleman. 4. I don't date outside my race. Just my preference of attraction.. no other reason.**Ok.. This is my third time here, but I've never really given this site a fair chance. I usually delete after a couple of weeks. Not sure I'm comfortable being here or if I'll stay this time. We'll see. I didn't have a great experience here last time, but that was something really weird. But, what the hell? Life's about chances. I've just turned 45 and I'm divorced with three kids.. all over 18. They do their own thing. Being single for the last four years, has definitely been a time of self reflection, self awareness, self discovery.. It's been a slap in the face at times and wonderful at times. I went thru the kinda really sad stage- thinking I'd been dealt a raw deal in life and how unfair it was, how I'd be alone forever.. thinking I was the only one to ever be in that position. Of course, that was bullshit. I went thru the panic stage of thinking I had to have a date.. every weekend. Wrong. I went thru the I'm not gonna date again.. I don't need a man. Kinda true. I don't "need" one, but I want and desire one. I want him to be my best friend, as well as my lover. I desire someone to share things with.. for them to introduce me to their world and things they enjoy and are passionate about and them mine. Most of all, I've became comfortable and confident in my own skin.. with me. I like me, although I can always use some improvements. I love to travel, go out and do things.. especially dive bars and live bands. But, I also enjoy museums, movies, hiking. I love reading and can lose myself in a book for hours. I think rainy days are romantic and rainy nights are sexy. I try to exercise daily, but I don't love it. I fight weight and have lost over 50 lbs. I fight it daily. I love to cook, and I'm pretty good at it. I love to be barefoot and just hang out. But, I love dressing up and going out, too. I appreciate all genres of music. I love rock concerts, folk, and blues. I like a lot of musical artists that aren't really the norm. I try to be nice and tolerant to everyone. I don't care for anger and yelling. But, I do realize everyone is human. I'm not really interested in your bank account.. but, in your mind.. heart.. soul. The things that matter. I believe if you take time to find out about those things.. you'll have a true understanding of who each other are. From there.. respect, friendship, lots of fun and maybe even love grows stronger. I believe in giving as much as receiving, and having a mutual respect for one another as well as a true interest.Oh.. men seem to ask if women have went out with anyone from here. I have. I only agreed to meet two. I'm great friends and hang out with one, i just didn't feel attracted to him. The other I liked a lot, and was very attracted to, but a series of strange things happened. Long story. Neither, are on meetville now. Surprises are great.
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Lavonne
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Woman. 43 years old. Zodiac sign: Sagittarius.
Looking for: man. In age: 40-50
Oh! You're here, thank goodness! I thought you would never find me. I've been roaming around trying to find you! And who are you? Who is the man that's here to steal my heart...YOU are:The funny, intelligent, handsome type of guy that can hold me spellbound with a story or make me laugh until I cry. I love creativity and passion. Maybe it's your love of 80's music, you're baseball card collection or the fact that you moved across country with only a duffle bag- it doesn't matter. The right man not only fascinates me but also brings out the best in me. We push each other to be the greatest we can be. We boost each other's egos and leave short thoughtful messages for each other. If you're comfortable in your own skin and aren't afraid to expose your flaws, I think we will get along fine! And what about ME? Even the best things in life are better when shared with someone! I'm pragmatic but spontaneous. Nurturing but competitive. Peaceful but energetic. Funny but sarcastic. Loving but strong. I'm the kind of girl you can take home to Mom. I would rather be with a man who has big dreams and no money than a man with no dreams and big money. Truth is I'm just a nice girl (most of the time) who's looking for fun and companionship. If you would like to know more, just ask!
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Bettie
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Woman. 43 years old. Zodiac sign: Scorpio.
Looking for: man. In age: 40-50
OK guys, here's the deal. I am a single, fun-loving, successful woman looking for a great guy with a great career and a great attitude! I lead a happy life, I would just like someone to share it with. I have awesome friends and I love my family. But if you're looking for a woman who is smart, funny, sexy, financially secure, and a good person, then you know what to do. I would like to go somewhere more quiet where we can chat to get to know each other. Bars are too loud, movies too quiet. A nice dinner in a decent restaurant or even a cup of coffee would be a great start.